I'm 14 and pregnant

I'm 14 and I just found out I'm pregnant.. I have no idea what I'm going to do. Once my family finds out they will disown me and always think or me as a slut, I really want to have this baby and give the world to it, because I know I will be a good mother, but it's not going to be easy to deal with a family that doesn't support me.. and I'm afraid that the father of this baby isn't going to help me support it, I really need help on this... I have no idea what to do..

Do you have other family members that you feel comfortable talking to? Maybe they can help you out? If not, please contact a clinic right away to get some pre-natal care, and especially, some ADVICE and counseling, to help you without judging you. Don't be scared, they are there to help you. There are many outlets that that the counselors and Doctors can hook you up with. My prayers are with you and especially your unborn child. Try not to worry so much. Eat right, get plenty of rest, and if you smoke, quit, if you drink, quit. Please get checked right away if you really care about your baby. Everything else should fall into place.

Sincerely,
Donna Davidson

I think what adrian said is a good advice. you should really get sum care and help with this. because since you are so young you cant really get a well payin job to support your baby. But from wut I read in your Q I think that you will make a great mother so just stick with it and never give up hope. And you should sit down with your family and tell them..and explain to them how you feel. dont let them stop you from having your baby.

if I was yo momma you layed down with him 2 can take care of the baby you will b taken care of that baby I im not care of

Welll Let Me Tell you something My mothr was one of them types (u knw pregnant early) and she turned out fine. Your lfe mey not be perfect but you knw you can make it decent. NEVER get rid of the child trust that is never good. If you are a good mother like you say you are you might raise the next Kirk Franklin or meybe Ja-Rule (without all the dramma with other rappers) you will never knw how specail that baby is. Keep your h3ead up smile keep on steppin' be strong

if I was your mum I would be disapointed in you for having sedx underage and also getting yourself preggs but I would not want you to get rid ov that baby I would want you to look after it and I am more than sure that your family would not disown u

your family should support you if they don't then you should disown them

Your parents will probably be upset at first. But if they love you, they will support you during this difficult time. I also recommend telling someone you trust, perhaps a counselor at school or something. And it's crucial that you get regular checkups at the doctor. The fact that you show a willingness to get through the situation and help your child have a happy, healthy life shows that you have courage.

iagree with: Comment by bad_lover on Sat 24, Jun 2006 12:46pm

your family should support you if they don't then you should disown them.

why I am say; because you are just 14's years old. and life is very Difficult.

Once You Tell Your Family They Will Be In Shock Yes,.. But After A Month Or Two They Will Get Over it And Be Thankfull There I Another Someone In The Family To Love And Care For ! Dont Worrie Hunny Itll All Be Fine

hey you should be consious of what you are going to do!!it`s a question of your life!!you should ask the father of the child if he will support u !!do what your heart tells you

wow..well all I have to say is that I've never met a person in my life thats your age and is going through with this.
Im really sorry to sya but I think your parents are going to have a hardtime getting it in their heads that you are this young and pregnant.
Its going to be very hard on you I hope you realized. If the babys dad isnt going to support you and your baby then he shouldnt have to do with anything in your life anymore.
And if he doesnt want the baby..then he should have thought about using condems.
But you should just open up with your parents and tell them. I know you would rather have them knowing now then finding out when your belly has gotten bigger and your in the hospital.
Well I wish the best of luck to you and your future newborn.

wow..well all I have to say is that I've never met a person in my life thats your age and is going through with this.
Im really sorry to sya but I think your parents are going to have a hardtime getting it in their heads that you are this young and pregnant.
Its going to be very hard on you I hope you realized. If the babys dad isnt going to support you and your baby then he shouldnt have to do with anything in your life anymore.
And if he doesnt want the baby..then he should have thought about using condems.
But you should just open up with your parents and tell them. I know you would rather have them knowing now then finding out when your belly has gotten bigger and your in the hospital.
Well I wish the best of luck to you and your future newborn.

