I want to get pregant

Ok im 14 and ve wanted to get pregant for the past year and my mom said if I got pregant then I would ruian my life and I agree but I love kids so much it kills me to see my friends and there babies ! What should I do ???

dont do it! your moms right it will ruin your life..ull have plenty of time for kids when your REALLY ready for them

Your mom is right - just because you love kids doesn't mean you could raise one. I love kids too and I wouldn't be able to support one. Your friends are irresponsible, don't follow their lead. Make the right choices in life, someone needs to. Focus on your education, enjoy your youth, you have lots of time.

your way to young to have a kid yet! even though you love kids wait awhile!

You should listen to your mom. After All, who would raise the baby while you're at school? Who would pay for everything for the baby? Who would give the baby a place to live? Who would end up watching the baby while you want to go out and have fun? If you answered any of these questions with "my mom" then you need to respect what she says. After all, if you have a baby then you should be able to pay for all the babies needs with your own money, you should be able to provide a house for the baby to live in (by yourself), you should be able to pay for a daycare or a babysitter while you're at school or going to a school function.

You're too young, experience the world, have fun. Have a baby when you're older and have a stable home life, not now when you'd have to rely on someone else to pay for your baby.

If you want some of the experience of raising kids, take a baby-sitting course through your local Red Cross and start a business sitting. Start off with family or family references. Some of your friends who have babies will be delighted to have a night where someone else will be watching their child.
Babies are indeed precious things. They are also greedy, self-centered, squalling, dirty, sleep robbing, relationship destroying little monsters. If mother nature hadn't stacked the deck to also make them so precious, humans would have died out immediately.

Right now all you see is the cuteness. The rest of their nature is not a big deal IF you are old enough and mature enough. Hopefully in your twenties. With a husband to help raise your baby, because they are VERY demanding and with two people to help each other, the job is much easier, and leaves both parents with enough energy to be positive role models.

Right now your job is to stay in school, do as well as you can, (go to college if possible), start a career, and meet your husband-to-be (who also has a career). That way you will be able to give your baby the best chance at a wonderful life.

Good Luck!!

colethky is right!

Having a child at 14 would be the most irresponsible thing that you could do. You still depend on your mother to provide for you, so you are in no position to have a child! You have a whole life full of opportunity that your friends will NOT be able to experience, you have your whole ADULT life to have as many children as you would like. You should want to be able to provide a wonderful life for your children, thats why you should get out of high school and find a career that would able you to provide for yourself and children. Good lord please make the right choice and be responsible, listen to your mother she is right honey.

first of all-- why do your friends have babies?
and secondly--at the age of 14 have you been TRYING to get pregnant for the past year?!

I love babies too. whenever I see one I always say "I WANT ONE NOW!!!" sometimes when my period's late I kind of wish it would stay that way, but then I think...in reality if I got pregnant right now, it would ruin all my plans. I want to transfer schools next semester and improve my health. I want to be able to walk down the aisle and get my feet on the ground without having to look like I'm having a shotgun wedding, or maybe even none at all.

think about these things...

girl, haven a kid right now would kill EVERYTHING for you!!!

if you really like kids, go work at a day care. you watch the kids grow, and can treat them like your own, without actually having to stay with it 24/7

and you've probably never LIVED with a baby for any period of time, I gaurantee that if you did you'd change your mind and deffinately want to wait. donttt do it!!!

this is exactly why some parent s dont like their kids hanging around with pregnant kids or kids with kids. this is exactly what they are afraid of. I love babies too, but with a baby, you will never have any time 2 be a kid, have friends, or have a life other than taking care of your child. you'll have 2 wake up in the middle of the night and early morning when it crys and you may have to do this alone cause yur parents might want you 2 "learn from your mistakes."

I suggest that you get a babysitting job or take a childcare class in yur school. in mine, they have a daycare where teachers and students can drop off their kids and the older childcare students take care of them.

My advice?

Learn how to spell "pregnant" before becoming it.

***it kills me to see my friends and there babies ! What should I do ??***

...your friends? How old are THEY?

I was 15 when I got pregnant
&& im doin fine
im a single mom
I do everything on my own
but still you shouldnt try and get pregnant

your only 14 and your thinking of having a babyy ?!! your moms right it will ruin your life .. you have school and thats more important right now !! you have PLENTY of time when your a bit older and more prepared

my advice is do not get pregnant it will ruin your life, but if you really want to then thats up to you

dont even think about getting pregnant your a lot to young if you realy likke kids get a babysitting job with say your mums friends but not a strangers hope this helps mikky