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People make fun and bully others to help them feel better about themselves.
It's a sad thing when people let their egos control them to that degree. So, just consider that the next time someone says something nasty and remember that they feel so low about themselves that they have a need to make you feel just as low. It has nothing to do with you. Try not to take such comments personally.
ignore them, they aren't your friends, joke with them, just walk away, etc.
that is great advice and I agree with it all.
but, you know what, it is also hard to do.
it hurts so much and you feel so isolated.
try to do all of the above advice, it is excellent. but I would add...
make a friend, just one friend. and let that be enough.
most people have a bunch of acquaintances, very few have more than one REALLY good friend. the type of friend that will be there for you and you for them.
the type of friend that you can enjoy. doesn't matter if they go to your school or not.
if they go to your school, see them during breaks or at lunch. if they don't go to your school, look forward to when you can see them after school and on weekends.
AND I PROMISE YOU THIS...I AM OLD, WAY OLD, SO I KNOW...
THE YEARS THAT YOU SPEND IN MIDDLE AND HIGH SCHOOL ARE THE HARDEST.
ONCE YOU TURN 20 THINGS START TO CHANGE AND GET BETTER.
THE BULLIES EITHER GROW UP OR THEY LOOSE THEIR POWER, CAUSE EVERYONE ELSE HAS GROWN UP AND DOESN'T LISTEN TO THEM ANYMORE.
YOU BEGIN TO HAVE DIFFERENT FRIENDSHIPS, BASED ON YOUR INTERESTS, NOT JUST BASED ON THE FACT THAT YOU GO TO THE SAME SCHOOL.
IF YOU GO TO COLLEGE, THERE ARE HUNDREDS OF DIFFERENT TYPES OF PEOPLE TO MEET AND IF YOU DON'T GO TO COLLEGE, YOU BEGIN TO MAKE FRIENDS AT WORK, WHERE YOU BOTH MIGHT END UP HATING THE BOSS.
JUST REMEMBER THIS. IT DOES GET BETTER. I SWEAR TO YOU THAT IT GETS BETTER.
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Why am I chosen as their easy target?
Every body makes fun of me and it upsets me. I always stick up for myself but they make fun of me again. I don't let it show but it hurts!
I don't know what to do. Can somebody help me? They make fun of me being "fat" when people say that I am not....
being called fat is what hurts me the most. And the kids in our school that are WAY bigger than me never get called fat. I don't know why they choose me to be there easy target... What should I do?