I say tell your parents now. Tell them that you made a mistake and you will do everything for this baby. They wont disown you, theyll get over it. they wont see you as a slut, sure theyll be disappointed, but theyll learn that this mistake can alos bring you as a fmaily more closer together. that saound okay?

no offence but the 12yr old that tinks shes preggs I was in your shoes about a few years ago and yess well still you need to get rid ov the baby you are to young you have your whole life to have kids

I would tell you parents, things happen every day that we dont expect,and surely there not going to expect this but 'they will'?
Life will be difficult for you at first but once you see who really loves you and cares about you things will get much easier and you will get the support that you need. your poarents will come to the conclusion that nothing can change what has already happened, So that leaves them no other option but to Love and care for youand that child as I know any good parent would...

Hi This IS Ask_me.... I just didnt log in.. but litsen 12 yr 14yr is way too young I've thought about it I am only 15yrs and I wanted wanted a baby and its just not possible you need a father who is going to be there to support himself the baby and you ... and ofcourse you need your parents to help you and well yourself your ruinning your lives!.... and honestly You NEED A JOB!!!! A Really Good One!..... But Anyways,.. I Just Hope Im Not Writting This Advice For Nothing if you are not pregnant dont fake it!.... Thats all im asking! But Good Luck!

I was a single mom at 17. when I told my mom she was disappointed but respected my decision to keep the child. My father wanted to kick me out. Parents react differently, but in the end, if they really love you, they should be willing to help you.

Just remember, if you choose to keep the baby, it is a lifetime commitment, the baby will need to come first in your life. Your life as you know it WILL change. As a parent, you will not get much sleep, no more parties, no more going out everynight or whenever you want. Personally, I think 12 and 14 is way to young to be having a baby. at that age, you are practically still a baby yourself, not old enough to get a job.

Wow - I am very strongly opinionated and I don't think you want to hear this but. You are too young to even think about raising this child. You do not have a life of your own yet! You can not even think about keeping this child. I agree that abortion idn't for some people, but when you have the baby - think about it. Being 14, the only way you could be a good mom, is by letting someone who can give your child a fighting chance with to parents, financial stability and a secure future.

U know what it is okay my because got pregnat at the age of 12-13 and her family supported yes they did get mad but they didn't hate her they still were there 4 her and that's what a true family does so if your family doesn't support you your friends here at funadvice will!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm going through the same thing I just turned 14 and I strongly believe that I am pregnant I also am relli scared to tell my family I think they wuld kick me out or be real mad for a long time. My baby daddy has another baby on the way except that baby is due real soon so not at the same time as mine. I think he wuld take it hard that he is on his 2nd child at 17 so I dont relli know how too tell him either. But I'm going too keep this baby no matter what people say it's apart of me and I think I would be a great mother I'm going to finish school I refuse to be another statistic because as a teen mother I know there will be a lot of judging and doubts and so I'm determined to prove all the haters and doubters wrong and to those of you who are in the same situation keep your head up trust in god because you are not alone! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox bye

My sister got pregnant at 14, My family wasn't to happy. But once they realized that she was not going to give it up. They accepted it. It will be a long hard raod for you! But if you truly love that baby it will be okay~ Just follow your heart and dont let anyone make you do what you dont want to do~~

hey, im 14 and I think I might be pregnent. I know how you feel when you say that you want to have this baby but your scared because of your family and everything. I feel the same. I don't know how to tell if I am pregnent or not though :S I think you should keep it though. if I got pregnent I would keep it. god wouldn't give you a burden that you couldn't handle! well, add me on msn if you have it Fun mail me if you need someone to talk to and for anyone else if they can help me out aswell! xox

im 14 and I think I might be pregnent! I need help by anyone who has msn Fun mail me

I think you should go threw with having a baby. KEEP IT. god wouldn't give us girls a burden if he knew we couldn't handle it!

I know how you feel when you say that your scared to tell them because they will disown you. but add me if you have msn because I have some people you can talk to for help and all.

hey girls my name is Adrianna and I am 15 and im pregnant. I just found im 20 weeks. and I found out its a girl my boyfriend (babys dad) is 17 will be 18 he is very excited and happy as so am I. I told my mom a week ago and she is very very upset with me. she hasnt talked to me since she has decided to disown me but I know she will come around if any of you have questions or anything else please email me I respond right after I get it. Fun mail me thanks girls and best of luck!

