What a female can do to turn a guy on sexually?

I was wondering what a female can do to turn a guy on sexually? what are some good lapdance songs?

Do you remember the scene in American Pie where, up on lover's lane, the high-school guy turns to the college girl and, using the best line he can muster, utters the immortal words, "F--- me, beautiful"? He's immediately outted as trying way too hard. So it goes with the lap dance. It's one of those moves that seems like a good idea on paper but tends to turns out looking and feeling a little foolish simply because it's so over the top.

Your best bet -- and I realize this is going to sound very Hallmark-moment -- is to ditch the moves, the lines, and the advice from friends and do what comes naturally. Overthinking anything, whether it be sex, conversations, work, or school, is generally just going to lead to a lot of stress and awkward lap-dance situations. If you're into the guy, he's going to know, and simply your desire to get close to him is going to turn him on as much as you will need to. Anything after that is just gravy.

We will have been together for 10 months on July 25th. We mess around but we're both virgins. He's 21 and I'm 20. I was wanting to give him a lapdance for his 21rst birthday when I come back from work on the 27th. (I'm a medic at a cub scout camp and and the staff reside at camp all summer) so it will be belated.