Engaged, another guy wants to be friends with benefits?

Ok here is the thing im engaged and going to get married in a year and well my friend rick he keeps flirting with me and wants me but im engaged and he has a girlfriend and she is my cousin but yesterday he was all like lets be friends with benifits...

what should I do??

if your engaged, you shouldn't do anyting with him.
explain to him, that you are going to get married,and want no one except your fiance.
and if he's in a serious relationship- he need's to rethink what he wants.
it's not fair to your cousin-

if your thinking you want to, then you need to end your relationship.
although I dont see how that's right to your cousin.

yeah I don't want anything from him like that and yes it will be to unfair to my cousin because I love my fiance so much and me and him are just friends he will just have to accept it or not be friends anymore>>

You are engaged to be married, and a friend of yours wants to USE you, (because in my opinion thats what friends with benefits is) and you dont know what you should do? Saying NO pretty much says it all! You tell your so-called "friend" to go find someone else to play with if hes not satisfied with his girlfriend. I dont know how you can even call him a friend. Sounds more like a player who sees you as some object, not as a person! If I were you, I think I would give my cousin a few words about her "boyfriend".

Any feelings you think you are feeling for him are just flattery in my opinion and maybe cold feet about the engagement?
The sensable thing to do is decline this guys offer and consentrate on the stabilty of your relationship with your fiance...surely if you were ready to be married to this guy, then you wouldn't even be considering cheating?

ok I dont think your fully attracted to him by the sounds of things so I wouldnt take any risks I mean if use were caught your whole life would change I mean hes sating your cousin and your about to make a commitment to spend the rest of your life with someone! so dont make the wrong decision

Are you asking us whether or not you should cheat on your fiance?

no I told him today back the f**k off and stay away from me I don't want to cheat on my fiance and he wants that and he knows im engaged he is just a a** you know so thanks everyone me and my fiance are doing good and excpect to get married in a year from now thx>>

-pooka