I am a 13 year old female and ofcourse I have been thinking about sex. I always think about *what if I get pregnant?* I always thought that abortion was bad and that everyone diserves a Birthday. Just think before you act. You should have sex with someone you love and who cares about you very much because if pregnancy does happen than you want to be ready.

email me Fun mail me

Hi, I think you should keep the baby if that is what you want to do. There are places you can stay with your baby if things go wrong when you tell your parents. Try http://www.shelter.org.uk. I hope everthing turns out ok for you. please keep in touch love sam xx P.S. I am also 14!

hia...im 14 too and would love to have a baby..but you should really think this through, I know you have probably heard it all before but it is a long term commitment if your family will not help you through this nor will your boyfriend then I would seriously think about how you are going to afford to pay for this baby. maybe you should wait a couple of years before commiting yourself to a child. love to chat again and maybe help you through this!
love lauren xx

I am a mother of a 14 year old girl. no matter what she does I couldn't imagine not helping her through. I hope your family understands what a sweet girl you are no matter what. Everyone makes decisions in life whether they are the right ones or not is another story. There is help out there for you and if you just need to talk I'm here.....

heyy well look im in the same shoes as yew.but idkk if im pregnant.idkk what to do.if anything write to mehh`.

who has sex at 14!

the only reason is rape

this is all very sad really. what should be the best years of your young life will abruptly end with having your babies, who wont have your full and undivided attn because you are so young! or you will give them all your time but there will be resentment its not anywhere ideal is it. young ladies of your age should be planning for the school dance and thinking about your future, not focused on diapers and so on. I hope atleast some smarter ones of you are considering all your options and coming up with adoption as one of them.

my namee is shawn. I'm 15 and I live in utah. I don't have a girlfriend and I haven't got a girl pregnant, so I don't really know what kind of advice to give you. but I hope the best for you and I believe thatif you keep the baby you will make an awesome mom. you should probably look for help from other family members.

well if you tell your parents they will be mad of course, but they will relize that they are going to that it is a living thing inside of you & they cant make you get rid of it, because its your baby not their baby & I know what your going through im 14 & pregnant 2 but the father wants me 2 get an abortion or hes going to leave me but hang in there & go with your heart

this was asked one yr ago we dont know things are for the original poster but for anyone else reading and has a similar situation get support whereever you can to make decisions like this. dont make decisions while you are emotionally upset, and when you tell your parents the big news pls find someone to be with you for that dont go thru that conversation alone. work out a plan and get organized one way or the other. it will be hard but it is something anyone can handle when they arent alone. dont forget the option of adoption either. take control and take responsibility. just because someone has the right doesnt mean they get the right. private message me if you wish to talk to someone. ill get the msg within a day or so xo

I dont know what to say.... its just sad that you are going to have a baby at 14...I guess it is what you get for having unpretected sex...or sex at all 14 is a young age...why would you even have it at that age... so sad makes us 14 yr olds sound like hoes. wow now your going to have a bad rep. and when you tell your boyfriend that your preg. if he don't stay with you then find some kind of help cause your going to need it!! srry to say that but its your fault for being a hoe......

life aint a garden stop being a hoe...I say that to all people having sex at a young age...... and even worse getting pregnant!!!! SO SAD!!!!!!!!!

Last year I was thirteen and I lost my virginity to someone who didnt deserve it. I regret doing this with my life because now I cant stop. He got me pregnant but I lost it and that left me emotionally scarred. He didnt even care about me and thats what hurt me the most. Now im 15 and im still not over anything. I believe you should be prepared because that can happen to you he might just up and run. Think about this thoroughly.

this is for you jimjam I am 15 and I have a 1 year old baby girl and I have twins on the way and what the hell so what am I a slut

Ok take a deep breath and think!!!!! I have not been put through this but you have to tell your parents, because if they find out from someone else you probably would be in more trouble. You also need to talk to the father of the baby and get together and talk about what you are going to do. Also see a therapist they can help.

