How to tell him I want to get with him?

Asked by iammadabouthim 8 months ago, 6 answers.

Right.. I met this guy 2 weeks ago and I really like him, and I really want to get with him, I love him lots. How do I say to him that I want to get with him? we are both 14 and neither of us haven't had a proper relationship before. I love him so...

much!!.

Answered by funadvice on Apr 07, 2008, 10:49AM
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Ok, then let me say this. You've known this guy for two weeks and you claim you love him? If you are so immature as to think you are in love after only two weeks, then you clearly aren't ready to be in any kind of relationship.

Answered by iammadabouthim on Apr 07, 2008, 10:58AM
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Sorry I meant two months :$.

Answered by sue90 on Apr 07, 2008, 11:05AM
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Dear iammadabouthim,
2 weeks, 2 months...makes not much difference and you need to choose the correct words...you have a crush on him, you don't love him. To love someone you spend time with that person, you experience their stress, their bad times as well as good. You are 14 and will have many, many crushes. You may even have several loves so take time and slow down a bit. Get to know this guy as a friend and just hang out together with no pressure. Take love out of your vocabulary for now or you're going to scare all the guys away.
Sue...good luck

Answered by iammadabouthim on Apr 07, 2008, 11:33AM
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SUE90!

We spend about 3 times a week with each other and we have both been through hard times together. Mainly him being there for me though.

Thats Something I've said to someone else ( BELOW! ). Just some kind of information for you..

I don't want to be pushy towards him. But I want to know how he feels about me, cause like me and him flirt a lot, when we went to the cinema with some others we held hands and we're talking all the way through and we was like leaning on each other, but the other night he went to hug me and then I pushed him off and walked to the bathroom cause I've been finding it hard not knowing how he feels, I do think that was the wrong thing to do, but I didn't think. Now me and him dont really hug or hold hands. But I want to let him know how I feel and want to know how he feels back, do you have any advice?

Thank you for your help and time

Answered by mellycool on Apr 08, 2008, 11:31AM
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I agree with sue 90.
but if its love you want you dont "get with him." I know you probely here this all the time. but its true its hard to know what "love" is at your age esp after only 2 months. Theres nothing wrong with people your age in this day and age "messing around" the majority of people do. but you have to make sure you trust this person (or get really really drunk, haha not really) you dont want rumors flying around your school.

Answered by iammadabouthim on Apr 08, 2008, 01:27PM
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I do trust him a lot. He knows a lot of my secrets already . And his been there for me throught really hard times, I mean really hard . And he don't go to my school so there wont be any rumours. x

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