How can I become more girly?

I want to be more of a girly girl. I'm a total dork. I wear glasses keep my hair in a pony tail and wear baggy sweaters. I want to change but I don't know how. What should I wear? What should I do with My Hair? Should I keep my glasses? what should I do?

Good question! So many people ask how to improve their looks and leave zero info on what they actually look like!

So, my cute little dorky friend. I had the same problem that you did. I didn't know what was what. Firstly, go to your hairstylist and have her give you a different haircut. Something you are comfortable with, tell your stylist that you wann get out of dork mode and look more feminine, but you also need something that is easy to do because you're not used to styling your hair.

That's number one. Then, start wearing light lip glosses. Experiment with different colors and brands and you can go pretty dark with them because they are so light when you come on. Get used to seeing yourself with a bit of sheen on your lips. Then maybe a tad bit of light blush or light mascara (depending on how old you are--I didn't check). If you have a cool mom or older sister or friend of the family--ask her to help you find something that's you.

Then work on your wardrobe one item at a time. Just go and start trying stuff on at an inexpensive place like Target or Marshalls. GO ALONE. Just spend an afternoon trying on different fitted blouses, a dress maybe, some jeans stuff like that. Then try on shoes. Even if you think you won't like them, just try them on.

Learning how to be a girl takes practice and interest, that's all. You already have the interest, now just practice. Don't solicit for too much advice from women around you though--you'll go nuts listening to everyone's opinion on hair and make up.

Just baby steps. You can keep the glasses--maybe look into getting a funkier, hipper pair? Ask the people at the glasses shop--tell them you want something with personality that's a bit funky and feminine. They will totally help you!

Good luck!

Hey kacic2007! I am SUPER girly so I hope I can help! First of all I believe that every girl goes through this phase- wanting to look more mature, etc, so don't EVER doubt yourself for feeling like that. The best thing you can do through the entire progress is be confident in yourself, if you want people to notice you more and to notice the change you have to present yourself as a changed person. I don't mean start acting like a 'Mean Girl', but be proud to be who you are. As far as the actual physical femininity, let your hair down for a change! Try straightening it with friends maybe or do low pigtails (very stylish, cute, and easy). Start experimenting with glittery eyeshadows or lipglosses, etc. Don't do more makeup than you are comfortable with. Skirts and dresses are super flirty and fun, and can be worn with leggings if you aren't ready to be 'bare'. And personally I think you should keep your glasses (maybe get a more stylish pair with rhinestones?- look at what celebrities are wearing for ideas) because you can keep a part of your own personality with them, they are what sets YOU apart making you you. If that makes sense ahah. Don't let anyone change you- make the change for yourself! Hope you find your inner girl, I have faith in you!

wear pink and a lot of it Guys love the color

Well you can wear make up ,bright colors ,tighter jeans, talk more girly, hang out with girly girls, and flirt with guys

I was the same till year 8 I changed step by step get a new haircut and stuff wear some make ( mascara, lipgloss , a little foundation NOT TO MUCH other wise you will look like a clown lol ) and you dont have to wear pink you can wear bright colours instead of black and darker colours and such
hope I helped ]
good luck x

You want to be girly hey!!!

~You have to love the colour Pink!!! Just like me
~Don't keep your hair up all the time let it down do all sorts to your hair put it in diferent styles like piggy tails, plat it do all sorts.
~ Wear like jeans and t-shirts, dresses,skirts, shorts, boots, sandals, flip flops, wear pink clothes, white, black just really nice nice clothes.
~ Put make up on like powder, mascara, eye liner , blusher , Lip gloss
~ make be wear fake tan.
~ have your hair dyed to a nice colours maybe have pink in it.
~ I think foundation makes your face look greasy if you wear it it looks awful stick with powder its the best .
~ Your eyes have to stand out and your lips there the main too your eyes have to look dark and eyelashes long
~ get a lip gloss which makes your lip stand out like which gives them a shine and sparkle.

I can help, I'm a total girly girl.
Most Girly Girls don't dye their hair, but not me! So if you did that already its alright, but if you didn't try not to.
Ok, now lets get started.
1. You must wear tight Jeans, their comforable, or you might want to wear a skirt.
2.Some girly girls wear make up and some do.I sometimes do and don't.So try to get blush, lip gloss or lip stick, but lip gloss is more prettier.Maybe eye shadow.
3.Paint your nails, at least some do. You may paint them any kind of color, like pink, blue or purple.
4.Some girly girl curls their hair so try to do that.You may have both curled and in a ponytail.
5.Girly girls don't have fake tan, Fake girls have that.So you might want to tan outside in the sun.In a bathing suit and put your tanning lotion on.You may by those at stores like Target and Wal mart and a lot more.
6.Shop at Claires, Dusties and more girly stores.I have many, but I can't list them all.
7.You might want to wear high heels.If you get fustrated, like tripping and stuff.You need to take little steps at a time.They get more easier, trust me.

When it comes to eyeglasses you need to use the personalized service at http://www.ContactsandSpecs.com They can make you look the any way you want from girly to sexy to smart whatever just ask. Remember you get what you pay for and they are the best.

ok well...4 your hair ponytails are still ok,but try somethin else like crimping it,or making it
wavy!!
4 your glasses get contacts!!!
NO MORE BAGGY SWEATERS!!!
wear some really cute jr.clothes!!!

you could wear tight clothing or also skirts specially mini skirts you could leave your hair loose it looks good on girls and for the glasses it doent matter some girls look hot in glasses

hmmm well first yu should leave behind yr sweatshirts, . if yu have a nice body show it, and it not yu should be happy with what yu have c: and also let yur hair take a breather, keeping yr hair up in a pony-tail breaks yr hair, another thing is that yu should find some out fits that yu see the other girls wearing, try american eagle, holister, ect. yu might feel a little weird at first but after a while yu will feel so much more better about yr self, and maybe that guy yu.v been keeping yr eye on will put his eye on yu

-xoxoxo-Shannon c:

Ooooh, I LOVE this kinda stuff! ok so I think you should:
1) Get contacts or a really cute pair of glasses. If you do stick with the glasses the you should get a normal pair and a sunglasses pair.
2) Wear only a little makeup. if you wear 2 much people may say you are trampy. I sugest a little blush, mascara and eyeshadow or eyeliner. (eyeshadow is usally easier to apply). Also always have lip gloss with you. I am a girly girl and my mouth looks like it was covered in saran wrap it has so much lip gloss om it!
3) do diffrent things with your hair. high and perky ponytails are cute, but not for everyday. pigtails are cute 2! but dont do them high. tie them low and loose that way they look cute and kinda sexy, not girl scout. Alos straigtened hair is cute just worn down. Many girls have side bangs that they like to pin up or just leave down.
4) cute clothes that are fashoinable are eveywhere! I suggest skinny jeans, boot leg or flare jeans, skirts, legings, and skimps.abercrombie and hollister are my fav stores, I buy everything there exept for legings and skimps. You can get those an kohls or target. thats what I do. also use lots of camis for layering. abercrombie and hollister have lotz of lacy ones in fun colors.

write I will start with new cloths and work my way up. I was a tom boy and my mum broughtme new cloths and I started to change. then I started to put make up on
1)change cloths
2)put a little make-up
3)start to build your convidence
4)start to talk to other people

that is what I did and now I am popular I hope you take my advice. you willbe more girly in no time oh just add a little aditudie to yourself itmight getyou in trouble but you will be more cool!!!

wear your hear down more, lose the baggy sweaters, think pink

get rid of the glasses,wear contacts,ditch the baggy sweats and wear dresses and pantyhose