hello
dont feel so guilty
even though you know it was wrong
I feel you will make a great mom
you have hope and that is good
be happy for your child, ok?
as long as you have something in your heart that is telling you that it is the last time getting pregnat with this age
bye sweety
be strong
I'll pray for you

I’m just shocked at all the young age pregnancies. There are so many birth control remedies out there. How come you kids aren’t using them? Trust me, I know what its like to get 'caught up in the moment' but having a child at age 12 & 14 is not going to be easy. I counsel teenage girls that are pregnant and I tell them the same. The one thing you should never do is wait to go see a doctor, planned parenthood is a wonderful organization that helps teenage girls with their pregancies. In time, your parents will accept things, but at first its going to be a shocker and thats normal. Your parents are going to want to know how you plan on your raising your child, what is going to happen with school, are you going to get a job, where are you going to live etc.. be ready to answer those questions. Just dont tell them 'you dont know' and if you know who the father is and dont plan on being with him file for child support. Big thing is take care of yourself, eat healthy, exercise (walk), daily, no smoking or drinking. You want your child to be healthy. Good luck and I hope this helps

WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW WATZ WITH THE UNDERAGE PREGNANCIES!! GUYS CAN NEVER BE TRUSTED ANYWAY THEY MAKE YOU PREGNANT AND THEN THEY DUMP U!!!! SO why SLEEP WITH THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE?? THEY PRETEND TO LUV U, ONCE THEY GET what THEY WANT THEY LEAVE U!!!!!!!!
ITS SAD !!!!

Hey. Don't listen to the negative advice that people are giving you on here. Only listen to the possitive. I know that you are going through a lot right now so don't let the judgement of other people bring you down. Here is my advice: You don't need an abortion because murdering an inocent being because of your own mistake(or his mistake) is unethical. It's wrong and you have already said that you already care for this baby. Also, don't disown your family! Obviousely you love them or you wouldn't be so scared about them disowning you. And don't stay with that guy if he doesn't treat you right. Obviousely he could treat you much better. Your a fourteen year old. To me I see that as a little vulnerable and you will understand when you are older. It seems like he took advantage of you. No matter what, keep your head held high through the hard times and remember that any child, no matter what the circumstances, is a blessing. Trust that if you work hard...and yes you will have to grow up way too fast. I'm so sorry about that, it will be worth it when you see the positive effect that it has had on your child. I'm not here to judge you. I want to help you. You need to tell your family. They are going to find out sooner or later, so tell them yourself. Be brave. I can't promise that they will be okay with it because I don't know them, but I'm sure they love you and though they may be stubborn, they will come around. Make sure you get a job as soon as possible. I know that may be hard for a fourteen year old, but just keep trying. Stay in school if at all possible. And remember the most important thing of all. This gets me through all of my stress and heartache.(You may not be a christian, but either way, you should at least think about this.) The lord is with you and no matter what you are going through, you should be happy because nothing you are going through could be worse than what the lord went through for you and you should be greatful. Remember that it is the devil who brings you down and he is no match if you stay strong and have faith that everything WILL be ok. And it will.

Good luck with everything
Sorry to type so much. It's late. I ramble!
You and the baby should be fine if you work for it.

your parents will b upset at first but their your parents they will stand by you no matter what as for the father I think you need to talk to his parents and see what they say.I hope this advice helped.

you guys do know she posted this almost last year? I'm sure she already had the baby or aborted it or w/e she did with it

I think you should tell your parents ' I am pregnant, please help me. '

that is what parents are for! helping you when you are in troble.

hope that helped.

I advice you never to give up .do what you think its corect. never abort you will kill some one.'its hard to draw water that has poured on the ground'.accept you did a mistake and we all learn from our past mistakes .if every one disowns you only one wont ' the one who created you'he knew that one day it will be like that so dont be afraid he will tke care of you and has greater plans for you.believe in him

maywell, while your faith is wonderful, I must object to your use of a public forum to get your religious views out. pls dont preach on public forums. we who wish to share in faith go willingly to those places where that is our choice, but in a public forum it isnt appropriate. ask people to discuss these things with you in private, certainly, and in this way you may have great results. however your use of public forums to state religious ideas to influence people on what to do, using forums to convince people of your way of thinking or believing... no youre better off enjoying yourself with people who share your views in your temple and go ahead and live your life accordingly and leave the job of helping people make their own choices those who need support to come to terms with their difficulties to others of us who trust people to best to make up their own minds about their lives.

