I tryy nott to cutt my wrists.

every since my dad died 2 dayys after my birthday.I cant help butt cuttin myself cuase I never gott to sayy good bye.&& every dayy I tink about himm and howw much I miss him....then I get soo upsett and gett an urge to cuttmy wrists.I have used almost...

everything to cutt myself.....that wont make it look obvious that I cutt myslef.butt nuttin works.and noww people are calling me emo.&& I dont like it.howw can I stopp && get rid of the scars???plzzz help me.=[[

you need some professional help hun, you have some issues that you havent let go of about your dad and instead of dealing with them you are cutting yourself. a lot of people do it but it could become an obsession, please go and see your doctor to refer you to a councelor or therpist so you can sort out you issues. they can really help you. it sounds like you are confused about a lot of aspects of your life, and we are hear to help you but theres only so much we can do, when it comes to actually harming yourself you need professional help to help you stop. please consider it and wats best for you. its horrible your dad was taken away from you but he was meant to go, what ever happens in life happens for a reason and you'll understand one day.

If you don't want professional help, as seen above.

Pray for your father, think about how he would feel knowing his son is cutting himself when he knows his father is in the House of the Lord Jesus Christ. (That is, if your a Christian)

ok well
I cutted once
and it isnt worth it I have lost about 5 friends to this
and I am soo sorry about your dad =[
how are you holdin up on that?
I dont know how you feel but I know it must be really hard
and cuttin cant fix any of that
this is waht I did when I lost my uncle and never got to say good bye I when to his grave..I know its hard..but I went there (alone its harder with someone with you) and you sit down you can bring flowers adn I don't know why but I brought a pix of us together and buried it rite next to stone....adn you talk about how you love him adn how you miss him adn how you wanted to say good bye and how you are sad you missed out on the opertonity of saying good bye

I know this is hard to do but when you do this you let out soo much...it helps
know if I were you after I do this I want you do go to your mom and tell her that you cut...it know you may not want to...but it will help tell her you know you shouldnt be doing this...b/c you do you told us...so just try to do this!

I hope this helps =]

well maybe you need to try to think of other ways to deal with your pain. and who cares about those other people calling you emo! you know who you are and thats all that matters