What to tell my boyfriend about my discomfort with being touched?

a guy who I go to school with came up from behind and hugged me. he started to touch me in places I didnt like. and I told him to stop but he jsut laughed. now im disgusted by boys touching me at all.. what do I tell my boyfriend.. and I havent told my...

parents bout it.. and how do I get over?

that is called sexual harassment...

and guess what? NO MEANS NO, AND THAT PUNK SHOULD KNOW BETTER!!!

tell your school principle and then let your parents know as well. he has NO rights whatsoever to touch your body if you tell him not to. EVER. that's that.

as for your boyfriend...I think in fairness you should let him know what happened and explain you're feeling very vulnerable...hopefully your boyfriend will understand...

if your principle doesn't take it seriously...call the police and file a report...that should get the school's attention...

no person has the right to touch your body in any way that makes you feel uncomfortable.

When did this happen? If it was recently [[or not]] you need to tell someone,as soon as possible.What he did is sexual harassment,which leads lots of teens to depression,and emotional scars.
You should tell your boyfriend exactly what happened,that you were sexually assaulted in the past,and you are nervous about boys touching you at all.He should understand this,and if he doesnt,then hes not right to be with you anyways.You need to be honest about what has happened with him,so that he can better understand your disgust.
Same goes with your parents,they should also be told about this.

Lastly,getting over it could defnitely be hard.You were treated poorly in the past by boys,so trusting them could be unerstandably hard.
Just remember that not all guys are like him,and not all guys are as disrespectful as him,either.And be careful about who you become close to.Don't fall too fast for the wrong person,and get to know someone before getting intimate like that.
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okay, first of all, wow invasion of personal space?

I understand that when guys start showing their pig side to us, it's easy to become disgusted and fast.
BUT with that said, you need to make sure that you know not ALL guys are like that, though there are quite a few.

personally, I think you need to confront this boy who took it upon his self to touch you in places that make you uncomfortable without your consent. because, chances are, you aren't the only one who was violated by him. and maybe, if you confront him, he might see reason and you can keep this from happening to another girl like yourself.

secondly, if you aren't comfortable with physical contact with the opposite sex any more because of this experience, you should let your boyfriend know that you feel this way. But, because I'm sure you don't want to never touch you boyfriend- though it may feel like that now, be sure to tell him that you want to take things slow because you aren't that comfortable with the physical aspect of relationships and that it will take some time to warm up to the idea.

I don't know if this is what you're looking for, but I'm hoping I helped you, even in just the slightest.

-madeline.

okay, first of all, wow invasion of personal space?

I understand that when guys start showing their pig side to us, it's easy to become disgusted and fast.
BUT with that said, you need to make sure that you know not ALL guys are like that, though there are quite a few.

personally, I think you need to confront this boy who took it upon his self to touch you in places that make you uncomfortable without your consent. because, chances are, you aren't the only one who was violated by him. and maybe, if you confront him, he might see reason and you can keep this from happening to another girl like yourself.

secondly, if you aren't comfortable with physical contact with the opposite sex any more because of this experience, you should let your boyfriend know that you feel this way. But, because I'm sure you don't want to never touch you boyfriend- though it may feel like that now, be sure to tell him that you want to take things slow because you aren't that comfortable with the physical aspect of relationships and that it will take some time to warm up to the idea.

I don't know if this is what you're looking for, but I'm hoping I helped you, even in just the slightest.

-madeline.

Report him to your teachers