I want a lapdance but she's shy

ok I want a lapdance but my girlfriend is a little shy when it comes to theese things and I have asked her once and she said umm and then said later as in a while (a long while) . Any way its been a while and ya how do I convince her to give me one???...

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well at dances me and my friends hang out with these guys and they will say hey how about a lapdance and we give them one but they think we think there playing around which we now they arent and its easy just when you guys are siting down say how about a lapdance. I will give a guy a lapdance as long as it makes them happy most girls are that why if ya keep asking shell come around because after she gives you one shell give them to you freele thats how I do it

well first don't ever force her thats a huge turn off. but chances are she is just afraid she won;t know what she is doing just hint a little(don't beg!)give her gentle incuregment( im a bad speller I no just ignore it)just have fun no stressin just have fun if it doesn't turn out well just be forget about it it's no big deal, good luck!

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Judging by ALL your questions, you sound like your only in a relationship for some fun. If my boyfriend would have asked me to give him a lapdance when I was 14, I would not have thought too nicely of him. Why dont you start respecting her as a person, not some object!

Never ever ever force a girl into doing something she is uncomfortable with. And "asking" a girl to do this, or anything else of that nature is disrespectful, and degrading to the women.

giving lap dances is always fun, but you need to make sure she's comfortable enough with you to do that. or she will be nervous, and neither of you can enjoy that. (:

if she's not comfortable with it, then either find someone who is.. or get over it.