Are my friends trying to break us up?

I've been with my boyfriend 4 2 months now, but its complicated...
For a month of our relationship he was makin plans 4 other girls than me, sending txt and saying 2 my friend k who he thinks whos hot and who he fancies, & I aint in one of them, bt that...

didnt bother me.

About 2 weeks ago, me and my boyfriend had an arguement about this J girl. J was tlkin 2 me on msn and was tellin me that my boyfriend thought of dumpin me for her and that they were kissin and stuff. I didnt believe her because I didnt even know her so I trusted my bfs 2 frends and him. We sorted it out and decided 2 start over and forget about the whole thing, but a week after that whole arguement, we had a school army trip.

My boyfriend is really into the army so I let him go and do whatever he likes, I knew he wouldnt stay with me anyway so I let him go, but as I bump into some of my frends later on that day, S told me that she just saw my boyfriend with his ex, lets call her F. My friend S told me she just had a word with my boyfriend and she was angry with him,

She said:
That she saw him with F and S wanted to talk to him, she asked him twice if she can have a word but the answer she gets was "Hang on, im talking to F"
So she got annoyed and walked away, my boyfriend however ran after her and asked her what she wanted to talk about.

S- Why arent you paying attention to your girlfriend?
H [my boyfriend]- Its not that, im not paying attention to her, F just wanted to know about the army.
S- Theres loads of soldiers here, why wont she talk to one of them?
H- She doesnt want to, so she asked me. And they dont know what shell be asking.
S- Well she'll be in a deep s*** if none of this soldiers know what theyre suppose to do if theyre in a war.
H- argg! Its not that im not paying attention to my girlfriend, I'm just not hanging around with her.
S- Exactly" Where is she then?!?

then S said he stormed off. That didn't really bothered me it was something else. My friend E and S showed me everything my boyfriend texted them and they told me everything he said to them. My boyfriend was texting my friend E like "I was thinking of cuddling you all night" just readin his text 2 her just hurt me. I didnt really believed what they said until they showed me the text messages

My friend k even made him have a conversation on a paper and he showed me the paper, and my boyfriend wrote that he maybe like E. Im ok with my boyfriend flirtin but his just going way too far sayin "leave your boyfriend and come to me and ill protebt you" & "I love you 2 much to see you hurt and it hurts me" all of those quotes are from his text messages to my friend E.

He even texted E that day on the army trip that he never wants a serious relationship, all he wants is between a girlfriend and a "f*** buddy". I gave him pretty much everything not really everything but my parents are really protective and I protected my boyfriend 4rm my parents and its for nothing??? I talked to my boyfriend last Thursday and told him I know what his been texting E, he said they all just went through his head that he didnt meant to say them. He was sorry for everything.

Then I called him that night and told him that I've been doing some thinkin and that ill give him another chance and he said thank you, then I asked him if he wanted to stay with me and he told me he doesn't want to hurt me again but he wants to stay with me cause he loves me but he just doesnt want me hurt so I told him if his confused about it I'll give him time and space to think and he can take his time cause his really a busy guy, I mean really and with our school work its just too many, that if he decided, he can just call me or something to tell me.

But its just bothering me Im enjoyin feeling like single again flirtin with guys, but inside my heart I love him, but everything he has done he probably wont change for me. I don't know if im doing the right thing! was it a good idea for me 2 give him another chance?? and also my friend E told me yesterday that my boyfriend went over to her house and talked about F his ex and that he said he likes her...
It feels like my friends are trying to break us up but at the same time its like they want the best thing 4 me and its confusing! can please someone help?!? if you want to know more about what he did and stuff I can give you more information just five me a comment on my profile

sorry if this was too long but thanks for your help!!

