I really don't want to cheat on him,

so I was going out with with my now ex boyfriend, for 2 months.

and we've only made out, like a lot though.
I feel pretty comfortable with him.
and he's like my best friend.

he always says he wants to go further in our relationship, but never...

makes any moves.

I went to a party last weekend and ended up making out with this junior really passionatly for 4 hours straight.

I'm more attracted to this guy at this party, than my ex boyfriend.
and he wants to go further with me this weekend.
I don't know weither to go for it, because I'm not getting what I want with my ex.

but I'm afraid I'll feel like I'm cheating on him.
& I don't want to messup our friendship.
what should I do?

Well if you already madeout with this other guy...wouldn't that be concided cheating if your going out with someone already?

no, I'm single.

he's my ex boyfriend.
but we act like we're still together, but we're technically not.

I just don't want to hurt him & feel like I'm cheating on him.

Ohh well if your single then...it should be okay..

But talk to him about it.

okay, thanks(:

***but we act like we're still together, but we're technically not.***

Explain. Why would you 'act' like you're still together, when you're 'technically' not. And what do you mean by 'technically'.

because we like each other, but we're just like friends with benefits.

without the commitment of dating, because we are physically attracted to each other but we don't want a relationship.

we already tried having a relatioship, and could never get along. we're closer as friends.

I feel like I'm going to hurt him by being with another guy, but if I'm single it feels like it should be okay.

it's really confusing.

Sorry, but if you want this other guy to respect you, or even have a relationship with you, dont be so easy. If he wants to go further than just making out already, he only wants you for one thing. This kind of behavior will NOT make him fall for you, or commit to you. Guys see girls like that as easy targets to just get what they want, and be done with them. Guys like the chase, not a girl whos going to give him what he wants so fast, and easy! This is why so many girls get confused and hurt. They do what your doing, and they think when a guy is getting physical with them, that they must like them, but in reality, they dont like them in the RIGHT way!

What are you like all of 14? Maybe 13? Like seriously.. a guy at a party? Is this a serious question... Ok, Im going to be honest.. just sit back and think about what you said.. a guy at a party..wants to go further this weekend.. didnt you just meet him? you do not know if he has an s.t.d... you do not even know him, and also.. you need to find yourself within a relationship where the other guy will respect you enough to be compliant to your desicions, and having sex with either one of them does not sound like a logical thing to do honestly..

you need jesus hun. good luck.

xx.
superfresh.

***I feel like I'm going to hurt him by being with another guy...***

It will... just as it will hurt you if/when he's with another girl.

thats bad. it sounds like your old boyfriend was probably a good guy, and just nervious about making a move. its the as*holes that go right for it like the guy you made out with.