I mastrubate 3 times a week suggest some tips to stop mastrubating

im a 20 yr old male.I mastrubate 3 times a week suggest some tips to stop mastrubating

Like it's been said before to similar questions, mas*urbat*ng is normal and healthy and you shouldn't think you have to stop. You shouldn't feel guilty or wrong. Everybody does it whether they admit it or not. Plus, it has been proven impossible for guys to stop once they learn to mas*urba*e; the battle is lost - so relax, don't worry too much about it, and have fun

Why would you want to stop? 3 times a week is very normal if not below normal. Mas*urbat*on is very healthy, it keeps your sperm healthy because you are constantly producing it.

I am mastrubute only seeing sex pics and movies ,when with my friends I dont thick about it,pls tell some way to stop masts

how to do it faster?

Mastrubation reduce interest in sex plus the sperm is thin thr is erection defects if you want to stop mastrubating you need to think about its side effects and postive effects is your pen*s looks more bigger after you stop mastrubating you dont have semen flow when you think of sex if you stop mastrubating you become more sexy as even a light touch will make you feel thr is development of feelings in every part of your body NOTE: DONT SIT NEAR THE PLACE WHR you MASTRUBATE 2) AVOID LONLIENESS 3) AVOID ALCOHOL 4) AVOID TOUCHING your PEN*S 1) BE AROUND PEOPLE 2) STAY WITH FRIENDS 3) DONT THINK OF SEX 4) IF SEX COMES IN MIND AVOID IT 5) THINK you WANT TO HAVE SEX BY PENETRATING your PEN*S INSIDE VAGINA NOT IN your HANDS THIS WILL STOP MASTRUBATION

how do girls mastrubate?

u can stop by
1. getting closer to God
2. not being alone
3. not looking pics or movies that give sexual enjoyment.
4. always be busy (if you dont have anything to do, watch a movie etc.)

I am very lean, I mastrubate 5 or 6 times a week.I think mastrubating caused injuries to my health?

I am very lean, I mastrubate 5 or 6 times a week.I think mastrubating
caused injuries to my health?

does mastrubate affects height ??

No offence but the advisors are all encouraging something that's devastating to all us males. Sure there're temptations, cosidering all the sexual advertisement and immodest way women dress today there's no question why men wouldn't be bothered about sexual thoughts. I may seem like a prude but I don't deny that this is natural, some extreme ways would be to perhaps surgically damage those nerves that allow for erection and ejaculation.

'Sperms are produced all the time so it's healthy to let it out here and then'

Ever wonder why men have tonnes of sexualproblems I.e. sexualdysfunction and the like??

Mas*urbat*ng seriously has a lot of side effects, these include:

Weakened erections - Consider the difference in the handstructure and that of a hand, hand has muscle and bone, when you trust your pen*s against your hand your're slowly tearing and wearing down the muscles in your pen*s. It wasn't made to be thrust in a hand, it was made to be thusted inside a comfortable and soft, muscular vagina.

Chemical imbalance - Now this is a huge issue if you mas*urba*e a lot and then I mean 1 once or more per week. The semen - (sperm + otherfluids secreted by the prostategland etc) does NOT regenerate to normal levels if you mas*urba*e several times a week. Much of these nutrients, hormones and neurotransmitters are required by your nervous system and other parts of your body so that you can function normally. Side effects include reduced memory, reduced eyesight, headaches and if you're an athletic person you will not want to mas*urba*e at all, as your body requires all these nutrients to recover after a day of workout.

If you do not believe me (trust me I have been struggling with this for some time too) then you can just check with wikipedia or look up website related to sexual health. Why do you think they sell drugs for sexual enhancement? It's because guys are messing up their biochemistry and suffer either in general health or in their sexual relations.

Personally I can just say that you should take some of the advises (as in how to stop mb) like try not being alone, don't touch your di*k and DON't think about SEX or women, keep yourself busy.

But the bigger solution I guess is that you engage in a relationship, marriage etc. As it gets your more tired to have sex than mas*urba*e and intercourse is so much more fulfilling than pathetic mas*urbat*on, you'll realize that there's more to love than just genitals. Some married men even get tired from when their wives want more as it can get tiring.

Anyhow good luck and STOP encouraging this - get married instead as it's the natural way for this problem.

