I want my ex back but he has a new girlfriend

Ok before you start to judge me you have to know everything that happened first. My ex and I dated for 8 months and at the beginning everything started off great. but towards the end of the school year everything went down hill. His grandmother started...

to say things life "Oh I cant wait to see you two married" and crap. then my dad (stepdad) was no help either because he never really like my ex. My biological father just started to come back into my life and made it a living hell at first. I caught my ex kissing his ex, he later confesed to me that he was going to cheat on me with another girl. And a few other things happend which I cant write. I was so broken hearted and also with a bunch of other things that was going on I just couldnt handel it.I started the new school year and I tried everything possible to see if he had any feelings towards me but I didnt get anything.(Note: later that year he told me that he did send my signals to show that he still loved me.) So I thought he had gotten over me so I tried to move on too. So I hucked up with another guy which was a nightmare and I broke it off several times. the first time I broke it off the first one I called was my ex to tell him the great news. but when I called he told me he had news too. so I told himto go first and he said that he had a girlfriend...for a secnd my heart stopped. With tears falling off my face I said oh wow im happy for you and hung up. I was then back with the other guy and finally I couldnt take it anymore so I broke up with him in feb. I was till in love with my ex and I was still talking to him. Finally we spoke for a very long time (till 3 in the morning) and we spoke about us and let out everything. In a way I got the feeling that he still loves me. and I let him know that I still loved him. but he doesnt want to hurt his girlfriend...I know we still have love for each other... but it seams like there is once again another obstical in our way that wont let us be happy. what should I do..I still love him...

ok well I dont know if this is going to help any but here it goes...my ex was the first guy I've ever loved we loved each other to the fullest and we did everything together. my mom didnt like him but she didnt say anything because I loved him...one day he cheated on me which hurt a lot when I found out...I gave him 3 or4 more chances and each time he hurt me... I finally broke up with him and he moved to florida...we got back together a little after that but we couldnt make it work because he kept on cheating...this past october I moved out on my own and met this new guy who I am with rigt now ...well back in november my ex came back and tried to get back with me but I could no longer trust him but I still loved him and I told him that...the guy am with now understands my hurts and helps me when I am down and I get scared that he is going to cheat me like my ex did...I am expecting a baby now and plan to get married soon. I dont think you ever stop loving the ex but the pain does go away eventually...it took about a year for me to stop hurting and truly I am not completely healed..but I have someone who does love me..so my advice is find someone else wo will love you and is willing to make some sacrifices for you. I know this is not what you want to hear but it has helped me...the hurt will one day pass and maybe you and youor ex will be together again but dont obsess over it because then you will just hurt more

hope this helps a tiny bit...write back if ya want

If you both truly loved one another NOTHING would stand in your way. He has a girlfriend he obviously likes, that should be enough for you to move on. Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words...If he still loved you...he would be with YOU!

first of all I think you should talk to him, straight out just ask him if he still has feelings for you. if its a yes then try and get together eventually if its meant to be nothing should be in your way. But if its a no then you have to move on it may be hard but over time a broken heart does heal.
if you choose to get over him you should:
- stay away from sad love films or songs
- stay away from anything that reminds you of him
- avoid seeing him as much as possible, because out of sight = out of mind
- try and go out as much as possible and have fun, stop you thinking about him
- try new things meet new people
- make a list of all the bad things you dont like about him or the bad things hes done to you, and the next time you see him instead of thinking of the memories think of what was on that list
- whenever you find yourself dreaming of him, think of something or someone that makes you smile eventually you wont think about him

hope this all helps
xxx

wrong guy sweetheart. im a guy thats the same as he is im sure. I promise he's a cheater. got away with it once he'll do it again. promise you that. and just let me say that if you and a guy break up over another girl or some crap like that. he's not the one. the one will come along and totally sweep you off your feet every single day that you lay eyes on them. I promise. I was in the same shoes as your in and I finally met my fiance and everytime I lay my eyes on her I fall deeper and deeper in love and its so amazing. but I promise youll know when you meet the right one. and he obviously has other feelings for somebody else. so all im sayin is move on and get you a real man and be happy! hope this helped!