I was 14 when I lost my virginity and I had that boyfriend for about 1 yr...I got pregnant at 15 years old ...when my parents found out...of course they went crazy! especially my dad ...im his only daughter and the youngest....they screamed at me! it felt awful! they never liked my x boyfriend...I would always choose him over anything...I was blind...at 6 mths pregnant....my babydaddy stopped calling....im not the type that will be beggin....so I left it like that...throughout my whole pregnacy...who was there the whole time? MY PARENTS!!! who was there when I had the baby? MY PARENTS!!! who has bought my baby ever single diaper and all the formula? MY PARENTS!!! they were the only ones that stood there by my side when otheres left my side!!! I never expected anything like that from my babydaddy...we had been together so long..but now I see how someone can change around on you all of a sudden....I am now 17 years old...and now I realize how hard it is to be a mother....now I understand why my parents always told me what they always did tell me! they werent being overprotective...they were just trying to do the best for me....they do everything for me...they take care of alexa [[my daughter]] and take care of me...they want me to keep going to school....they work their a** off to give me and my daughter everything we want and need!! sometimes I hate being a mom but then I look at her and realize that if it wasnt because of her I wouldnt have accomplished everything I did! I graduated a whole year early and am now going to go to college this fall...she was my motivation....its now not just me who I should think about but also her...I want the best for her...now I know that EVERYTHING DOES HAPPEN FOR A REASON....so dont worry...everything that doesnt kill you only makes you stronger!!! good luck! and it will be okay! LOVE esthela! :]

God bless you and your baby.
I hope both of you are doing well.
=]

Hi I think you are to young to have a child at this age you've got your whole life ahead of you and you've got loads of time to have kids. As for your family just tell an adult that you trust and they might be able to help you get an abortion.

cherry, considering you have a bias on this subject perhaps the thing would be to tell them what you would do in this situation but your credibility is reduced telling them what they should do here remember they are looking to have their fears heard and wish to find understanding. why they are asking others for input? it seems to be they arent prepared for positive action but why? who knows. theres a strong possibility they arent well supported and generally dont have good relations. that can be remedied by them making new connections to new people, but that takes a lot of good luck, time and effort. or maybe they have support, but have weak communication skills, or suffer with other weaknesses like poor stress management skills ...the list could be long. life is full of learning and building up good skills comes with time. the main thing for us is not to know all the reasons why they are in their predicament. there isnt a lot we can do for them with that with us here and them there.
what is important for us to offer them is hope. and, we must know that when we work at helping them from a more neutral position this will do much to help them make their best choices. its not easy. esp with some of these subjects that we have such strong reactions to, I know its a lesson in keeping cool but just thot id tell you to take this into consideration.

I think you should have the child and be decated mother because it clear to see you don't have a good relationship with your family. So build one with your child and yes be hard but nothing easy and if you do right unto that child you be bless one day. and how would you feel giving your own flesh and blood up. what if your mother did it to you. You would even be hear and live from miskaes and learn they give life and adventure. Rasie your child in way you wish you could have because child are the world future it all in there hand. Keep your head up and pray about it every child is a blessing

Are ycrazy? You have not lived your life yet. You are to young to have a baby. What about college, party's, having fun with your friends, just going out. You will end up losing all your freedom. You ou need to think about everything. You are just a kid yourself. I would be pissed if I was your family too.

