Why don't boys turn me on?

But they don't. If one is going down on me or we are doing it or he is fingering me, I feel nothing but irritating friction in and out of me. I want to want s*x like boys want sex. I have tried 6 different guys and NONE got me off. And yes, I am...

bis*xual, but if I get really bad crushes on guys and love when they kiss me or hug me or feel me up then why can't they get me up s*xually? I would never want a real relationship with a girl because they don't get me emotionally attached like a boy can. but when I think about a girl and im touching myself then I get as excited as I wish I could for a guy. why why why?! I want to like boys so bad and its making me really mad because I feel like I'll never have a rounded relationship with a guy if I keep having to put a hold on the physical part of the relationship when everyone knows thats one of the things guys look forward to most in a girlfriend boyfriend relationship. and its just not fair.

help!

Well, me and you have a lot in common, I am also bisexual, and I wouldn't get attatched to a girl like I would with a lad. There are there to turn me on. Tips to get you turned on whilst you are with a lad would be maybe to watch sex on tape (lesbian is always good) and act it out afterwards. Or play with yourself handcuffing your other half up so it teases him. OR!!! Let him use a dildo on you. These are very stimulating, get a vibrating one but yeah I know they can cost a bit. No guy has ever made me org**m whilst sex because I am a toughie lol but finger yourself while they suck your nipples will help a lot.

PS the clit is the most sensitive and the G spot which is on the roof of the inside of your vagina... press it and it sends sensations!

you probably are a lesbian, reading what you said. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you for not liking boys in that way. You sould just try to accept the way you are, because no matter how much you try, you cant change the way you feel about that kind of thing.

I hope this helps.

GIRLIE DO WHAT MAKES you HAPPY TO ME ITS SOUNDS LIKE you DONT LIKE BOYS BUT ITS NOT REALLY SOCIALLY ACEPTED FOR you TO LIKE GIRLS SO THERE FOR THEY DONT EMOTIONALLY ATTRACT U. BUT LIKE I SAID BEFORE DO WHAT MAKES you HAPPY.

how old are u...u probably arent old enough to be havin sex...if you get emotionally attached to guys then I dont think your gay...u just arent fullly sexually developed or ready for sex

wow. you should email me
I think you and I are like the exact same. (in this area)
seriously we should talk
because I get HUGE crushes on guys
but sexually they just...dont do much for me.
email me at Fun mail me
or if you have myspace im

This is probably a bit different from what you've heard so far... You sound completely normal and straight to me, but have had some sexual disappointments already. There's a lot of life ahead, no worries.

The key to your enjoyment is probably more heart than sex. Sex for sex's sake is a physical sensation, lots of endorphines and all that, but when love is involved it multiplies everything, including the depth of physical pleasure.

What if you took it easy on the sexual exploits for a while and spent the same energy getting close to a person heart-to-heart, soul-to-soul? That's the best hook-up, really. When the time eventually comes that you're ready, giving yourself to the one you love -really love- will be a wonderful thing. Especially if they're focusing on giving to you at the same time. Giving's way-more enjoyable than taking or being taken. (my opinion anyway).

Good luck.

I think I am a lez or bi and where is the g-spot???

g spot is inside your vagina on the top... it is a kinda of a soft roof... press it and it sends feelings. this lets out some of your juices which will be held ready for release