Am I gay or is it a stage?

Asked by c91580 about 1 year ago, 8 answers.

I love to flirt, make out, and look at girls. But sometimes, I see a ripped naked guy on the internet and it turns me on. I used to never question my orientation but now, at 13, I'm not sure. I want more then anything to be straight and some people say...

it's a stage, which I hope it is. Am I gay or is it a stage?

Answered by locoluna on Mar 13, 2007, 06:54PM
| 2123 answers.
Advisor-small

You are only 13 hun!! you are way to young and not experienced enough to know anything right now. You need to give yourself time to adjust, now when you get older say 16-18 and you start hooking up with girls and all that, thats when you will determine whether or not you are gay or not becos you'll be able to physically know what turns you on. This could certainly be just a phase, or it could develop in years to come. Right now dont worry yourself to much and in a few years you'll be old enough to start experiencing things and then you'll work out your sexual orientation.

| 1 of 1 thought this was helpful

Answered by pyrochick85 on Mar 13, 2007, 06:25PM
| 55 answers.

I dont know for some people it could be stage or you could be bi/gay. I know a lot of people who are around your age who are like this. But for most of them they just expirement and everything. Know what I mean. If you like girls a lot. then you would be bi not gay. Which isnt anything wrong with it. But I honestly dont know what to tell you except it could just be a stage that you are going through.. I hope this helped at least a little bit..

love always megan

| 1 of 2 thought this was helpful

Answered by munkey on Mar 13, 2007, 06:57PM
| 13 answers.

It could be just a stage or maybe its not, you young and you experiencing a lot of new things. My ex who is 20 said he went thru that at your age to. im sure a lot of guys do, but only time will tell if you stay that way or change...

| 1 of 1 thought this was helpful

Answered by stevens on Mar 13, 2007, 08:13PM
| 24 answers.

yeah your going through puberty right now and people are born gay they develop into gay but the bi part is only an insecure coverup for being completley gay....yeah if your going through that phase more then likely your going to be gay when you hit 18 or so...no str8 guy goes through that phase if they did they are lieing to you or they are gay too ..Hope I helpd!!!! haha

| 0 of 1 thought this was helpful

Answered by crying_cow on Mar 14, 2007, 04:46AM
| 13 answers.

its probley just a stage...if you really want it to it will pass by qwickly for ya

Answered by ash_12 on Mar 14, 2007, 10:54AM
| 19 answers.

Its probably just a stage... certain weird things can turn people on. If you find yourself looking at guys a lot then you could be bisexual.

Answered by bubux007 on Mar 14, 2007, 11:19AM
| 2382 answers.

Do not worry. This is only a stage. Later your practice will show you that what you are. Later, when you can choose who to make sex with. Now you react only to nakedness itself.

Answered by nonamesleft00001 on Aug 27, 2007, 05:49AM
| 42 answers.

its a stage - you dont want 2 b gay - so you wont!

no effence but - DUH!

Answer this Question: "Am I gay or is it a stage?"

Your Answer: HTML is not allowed.


Back to top

Popular questions related to Am I gay or is it a stage?