What was you thinkin? He isn't going to stay with you. You will be raising that kid by yourself.

dont be scared I no its all so fast but god is with you and he nos whats best for your life....we all get into things sometimes that seem practically impossible to get out of 14 or not you need to take proper responsibilities I have plenty of young friends with babies and from the day they found out till now have matured incredibly because they have children in their lives now im not saying its right shame on them for having kids so young but sweety its not the end of the road

im 16. and not more then 4 months ago I was pregnant, things didnt work out for me and I miscarriaged but I will tell you that I was planning with my whole heart to love, raise and support my child. my mom cried when I told her but I was in a relationship with an 18 year old guy... needless to say I have a hardheaded father who I was deadly afraid of telling... and I found myself in the same situation that you are in now... I told my mom as soon as I could and I went to see a doctor with her... she was there for me and as soon as I found out I miscarriaged she was there for me when I did nothing but cry. I had told one of my cousins and she opened her mouth and told my father who didnt even tell me he knew... and then one day me and my boyfriend broke up and im kind of grateful that we did. thats when I was told that he knew and if he saw I was having the baby he was going to put him in jail. that put me in a more serious position then I have ever been in in my entire life... but when I sat down with him and explained the situation and explained that accidents happen he understood and even my hard headed father didnt kick me out or disown me which I thought for sure that he would. I wish you the best of uck with you pregnancy and you newborn when the time comes and I say keep your baby and dont let anyone get in your way of what you think is right deep down in your heart. <3 casey

listen sweety your parents love you no matter what is going to be hard, but you need they love and support right now, it may be yelling and screaming, maybe they may tell you do have an abortion, be patience, and tell them that you want this baby, and that you would be a good mom, tell them that your sorry, for getting them thru this, and also tell them that you love them, and you need they help, if they love you like I think, they will help you, dont give up have faith in god because what the other advice you have they are great ok and god bless

I was only 17 when I became pregnat with my first child. I was afraid to tell my parents too because I came from a christian home. Then I decided it was best if they knew as I was NOT giving the child up. They were mad for a while and then they supported me and planned to help me raise my child since the father has not been seen since I was two months pregnat and my child is almost ten now. When she was four months old I got involved with the love of my life and he supported her every since. Dont Give Up!! There is hope for single mothers and you will be rewarded for keeping the bay with smiles and kisses and hugs. Good Luck!!

yo yo girl iz feel uz fo' reelz. My girl dun got nocked up and I dontz no what to do. Face it, lifes tuff its tuffr if your stupid. Hope your babe iz doin good because I guess it been born by know.

I can't believe you would let yourself get pregnant at that age im your age and I wouldn't dream of being so silly seriously man havn't you eva heard of a condom?

Well first of all I am 19 and with 2 kids and my oldest was born when I was only 15 so I know what your going threw family will get over it yeah believe me my family was so mad at me but they were more hurt and disapointed than anything and then I was only 17 when I got pregnant again I mean I walked across the stage 7 months pregnant it wasnt fun but in all honesty do what you think is right not what others think is right or what they would do its hard dont get me wrong but you get through it and things will get better and dont caunt on the father either of my kidas dads are there so you dont need him your a strong young lady you just need to realize it.

oh my god hun!it will end up ok.I understand I mean im pro choice but I just couldnt get an abortion if I was pregnant.well first get a job as a waitress or somthing like that.then tell your parents that way if they do kick you out you will have a back up.if the dad wont help you cant make him.if no one else will help you go to a friend see if she will ask her parents to put you up for a while untill you have enough fora an apartment.if none of that works a counciler might help you find somthing.I hope you have a an easy trip finding you and your baby a home.

oh and dont worry your not a slut tons of girls our age are you know doing stuff they just try to hide it

Don't listen to those people who tell you to have an abortion, get rid of that baby, your too young. Some of them don't even know what it is like. Your the only one your heart will trust and listen to. And you have to face that life does get hard. I was a momma at sixteen. But you have to understand that God made things happen for a reason. And you have to figure out why. Trust yourself. Just because your 14 does not matter. It is all a big test to him. Once you have an ultrasound and you see and hear that heart beat you will want to keep that baby forever. Your the only one who can protect it from any harm. Tell your parents. It is one of the hardest things to do. And if you do deciide to keep your baby, DON'T be ashamed.

