I want to make out with my girlfriend but I just dont know how I should make the move

I want to make out with my girlfriend but I just dont know how I should make the move, I mean we have been going out for six months now and we have talked about it before hinting and stuff but I dont want to move in fr it if she is not ready, I would...

never want o make her feel like I was making her do something that she doesent want to do. how can I do this without upsetting her and where should I do this?movie, alone at the house?

Just give her a hint, it doesn't mean actually asking her. Just give her a hint, and if she doesn't want to you'll probably know. About the place, try somewhere alone, the movies is a nice place.
Hope I helped,
~*~Lori~*~

Start by spending a nice evening together and just chatting and having fun. Try to be somewhere were you can be alone (like at home without parents!). If you want to make out with her maybe you should talk about it. Ask her if you can kiss her and if she wants to make out a bit. If you tell her that you don't want her to do anything she isn't ready for then she shouldn't feel pressured and will probably respond a lot better. Take your time! you have all your life!!!!

Wow... I just wanted to say... you've been going out for six months and still haven't kissed and made out? That's sweet of you guys. It sounds like you really have something special that you can be together for that long before getting "sexual" in any way. Or maybe my friends and I are just fast... because I've never waited to kiss someone for that long. My advice would be to just go for it. I hate making the first move, and if I'm going out with a guy then I KNOW I want to kiss him. So I would say she probably wants to too... she's just like most girls, and wants her guy to make the first move. Did you ask HER to go out? If you did, then just think of it the same way... pick up your courage, and just go in for it... talk close together, and get really whispery, grab her head in your hands, and just KISS her. The first time is always the hardest, but after that... at least the pressure's off and you're much calmer. Well, I hope that helped some. Good luck!

wow that is along time 2 be going out w/out making out dude.
ok im assuming your pretty young and I am 13 so yeah kinda same box I guess cause I asked for advice on the same question. ok just wait until you are in a romantic part in a move (every movie has got one) then you just gently lean in to her. she will notice this and turn her head. tilt your head and kiss her on the lips mouth open just a little, put one hand on her hip and other hand on either her cheek or the back of her head. I hope this helps

P.S. you can also do this at your house or somewhere private b/c if its your first time you dont want your friends, parents, ect watching you ok.

Mikey

I think that you sound really sweet and your girl friend is lucky to have a guy like you. Mist guys would be into kissing the first week. but not you. you are a great guy to go out with her that long and not do anything she doesn't want to do. I respect you for that. Just ask her and tell her that you don't want her to feel pressured in any way. She'll propbably want to. good luck. -Caitlin

ok.. I love it when my boyfriend is like aggressive with it and just kisses me when im not expecting it. but he and him have already had sex and sometimes thats where the aggrssive kissing can get ya! lol. and im thinking yall are like 12 or somethin so I wouldnt want yall taking that big of a step.. so neways.. I agree, the only way you should start is by asking about it. it will open SO many doors for yall.. like itll be so much easier to talk about everything. youll be shy asking at first, but yall need to talk about stuff like that. just wait when yall are alone.. maybe give a hint like.. gently grab her chin and look into her eyes.. she should respond and move to you.. but if shes too shy move slowly to her.. if she pushes away just apologize.. shell be thinking about it the whole night

next time you guys are alone and your eyes catch just go for it im sure she wants to if uv talked about it and since uv been going out for so long

well 1st of all thats very sweet of you but its been so long and you guys havent kissed?maybe she really wants you to make a move and your just scared she"ll say no.just give it a try.do it when you think its the right moment because it can be anywhere you just never know.start leaning over and if she goes on with it she wants to if not that means no right?well I say you go for it because maybe shes the one that is getting tired of you not making the move.well good luck to u!bye!