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Attention HADES.........agreed to some extent, that mas*urbat*on has some side effects but mas*urbat*on makes you dumb..........LOL........seriously, If I wasn't in med school I'd still laugh at that........thats the stupidest piece of nonsense I've ever heard.......hahaha, you don't jack off neurotransmitters or neurons........get your facts straight

agree with athletes shouldn't do it especially the week of a big game/meet, it makes you relaxed, not because you need the nutrients because if makes you less agressive and docile..........

btw the neurological part your talking about is estradoil which is derived from free roaming testosterone in the body.......

functions of testosterone(before conversion into other substances):
1) sexual
2). Agression
3). masculinity
4). muscle growth and subsequent strength

hope this helps

You are perfectly normal. Stop judging yourself.
Familycoach

you need a woman

My vote is to not worry about it.

If you follow a religion that condemns mastrubation you will either have to find a way to not mastrubate, change religion, or go through life feeling guilty all the time. The last one is what most people do.

Most 20 YO males mastrubate frequently; generally as often as time and privacy allow. Mastrubating daily or even multiple times a day is not injurious and 20 year olds have short enough a refractory period that should a sexual opportunity occur having mastrubated earlier in the day usually isn't a problem.

There are good reasons to mastrubate. My wife notices this when conditions keep us from being intimate for several days. When I start snapping at her she says that I have ST or semen toxicity and suggests that I take care of the problem.

Many men get noticibly irritable after several days without an org**m.

Mastrubation can help men avoid premature ejaculation.

Mastrubation can help women discover what feels good and what is necessary to climax. Once she figures out what works she can teach her partner.

Hades, your arguments against mastrubation sound like hysteria from prudish doctors of the 1950's. It sounds to me like mastrubation is against your world view and you are grasping at anything you can find to backup your own views.

The most damaging thing about mastrubation come from kids thinking they are weird, unnatural, or perverted because they do it. It is far easier to get over mental hangups against mastrubation than to stop mastrubating

I think masturbatiing more than 2 times in a weak will give you baldness as there is a male hormone know as TESTESTRONE this hormone on increase will DHT LEVEL IN our body,which leads to decrease in hair develpment ,,,I haved experiened it as avoid it guysss

I THInk doing mas*urbat*on more than 2 times in a weak leads to various symptoms in ours body, firstly our male hormone TESTOTERONE ,this hormone will convert into DHT hormone if we do more mas*urbat*on. if DHT level is increased then it leads to BALDNESS and effects OUR KIDNEY ,,, hey guys and girls I am serious about this as I have experiend baldness because of this Increased in DHT level ...SO please Avoid this BAD thing

Contrary to some of the myth like opinions here, 'Jerking Off' actually causes the body to produce more testosterone and sperm. It's a natural biofeedback mechanism within the body that constantly strives to maintain it's homostatious, just as it does body temperature. I won't go into the specifics but you can Google it and find out how it all works. Abstinance from cumming before an athletic event making you weak, etc. is pure garbage, an old wives tale just like jerking off will make you go blind. Taking Viagra might make you go blind but not jacking off. One might feel a little tired after cumming but having an org**m is quite a taxing experience on the body but it's only temporary, I.e. for just a few minutes. However, having sex before going to bed is a very good sleep aid. I once knew a H.S. football player whom jerked off every day and bragged about it, said he had to keep his pipes cleaned out. One day he was late for a game and when I asked him why, he said he had jacked off six times. Didn't hurt his game any at all!! He was one of the strongest guys on the team.

If this has somthin to do with fear of contact with a woman read up on sex...condoms and the like. and do things to boost your confidence so that maybe one day instead of mas*urbat*ng you want to hit the clubs or somthing meet someone and keeping busy is the best. when you think to urself 'wow really need t' ....(speaks under his breath)' just do somthing to decide and give urself crappier odds......flip a coin best 4 outta 7 like the NBA =) then your thinkn about basketball and not mas*urbat*ng see?

hope dis helps

P.S. Probably the best way to break this habit is to find a girl or wife to do it for you. It's a very difficult habit to break once you've conditioned yourself to experiencing this intense pleasure, esp if you are looking at some type of visual aids while doing it.This can develop into a obsessive compulsive behavior. Find a girl who enjoys giving pleasure to a man and somone who isn't squeamish about how she does it even if she doesn't always get the same satisfaction in return. That is to say a girl who gets gratification from simply giving her man pleasure and not always requiring the same pleasure in return. Many women are like this and will do things just to satisfy their loved one but 'always' be ready to return the favor. It can't always be a one way street.

