I want a guy who has a girlfriend

ok.its this guy @ my school,hes going to the eleventh and me and his girlfriend are going to the tenth.he has been with his girlfriend since the beginning of the year basically (10 months) and before I knew him I knew her and she was a cool homegirl but...

then I started to like him and one of my friends told him and he was like "I like you too,I saw you last summer in summer school and I had the biggest crush on you but I thought you were a senior and plus I thought you didnt go here. so I was like yea I never saw you . so second semester we had a class across from each other and he would walk me to my fifth period because our fifth periods were close to each other. We talked on the phone for hours and we even shared a kiss that was so perfect and we wanted to be togheter so bad and we were always joking around and I wrote him this letter that was so inspirational and we would argue and makeup in 10 minutes and we just always had fun but then people told her that we were going out and she thought it was true but it wasnt and so we stopped being around each other so much but So I guess people saw us and told his girlfriend who by the way is a blue-haired "gang banger" and she can fight because duh,shes in a gang!lol but yea im not scarred of her or anything but I know she can kick my ass.but yea so people told her that we were kissing (which is not true) and we were "all up on each other" but all we were doing was hugging and playing around but they blew things out of porportion.So she stopped talking to me and we didnt talk at all and we would see each other in the bathroom and in the hall ways but we didnt say anything to each other.Then one day me and the guy went over my bestfriends house and we took a picture adn we put it on this website called and some of her friends saw it and she saw it and some of her friends went up tp my bestfriend to ask her who took the pics and where were we and that they the guys girlfriend wanted t fight me and so its summer school and you cant get onto trouble and plus my mom works at the school so I really cant get into trouble. but anyway someone snitched and we all got called to the office:they guy the girlfriend and me. we sat in the same room and he was in the middle and the dean asked us what was going on and we all explained what was happening and now they are back 2ghether and we dont talk at all anymore and I called him yesterday because it was my birthday and no one answered and I still want him and I know other people wont accept us going out because thats "so&so's man" but we dont have to go out right now or at least dont act like it at school and we can wait for another school yr os something but all I know is that we really liked each other and now we dont even talk and im not over and he said that he wanted to be with me and everything. I say im over him but im not and its been like a week and we havent talked and I want him SO BAD!!to get an idea of what are "relationship" is :listen to brandy "have you ever" and fantasia "truth is" and Usher "you make me want to" and "u got it bad" these songs describe our relationship.What should I do? should I get over him or try to talk to him and work something out or try to keep our "friendship"? PLEASE HELP ME AND IM 15, HES 16, AND SHES 15 ALSO.

well, he must have some strong feelings for his girlfriend if he didn't leave her for you. try to be just friends with him, not any type of a relationship with boyfriend and girlfriend, just friends. then if you do whind up being friends and him and his girlfriend break up, then try to make things go further. other then that I would say try to move on. if you guys aren't friends anymore because of that I think you would be better off finding someone else, and also if he did that to his girlfriend now, doesn't it make you wonder if he would ever do it to you? hope this helps and good luck =)

ok....trust me I know exactly how you feel.I am going through something almost exactly the same.I have liked this guy (who is 17 and I just turned 14)since like the begginning of last summer.we always text message eachother and we have hung out a few times.he is my best friends soon-to-be stepbrother so thats how I met him.but he has a girlfriend who he has been with since like this august.I dont like her and she dont like me because she knows that I like him.we used to kind of be friends.she is a major slut and he can do so much better than her...like me.lol.but I am pretty much in love with this guy he is all I ever think about.him and his girlfriend are hardly ever together and I am almost positive she cheats on him.but before they started dating my best friend(his soon-to-be stepsister) who is my age and him always talked about how he liked me and I liked him.he didnt want that many people to know if we went out tho because of the age difference and he might get in trouble.but he is still with the b*tch and I desperately want him.listen to "true by ryan cabrera"if you want to know how I feel.I seriously would do anything to be with him and of course me and his girlfriend want to kill eachother.but I really want him he is the biggest crush I have ever had in my life.he is almost 18 but our age isnt that big of a difference to us.my best friend tels me they wont last and I hope she is right!good luck!and remember I know how you feel. ^.^

ok tnis has happend to me to this really hot guy I liked was going out with a b*tch and we liked each other and his girlfreind was like dont you even thank of doing anythang with him he is mine.so we started to talk and hang out and then his girlfriend saw us one day and we got in to it and thay were done and we started to go out.ok here is what you do go to him and kiss him and tell him how you fell and kiss him agine and go to his girlfriend and slap her.then tell her he is yours

haha, umm yea I am going throufh the exact same thing right now. Exapt well he dumped his old girlfriend and I dumoped my boyfriend, so like yea, he asked me out yesterday, and I said yes, but his old girlfriend kinda hates be now

I feel ya girl!

and it feels like theres nothing you can do about...
I really dont think theres anything you can do about it...
but when I really start thinkin about him...I just daydream about us being together...and I how I would just LOVE to have him hold me in his arms forever. we would be the perfect couple. just like barbie and ken theyd call us...if only

so I just say dont lose hope...
cause theres nothing better than being with the one you truly love, even if its in your dreams

...and plus, theres a reason why they call it a "crush"