Now that it is a year later, I really hope you've kissed her by now. But, come on, six months? She probably thinks you're a huge pussy by now and now you are just a friend. So kiss her hot friend. And then kiss her exactly 1.4 months later. Then she'll want you back. And then, if you can pull it off, kiss them both at the same time for the famous triple-kiss. Well, that is all the advice I can give for free, but rest-assured, I am a pro. Good luck my boy, good luck.

lol, I don't agree with matty at all..I'm going out with a girl for the 3rd time, asked her out saturday late night on the phone(around 11, stayed on till 2), and I'm sorta a noob to this, but I would suggest,(this is what I'm doing, and all my friends LOVE the idea), me and my friend richard are going to the movies, he's bringing kaylee, and I'm bringing my lovely jessica..and so, richard and kaylee are experienced at this, they don't go out, but they both kinda like e/o, just none know the other does..but I do =)

anyways, I'm going to start off by doing the yawn thingy, then laughing about how cheezy it was, then kiss her, just a peck, when she doesn't expect it, right afterwards, she loves it =)

then, I'ma be hugging on her, eventually have her leaning her head on my chest, then I'm going to pick up her chin and kiss, hold it out, and eventually make out..the key to getting into it is you peck, but hold it out, and eventually, the urge to make out is unbearable..trust me, you'll feel it..if you hold a peck, you want to do something more..just go for it man! I've done this one time, and it was awesome, but she sucked! >=0..she said I was good, but she was like scared of it, and, she spit all over me..nasty..anyways..just go for it man, my friend just followed the flow of what she was doing, but like I said, go for it, be natural, be yourself,(which is what she likes you for), and have a great time!

I would give more advice, but until saturday..

cya man

~Matthias

6 MONTHS AND you HAVENT MADE OUT!!! wow dude you got to get going lol um just start by kissing her a fewtimes in a row. B PASSIONATE! give her a longer one and see how she responds and if she is ok with it slowly slide your tounge in her mouth and move it around a lil and then bring it back in. just see how she responds. most likely she likes you enough and she wont have a problem. pce

ok im 15 years old and me and my girlfriend made out the first day we went out but maybe you guys arent like that see I used to be like that scarred to make the first move I know how you feel but after the first kiss is over you wont be scared no more trust me so next time you guys are alone put your arm on her hip use your other hand and put it on her cheek or on the back of her head and just a lil kiss and if she seems like she likes it or she dont back away open your mouth slightly and gently slide your tounge into her mouth and if she puts her tounge in your mouth then you guys just start makin out

there's really nothing to be scared about. just lean in for a normal kiss, then start kissing your girlfriend some more. then start using tongue. it doesnt help to practice, it just happens. everyone says they're really scared to makeout the first time. even I said that. but honestly, it's nothing. just make the first move, trust me, I'm a girl and girls love that

ok I've got experiance ok im a girl and I've been taken advantage of and it doesnt make me like the guy more but if you really want to make your move just go in for a normal kiss and then start using tongue trust me us girls love that lol just trust us people we know what it feels like to love someone and not want to hurt them!!

Best approach is keeping it simple for a first kiss. Like gg ok here’s the game plan, knock her off her feet with romance nothink too fancy, be your good ole smooth self. CONFIDENCE is the key buddy!!! Never forget that or you will crash and burn. You got to make the romantic gesture something special that shows that you listen and really understand her, something from the heart not $$$ though. Romantic gesture will get her in the mood.

Go on with your night then there’s like 1 moment when she might look into your eyes, DONT LOOK AWAY because this is your chance. Then just act all smooth like you have been doing and just go in. you make the move she should follow if she really wants too. Does it slow so if you don’t see her wanting too you can totally back out. Gg first kiss hold it for a bit mouth a lil open nothink fancy. You got to be sending her those signals. Before you can get in with the tongue and make it an art and go for what seems like forever you got to start small.

My girlfriend told me she wantes to make out the first time I went to her house, I took her and put her on the bed in front of me and laid beside her and started kissing her a lot. Then you just slide your tonque in once if she likes it you will feel her relax then you keep on doin it.