I mastrubate 2-3 times a day and im 18. I think im addicted

CUT YOUR GOD DAM HANDS OFF!!^^

Don' stop. Studies show that people who mmasturbate frequently when young are less liable to contract prostate cancer when they get older

well m@$turb@tion makes hair grow on the palms of your hands!!!

the truth is that mas*urbat*on only is bad if your religion is against it!
other wise it has only good efffects. at least from what I have read!

my boyfriend masturbates about 12-14 times a week
compaired to him you dont do it much

find someone to have sex with more... I dunno aparently that isnt enough!!
can anyone tell me WHY???

in no how you can stop!!! stop being soo horny!!! all you sickos are downloading 2 much xxx stuff!!! get a life!!!

I got a song 4 all you guys jacking off ''you are all horny, horny ,horny ,stop downloading ,porny porny, porny, so stop being hornyyy!!! dun dun dunnn!!! yea!!!

Hey guy's, mastrubation is bad, it has been proven that the capability of focusing is reduced after mastrubating ( within a week your brain starts to refocus, but till you have your full focus potential it's 2 weeks-6 weeks). When your mastrubating and feeling good that is when all these chemicals spinn in your brain, you feel good and your body gets used to it = you get addicted, it has been proven that addiced people are have significant mental problems not to ignore ,then on the pro side all your blood gets pumped through your body, which reduces the chances of a stroke. But is it worth it to be mixed up all your life, being addicted, not being able to control yourself when you see girls being f**ked or a hot chick at a party or the beach, having to go to a WC and jerk off to satisfy a strong tingeling feeling throught your body. I don't think so it's a 10m. of extasy and day,weeks of not living your full potential.

I mastrubate many times a day and it doesn't stop me from focusing. It doesn't make me have to go and whack it everytime that I see a hot girl. I don't know where you got your information from but I saw a study that was done that proves that mastrubation is good for your body.

well if you aint in a relationship and you stop, youll only become sexually fustrated,

Actually, honestly why would you want to stop? Mas*urbat*on keeps your sperm healthy as well as reduces the risk of prostate cancer. My boyfriend was in the same situation as you by looking at movies, and pictures all the time to get off, and now he has me Honestly, everyone does it! Including females, we just don't admit it very much lol

I think the OP is pulling our leg, yes? No?
I would love to know why you want to stop please tell us?? to me, its as bizzare as saying you want to stop drinking water? is it because someone made you feel bad about it? surely it's only a problem if it interferes with the rest of your life- like if dont have enought Time left to do anything else, or you cant meet your parters needs.

I'm an attractive, fun and healthy female. I love mastrubating (no asterisks here- because there's nothing wrong with the word, either!)
Wanking (or self- pleasuring as its now commonly called, to remove any negative or guilt connotations), is just delicious, as we all know. I do it as part of lovemaking with my hubby and (more often) on my own.

I used to m@asturbate 3-4 times a day but then I learned the error of my ways and that I was pulling my way straight to hell!

I confessed my sins straightened things out with the big man upstairs and found out I wan't alone. Father O'Neil confessed to me he too gets those devilish urges in his lower extremitys (pen*s). We put our heads together and came upon the obvious solution of rubbing each other off.

The moral of this tale DO NOT M@STURBATE!

Get an elderly priest to do it for you.

P.S does nobody else think its a joke that this website wont let you use the word m@sturbate, I mean isn't this the standard English and polite way of saying w@nking.

Im a girl and I do it all the time!

Its good for you, makes the blood flow round your body and more importantly, makes you feel satisfied! It's a healthy, normal thing to do.

Some people choose not to do it for their own reasons and thats fine.

We're human! You can be married and still enjoy your own sessions too, its just natural. If you stop then you wont be able to stop thinking about it and will probably make it worse! I've heard of people doing it like 20 times a day and they need help, your normal like everyone else

Keep it flowin...its the right of every male to wank rahul just like shahrukh khan in kuch kuch hota hai. but anyways its like workind days a week...5 times a week is good but after that its overtime, whichs not bad sometimes either and ofcourse you can wank on week-ends more than weed days lol *week days as its perfect time to do it. Chak de!

