I really want to give my boyfriend a handjob, but I don't know how...

yeah, me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now, and he has fingered me and all and I want to give him a handjob... We've talked about it a lot lately and we're hanging out tonight so we might then, but I've asked a couple of my friends...

what it is like and one told me it was really confusing then another told me it was a piece of cake, I don't know, could someone please help me out with this

Here is an ecerpt from ivillage.com 's Q & A.

Q.This may sound silly, but how do I give my guy a really good hand job?

A.Pleasuring your man manually -- whether it's a prelude to penetration or an erotic act in itself -- is an incredibly sexy sack skill that's often overlooked. When you and your man are fooling around, have him lie on his back and straddle his thighs. Then, gently rub some water-based lube on his pen*s. To perform the basic hand job, firmly, but gently, wrap your fingers around his member and move your fist up and down his shaft in a slow, steady motion.

Variety is one of the key ingredients to a moan-worthy hand job, so mix up your speed and pressure as his arousal grows. Don't forget to pay special attention to the super-sensitive corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his pen*s). Periodically massaging them with one or two fingers will make him swoon.

You'll also want to try using both hands in tandem -- think of it as doubling his pleasure. To give him an incredibly erotic two-hander, form a ring with your thumb and forefinger at the base of his shaft and gently tug downward, while simultaneously fondling his TLC-craving testicles with your other hand. Another make-his-toes-curl strategy: Handle his member with both hands working in precision, first one hand scaling down his shaft followed directly by the other. Make a gentle twisting motion on the way down, and his head'll spin. Or, wrap both hands around his member and move them in opposite directions as you work your way up and down his shaft. As he nears org**m, continue stroking his shaft with one hand, while you gently massage his perineum (the nerve-packed stretch of skin between his anus and testicles) with the pointer and middle fingers of your other hand. You'll set him on fire.

Since no two guys are alike, you'll have to experiment with different moves to discover exactly what sends your man over the edge. Just ask him what feels good. Or, have him give you a hands-on demo of how he likes to stimulate himself, then follow his lead. Remember, just as important as technique is attitude, so try not to get hung up on "performance anxiety" and have fun. The fact that you're so willing to please your man is as big a turn-on as any hand job.

it could be confusing when your nervous and trying to do it right, but I believe if you do it so it can feel good to you, its going to feel good for him. You could go on the internet or a search engine and look up on how to do a good hand job, I believe that an easy way to give an hand job is to have him sitting and you and him alone. Probably at the movies or at home, but dont have everybody surrounding like at a skating ring. but going on the internet is the best way to find out about handjobs

my boyfriend and I have also been talking about what we wanted to do to eachother. He wants to finger me and I want to give him a handjob. But we are both new to this stuff...and dont know how to do either.
So its kinda a relief that your basically on the same page as me..

well, I am a guy and I have had a girl do this to me before. from my experience I'd say there is no wrong way to do this, just put your hands on him and move it back and forth, however you like to do it. it feels really good just to know she has her hand on you.

For a teenage boy the thought of a girls hands on his pen*s is exciting to begin with. Only do what you are comfortable with. But if you are going to give him a handjob the sight of you naked will only make it better. use your breasts or your hair that will suprise him. Mostly just move your hand up and down and remember the most sensitive and pleasurable area is right beneath the tip. Whether they admit it or not all boys mas*urba*e so ask him for help. The fact of the matter is he can give himself a handjob much better than you. But he is not a girl you are. honestly the fact that your a girl and you want to touch his pen*s and give him pleasure may be enough for him to cream his pants before you even start. The first one will be over before you know it Than you can practice taking your time If youre ever looking for someone to practice on... just kidding lol

well, this question was asked over 3 years ago, so I'm pretty sure she's figured it out by now.

I remember my first time..I was always told to just move my hand up and down the shaft and everything will be good. But the more I did it, I realized that it was difficult for my hand to just move up and down in a fast pace without any lube or lotion, so I gripped it a little tighter (not to hard) and moved my hand up and down and realized that the skin moves with your hand. Its kind of like dancing haha. Rubbing together in motion. Once I started doing that my partners would "c*m" very quickly.

hmm swty.. just take da advice all thz people av given.. bt hers a tip

as you rub and stroke hm and when his hard gve hm a gentle squeeze nw and then.. oh hz glans are super sensitive

im a master hand job loland im single..lol any guys!?

jolking!!!

I think I can give you some advice abt this "problem"...but I chat only on messenger. If you are really interested abt this you shoult cntact me... I am talking serious abt this. I want to help you.