What if the man I'm in love with thinks he might be gay?

Asked by blossomel91 about 1 year ago, 2 answers.

So the guy I've been liking for AGES finally asked me out last summer.It was like a cinderella moment and we were the happiest couple ever, until school started and our walls came tearing down. We became so distant to eachother and it seemed like I had...

to rethink what I said before I said it in order to not get him mad. So ofcourse I did what any girl would, I dumped him. Keep in mind that this is my best friend Im talking about. He was pretty down but we remained friends. For some reason though my feelings for him never seemed to change because I still loved him even when I left him, it's just that he changed too much for me to get used to and he wasn't the same one I loved. 8 months passed and I still loved him and we almost went back together, I wanted to kick myself in the face for dumping him but I couldn't do anything about it. Recently we were sitting in his car laughing and chatting when an awkward silence came and he broke the news to me. He had been seeing another guy and he felt that he was gay. I think I might've blanked out becuase I remember him repeating my name. I really wish we would've ended up together again and I blamed myself for it becuase I felt that it was my fault. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against gay people, but what do I do if the man im madly in love with thinks he's gay?

Answered by juniperone on Jun 03, 2007, 08:50PM
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There's nothing you can do. Just try to move on the best that you can.

Try to think less how you feel, but also how he feels. He is going to have a lot to deal with in the next few years.

And of course it's not your "fault" he's gay. You know better than that.

Answered by hayley13 on Jun 04, 2007, 07:42PM
| 28 answers.

I have dumped I guy and he's turned gay before too you'll only put yourself down for a little while and I don't think he's really gay he probably needs time to decided just forget about him for awhile and if he ever asks you back out be like well I don't know I think I might be a lesbo... and maybe you can make it a joke....

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