That's like saying, 'don't drink water because someone over there is thirsty.' Masturb*tion is healthy! Especially if you don't have a girlfriend or anything

garyslackjaw, thanks for explaining about the site not allowing the word. I'm new here, and was just getting pretty worried about no-one being able to spell it...;-)

Get closer to God he will set you free from that way of life =)

Get closer to God he will set you free from that way of life =)

you dont have to stop or w/e...

It is perfectly natrual and all I have to say is 3 times a week is not that bad.

your having fun without another.
whats so bad about that?
its healthy

It's a healthier option than having irresponsible sex (and possibly becoming a father when you're not ready for it) or marrying the wrong person just to have a sexual outlet.

omg thats nothing I do it so much, I really do wish that I didnt have to do it so often, im a girl and I do it when ever I get the chance. it really is annoying im sick of being so horny all the time

I have the same problem but worse I do it so much it gets really annoying, I wish that I didnt have to do it so much

if you didnt do it

WE WOULD BE WORRIED =(

Quit wacking it or you will end up banging sheep in a barn , Get a woman

Quit wacking it or you will end up banging sheep in a barn , Get a woman

You don't necessarily need a girl friend. A boyfriend will do just fine too. Seriously, you are doing yourself a lot of damage by worrying about M@sturbation. If you want a partner, fine...find one, but m@sturbating three times a week is totally normal and not a problem.

Just ask JESUS to come into your life & to forgive you of all of your sin`s & to cleanse you from all uncleaness in your life.You must get saved & get in a good Bible beliving Church to help you learn about God & Jesus.Pray also. Every time you want to do this thing call on the name of Jesus & get your Bible in your hand & read it.

This works for both sexes.
Just use jalapeno oil as a lubricant.
Works great for either tugging or rubbing.
Try it!

I hope that God is upstairs laughing at all you people saying that you're going to make your self sick and on top of that go to hell. It's normal. It's Healthy. And no one has ever died from it or gotten sick. You can't get any STD's from doing it. You can't get anyone pregnant either. And if God didn't want us to do it, he would not have made us the tools. Don't listen to someone that is just trying to hide behind God because it makes them uncomfortable. Really if you want to bring God into it, you have to think that HE has a sense of humor because HE made those people able to talk and think that they know what they are talking about. I'm 20 also, and you know what, I have neither died, gotten sick, or gone to hell, and I very much believe in God. SO don't stress buddy, because stress can make you sick, and there are worse things to stress out about.

I dont think you should stop maturbating just keep doing what you are doing until you find a girl friend that can do that and way more to you.me and my boyfriend do it to each other all the time when we are together and when we are away from each other we do it over the phone.so don't listen to what nobody has to say.

its normal. everyone does it. even girls. maybe not as much but still. apparently I heard that it reduces stress and that its heathy.

All this is so stupid. If you stop mas*urbat*ng for one week then you will not feel the need to mas*urba*e again. Anybody who disagrees with this has definetly not stopped mas*urbat*ng since they found out how.

Also, don't look at porn, avoid movies that have explicit content, and keep yourself busy, don't sit around doing nothing.

Hey I do it like 3 times a day...and im a chic...shucks im going to do it right now!!! lol
At least you arnt doing it with random people!!! That spreads disease and seeds!!!

Perfectly normal

Hurts no one

Cant catch STD's

And as an added bonus, IT FEELS REAL GOOD!

Go for it!

just control it for a week, you'll manage it after that. keep yourself busy

mastrubation reduces the balance of mens orgasms comparing to female orgasms, so the wife or girlfriend will look for other man., beware Guyz. STOP mastrubating
be healthy, be aggressive, boost yourself by keeping your blood for you, give more to girls by storing rather then loosing them

you dont need to stop,
three times a week is nothing
if anything, try doing it more times a week

this is all a load of crap!!! I am a 21 year old female who masturbates twice a day maybe more!!! it's perfectly normal!!! don't let anyone make you feel that it's something to be ashamed of because it's NOT!!!

thats not bad...I mean...just..do iy..and its just because your going thought something right now so...keep it up..I am right now too...and oral

hang a pair of ure daddy's underwear beside ure bed

lol you people are so funny well I suggest you read the bible

Okay, kinda gross I must admit xD

But to stop, read the bible.