Wow, your situation is so complicated... I'll try though. #1, I think that with all the stuff that this guy's been doing... He doesn't deserve someone as forgiving as you. You're too nice :] (for your own good). And all your friends seem worried about you. Which have you known longer? Your boyfriend or your friends? Pick one of them over the other. And this boyfriend doesn't seem like he'll change. Seriously, he's been in cheat mode or something. And you seem like you need to move on. You've been with guy for a long time, maybe someone new will be refreshing. And it seems that this guy's been given too much chances by you. You need to stick up, and tell him off. He's been stomping all over you, while you on the other hand, have given him no reason to leave your side. You've been completely devoted to him, yet he hasn't been for you. You deserve better then that. And I hope that you choose to listen to your friends other then your boyfriend. He doesn't seem like the person to be trusted.

So yeah, I hope I helped. :]

Girl you need to wake up, and get out of this relationship. You are being very naive about your boyfriend. Everything everyone has told you, and you believe HIM? You've only been with him for 2 mos. and you've given him pretty much everything already? Alittle fast wouldnt you say? You have lot of drama going on for just being together 2 mos. So many things against him, and you are giving him another chance? Are you seriously that desperate for a boyfriend? No boy is worth all that. 3 weeks into the relationship you made out for 2 hrs. When things like that happen at your age it means thats all a boy wants! He doesnt respect you...I dont even think he really likes you. He sounds like a jerk, and a player, and if you keep giving him what he wants you are going to end up feeling used & abused! (mentally) You need to dump this guy, or your going to end up getting more hurt the longer you keep him.

This guy has so many emotions he can't keep himself in one direction so even if he does mean well, it does not mean he will be good. In other words is that he is kind hearted but not a good guy. A good guy will do no wrong but still can be mean but a kind person can still be wrong.

I think you should dump him and save the heart+head-ache.

I was going to talk to him about it tomorrow and I was ready to tell him that I think its better off if we go in our different ways

until yesterday

I was walking home with my friend (who is a guy) and he wanted to walk with my boyfriend because he didnt want to get involve in any relationship and be the cause of something that my boyfriend might thought that he was cheating with me.

I walked home with my boyfriend and my friend after school that day but I didnt pay any attention to my boyfriend, just looked at him, but we did talk like how we used to before we went out together and thats it and its pretty much a good sign from everything that has happened, I didnt feel anything for him.

I paid more attention to my friend rather than him but he fooled around with him trying to get my attention, but the thing is, as we were going to pass his house he fooled around with my friend even more then gave him a hug (pretending his gay bt he used to be gay and I love teasing him about that and it always make me laugh so I guess thats why he does it) but as he was giving him a hug I was just fiddling with my camera (I had it on me) and all of the sudden my boyfriend grab me and gave me a hug!!!

he hug me as long as he can trying not to let go of me, and I just feel the love that I had for him that I've tried not feeling, avoiding it so I can be prepared for tomorrow but yesterday happened and im all vulnurable again like I cant let him go! cause I still love him... my best friend asked me if I felt something when he hugged me and I said yes and she said I should give him a chance like what im about to do...

but if he screw it up its over even how much I love him! ):

I agree with angelfire you need to wake up realise that his just going to keep doing this to you even though he says he didnt mean any of it but listen hun, if you let him get away with it once his going to think that he can get away with it again!!!
You need to move on and trust me the later you do it the harder it is...
GOOD LUCK HUN
xoxox

You need to get out of this relationship. He isn't "the one" for you. Find someone else, it's better to be in a good relationship. He really isn't right for you. If you carry on with him then he could hurt you a lot more next time, I know from experience. Hope this helps. I went back to my boyfriend and he seemed to have changed but later on he carried on his old ways so I left him, I still loved him but I had to leave him because I knew that one day I would get over him and it was for the best. I was right, ok so he goes out with other girls and I do feel abit sad but I know that at least he's not stil with me and going out with them at the same time. Since I left him, I have found a lot more boys who are nicer than him and I have enjoyed being single as I don't need to feel guilty when I fancy someone. I am now just waiting for the right boy to come along.
Hope this helps.
GD LUCK!