Why am I chosen as their easy target?

Hell Ya Asked by flicka_101 7 months ago, 11 answers.

Every body makes fun of me and it upsets me. I always stick up for myself but they make fun of me again. I don't let it show but it hurts!
I don't know what to do. Can somebody help me? They make fun of me being "fat" when people say that I am not....

being called fat is what hurts me the most. And the kids in our school that are WAY bigger than me never get called fat. I don't know why they choose me to be there easy target... What should I do?

Answered by livinlikechrist on Apr 16, 2008, 01:17PM
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I think you should just ignore it, and remember that God says that you are wonderfully made! God made you the way you are for a purpose and if you really want to find out what that is, I suggest you visit lifespace.cc I luv it, and whenevr I need a little encouragement I go there. =)

Answered by amblessed on Apr 16, 2008, 01:20PM
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They probably stay on you because they can see it's effective - just say 'yeah right', be disinterested and walk off - they'll quickly be bored and move on - you definitely don't need them in your life...Take care !!

Answered by cyberchick on Apr 16, 2008, 01:30PM
| 74 answers.

Just joke with them about it and laugh with them. Act like it doesn't hurt your feelings and they will find someone else to make fun off, if they see it's not affecting you!

Answered by kelseymae16 on Apr 16, 2008, 01:33PM
| 41 answers.

you need to ignore them !!! I HATE people that say stuff like that there so stupid. these kinda happened to me expect of calling me fat they called me a slut and im the farthest thing from a slut. I just learned to ignore it and eventually they stopped. YOUr better than all of them! stay strong =)

Answered by bocavicki on Apr 16, 2008, 01:44PM
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People make fun and bully others to help them feel better about themselves.
It's a sad thing when people let their egos control them to that degree. So, just consider that the next time someone says something nasty and remember that they feel so low about themselves that they have a need to make you feel just as low. It has nothing to do with you. Try not to take such comments personally.

Answered by funadvice on Apr 16, 2008, 02:10PM
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ignore them, they aren't your friends, joke with them, just walk away, etc.
that is great advice and I agree with it all.
but, you know what, it is also hard to do.
it hurts so much and you feel so isolated.
try to do all of the above advice, it is excellent. but I would add...
make a friend, just one friend. and let that be enough.
most people have a bunch of acquaintances, very few have more than one REALLY good friend. the type of friend that will be there for you and you for them.
the type of friend that you can enjoy. doesn't matter if they go to your school or not.
if they go to your school, see them during breaks or at lunch. if they don't go to your school, look forward to when you can see them after school and on weekends.

AND I PROMISE YOU THIS...I AM OLD, WAY OLD, SO I KNOW...
THE YEARS THAT YOU SPEND IN MIDDLE AND HIGH SCHOOL ARE THE HARDEST.
ONCE YOU TURN 20 THINGS START TO CHANGE AND GET BETTER.
THE BULLIES EITHER GROW UP OR THEY LOOSE THEIR POWER, CAUSE EVERYONE ELSE HAS GROWN UP AND DOESN'T LISTEN TO THEM ANYMORE.
YOU BEGIN TO HAVE DIFFERENT FRIENDSHIPS, BASED ON YOUR INTERESTS, NOT JUST BASED ON THE FACT THAT YOU GO TO THE SAME SCHOOL.
IF YOU GO TO COLLEGE, THERE ARE HUNDREDS OF DIFFERENT TYPES OF PEOPLE TO MEET AND IF YOU DON'T GO TO COLLEGE, YOU BEGIN TO MAKE FRIENDS AT WORK, WHERE YOU BOTH MIGHT END UP HATING THE BOSS.

JUST REMEMBER THIS. IT DOES GET BETTER. I SWEAR TO YOU THAT IT GETS BETTER.

Answered by sjly_7 on Apr 16, 2008, 02:25PM
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Im having problems with people talking about me too.You may be an "easy" target because you let it get to you. You should just ignore them. I know its hard to but just try.

Answered by martinezyvette on Apr 16, 2008, 08:46PM
| 27 answers.

I hate those type of people. Ignore them, there just jealouss of u

Answered by d4rks0ul on Apr 17, 2008, 05:54AM
| 23 answers.

joking to them is a bad idea, the only thing you get will be a trick, igrone them, that's the only advice

Answered by tinkpixi18 on Apr 23, 2008, 04:29PM
| 343 answers.

Tell them they have a big nose it worked for a kid in class

Answered by flicka_101 on May 06, 2008, 12:49PM
| 9 answers.

Thanks you guys this might work but if you have more tips please tell me!

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