Gosh, read Revelation ._.
It'll scare you so bad you won't want to do anything wrong.

ok just follow these steps
1.get a scissors
2.cut your di*k off then your done
lol joke and thats normal

if you quit it 4 a week you do six times the next week,seek someones advice,it will do you good

Mas*urbat*on is not needed or necessary. If you want to quit mas*urbat*ng keep yourself really busy, find out what your triggers are and do your best to avoid them. If things get bad go for a run, talk to someone (about ANYTHING else), take a quick cold shower, think of a positive uplifting thought. Do whatever works for you. Avoid pornography of any kind!
I know this is not easy, but it is possible! I know because I've done it. And it was the best thing I ever did! I feel better about myself, more confident, and happier! You can do this!

EWWW what the f*ck?!

Mas*urbat*on is a sin. Jesus says that immoral thoughts about someone of the other sex are just the same as committing adultry.

But I do understand, it is tough. I'm struggling with this issue at the moment. I managed to give it up for about 2 weeks, but now I'm back to doing it every day.

DON'T GIVE UP! Remember, God will never tempt you more than you can withstand. If you feel temptation coming on pray to God that he'll help you not give in straight away.

Other advice:
-get your computer some sort of filter thing that blocks out sexual sites
-go to the toilet lots
-if you are the last one in your household awake- go to bed
-read the Bible and pray before you sleep
-find a Christian friend to keep you accountable, get them to follow you up how you are going with it.
-when you stuff up, don't feel guilty, remember Jesus has taken the penalty and start concentrating again on not doing it again
-focus on getting closer to God

But it still will be tough. I'll be praying for all my Christian brothers around the world to continually strive for purity. Pray for me too please.

Mas*urbat*on is a natural thing to do...and at your age, it's practically expected that you would do it!! and I don't feel that 3 times a week is 'wrong' or anything like that...you are human, and have these needs...Just don't make mas*urbat*on such a habit that you cannot enjoy sex with another person...but at your age, 3 x a week is not wrong, or bad, or anything like that...Religion may be OK for some people, but it's not for everyone...we were given these desires and when they cannot be fulfilled thru intercourse with another person, doing it yourself is the next best thing...please do not feel any guilt...if you were doing it 3 times a day, then that would be a real problem!!!1

It makes your pen*s bigger lol when you stop my boyfriend stopped and his pen*s grew lol hella bigger then it was before!

yea im sure it made his pen*s bigger, are you completely stupid. its perfectly normal for everyone to mas*urba*e, girls do it just as well as guys. just dont be over doing it more than a couple times a week

Mas*urbat*on is not a bad thing and will not hurt you. Ever. 2-3 times a week seems pretty sparse anyway. For males mas*urbat*on even can help reduce risk of prostate cancer. Everyone masturbates, even if they don't want to admit it! I do, and it's nothing to be ashamed of!

wow...this really created a conversation!!! I don't think its bad...just dont make it your world. there is much more to life, your self, and relationships than orgasms. thay are good so keep it up but once you find a woman, who needs your palm?

since you want to stop, try to get into the habit of looking into girls EYES when talking to them. When not talking to them work on NOT looking at them.

well, im a female so I dont think all my answers will be good enough 4 u.
#1.stay in a room with lots of people of all ages.
#2.when you feel like m@sterbating ,go do something active outside ,or try going out for breakfast,brunch,lunch,or dinner with some of your friends
#3if you have a girlfiend or wife,try spending more time with her than yourself (if you know what I mean)
#4if you cant stop no matter what you do,just take a 4 to 5 mile jog take a 10min or less shower talk on the phone for an hour (pretty much im trying to say is to tire you self out by doing other things) and go to bed.

I hope this helps

If you is ugly - continue - you doing the world a favour. However if you is nice go do some girl a favour! Apart from that yeh you normal.

Tell me some thing. Why do you mas*urba*e? What motivates you to do it? Please email me with an answer and then we will chat and I will try to help motivate you to do it less and stop.