I need help with my sex life

My boyfriend is very bipolar and add and adhd...he freaks out on me sometimes but I like him to much...about 75% of the time he is sweet though...but my question is sometimes he doesnt want to have sex with me. Am I sexy enough? do I look bad? is there...

something wrong with me to make him not want to do anything with me? What do you think I can do to make it more interesting? I am very insecure about my body as well when we take showers I like the light off but he says hes already seen be soo why not have the light on but im afraid cus I dont like myself very much...how do I make him more appealed to me sexually? can you help me soo I can save my relationship please.

Dear des_n_eric2008,
You opened your question with your boyfriends problems...so I will assume here that your problems in this relationship are not getting met. Just because he has these problems does not give him the right to freak. He has problems that he should work out before he has a relationship. You are not ready either, you have very low self-esteem and the danger is having a boyfriend who mistreats you and you have already let this happen. At this point I suggest you both take a break from each other. He needs to get into counselling to control his anger...his disabilities are no excuse. You need to get into counselling to build your self-esteem. You are already being mistreated and have issues with your appearence...Both these things need to be taken care of or you will be down a path that is not safe and definitely not happy.
Sue...good luck

Hi,
Going off sex during a low and wanting a lot of sex during a manic phase are quite typical for those sufferring from Bipolar.

Have a look at this link as you may find it helpful:

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/diseases/facts/manicdepressivepsychosis.htm