I want a baby

me and my husband have been married for 3 years and I want a baby. He says that we should wait 5 more years he is MAD because I want a baby now not when Im all wrinkled and old. My docter said that im in the years of my life in were im very fertile im 21...

years old its not that we have financial rpoblems because we dont we have our own mansion with pool and plenty of place for our babys to have fun and we have plenty of cars that are very safe hummer ,mercedes. bmw and we even bought a brand new Ferrarri what else can I ask for I WANT A BABY how can I confince my husband and I want it to be a boy too! please help me!

quit being selfish. it takes two to make a baby. if he isn't ready then don't pressure him. the baby would be just as much his as it would be yours so don't have a baby for yourself if HE isn't ready. make a compromise or something.

and I highly doubt you'll be old and wrinkly at 26.

Your husband wants to leave you because of a ferrari, you cant figure out how to deal with that situation, and you think you're mature enough for a baby?
Babies are not little toys for you to play with when you want and then put aside when you get bored. Your money, cars and house are not going to take care of the baby.
If he doesnt want the baby, then like tinatodder said, the baby is as much his as it is yours. Do you want a baby to grow up with a father who doesnt want it?

Marraige is a partnership. You have to want to comprimise for it to work... especially with the big issues, like creating extra humans to take care of for the rest of your lives.

You should definitely wait a little bit, like tinatodder said, 26 is still pretty young and you need to wait until you both can reach an agreement on having a child. Remember, babies require at least 18 years of constant care,thats almost as old as you are, and you need to really think, not just think for a day, or a week, or a month, but a very long time of all the responsibilities of having a baby. I have read your other questions, it doesn't sound like you're mature enough to handle a child, either, and having to choose, as ty said, between a ferrari and your husband, indicates that your marrage is material based and not very stable. Focus on eachother more and really get to know your spouse and his dreams, maybe you can work it in a littly bit later. The way you phrased your question made it seem like you just expect him to spoil you. I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt on whether you are or not.

im not selfish and my husband and I really love each other but I guess its true I should wait until we both agree in a baby and im not spoiled or a brat eather you hurt my feelings

umm... you have a "mansion" in New York? dought it. you are only 19. you dont have any of that crap .

im 21 and I was born in new york I currently live in North Carolina

umm... yur age on profile sais 18...

that profile was created by a friend who was a bit confused about my age plus why in the world would I lie about something as simple as having a ferrrarri its not like their expensive of anything plus I really dont care if people believe me or not as long as I know im not lying

ok... W/E you say... I like how you put in "Farrari, its not like they are expensive or anything" just proves you are lying about your life to make everyone fell like they are below you

OMG I dont feel untop or under no one you are a very hard headed person but that fine. Im glad that I have what I have God has blessed me very much and if I offended you in any way Ask for forgiveness I hope you wont have hard feelings I honestly dont like to argue.