I think everything happens for a reason. Your not a slut. I know its hard on you right now but imagine how happy you will be when you see your baby the first time. You can call a clinic and get advice. I just hope it all works out. Your parents will flip out at first but it will work out and they will be more supportive than you think they will it will take time for them to get passed it. Call the boys and girls town national hotline for advice if there are no clinics there for you. They will give you nubers to call and give you advice if your parents do flip out.

im 18 and I think im a month pregnant or so..........my momma if I tell her would be disapointed but not my dad and hiz mom....thiz happen last year but it was a false alarm my momma was fureause but my poppz was proud and happy he couldn't wait to be a grandfather........................................he was so proud he evan told hiz girlfriend so parentz are diff and they react diff as well.

u should of thought about that before you had sex....how is the father going to support the baby?? you know damn well that young boys just like poking girls and dont give a damn if they end up pregnant....you cant get childs support from someone who doesnt work... and you are way to young to get an appartment or have a job...what are you going to do...?? what is a 14 year old girl doing having sex anyway?? you'll see what I mean when your baby girl just turned into her young teen years and is sleeping around and gets pregnant.. why should you expect your family to support you if they werent the ones with you while you were having sex?...how can you make it in this world having a baby and being too young and jobless...u are definetly putting more work for your family...babies need diapers, clothes ,milk,bottles, medicine etc...and what happens when he gets sick? who is goona pay the doctor bill? how are you going to get the money for all these things?...babies are expensive...u should of thought about all of this..your teen years is suppose to be having appropriat fun, hanging with friends, going out and when your 17 and up is when you want to go to more parties ,clubs, dances....you cant do none of that and you wont get a chance to ...u cant just get up and go any more, the baby will be fussy, crying, tired, and sick and you would be tired of sleepless nights....my mom always told me to have all the fun I want like going out to clubs, parties etc...have a good job and a place of my own and be finacially stable to start a family...im almost 19 and baby free and loving my young life and freedom

I THINK you SHUD TELL YA MAM because SHE WILL FIND OUT IN THE END and ITS BETTER CUMIN FROM U. THEY WONT DISOWN you THEY WILL BE CROSS AAT FIRST because YA 14 and THEY WANT THE BEST 4 YA BT AFTER that THEY WILL BE PLEASED 4 YA. I KNOW ITS NT EASY BT IT DOSE GET BETTA TRUST ME. THEY WILL NT THINK YA A SLUT ASWELL
JUST TELL THEM GD LUCK and BEST WISHES

I really dont think girls should be having sex at 12. im 16 soon and have been in a serious relationship for a long time. and havnt thought about sex yet. its life changing and you need to respet yourself before you doing anything.

just think about your actions.

Hi I fell pregnant at 14 and I didnt tell my parents till I was 7 months because I thought the same as your thinking they will be upset but you yourself has got to understand that it was your doing my daughter is now 2 and im 17 they love my girl to bits im now getting on with my life got my own place and shes happy do whats best for you explain to your mum tell her whats happened and what you want to do as you want to keep the baby explain to her why at the end of the day she will be mad your her little girl in her eyes your still her baby but you have now got to grow your mum loves you she wouldnt let you go on the streets or disown you but you got to understand why she will be mad talk to her everything will be alright Donna good luck for the future

a baby is a new person. a person that needs love, support, and thoughtful care.

the father can't support you. a 14 yo girl with a baby cannot earn enough money to support herself and her child, and has no support of a husband or family.

do what's best for your baby. adoption.

a baby is a new person. a person that needs love, support, and thoughtful care.

the father can't support you. a 14 yo girl with a baby cannot earn enough money to support herself and her child, and has no support of a husband or family.

do what's best for your baby. adoption.

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Hey; I too ended up being 14 and pregnant!!! I also thought my parents would disown me!!! Waiting to tell them only made matters worse!!! Yeah my mom was mad; but she was more hurt than anything!!! She was hurt that I didn't come to her!!! After a while; she got use to it; and really focused on getting everything my baby needed!!! Here's my sugestion; don't hide it from your parents, they will support you no matter what!!! First go to the father to be and let him know!!! Don't wait to go to the doctor for the doctor to tell them; it will only make things worse!!! Go to them; they will always love you no matter what you do!!! They may go mad at first, but then when they calm down you'll see!!! I took my mother to the doctor where she couldn't go all out mad!!! It will only make the relationship between you and your parents that much stronger!!! I am online all the time if you need to chat!!!

Okay, tell someone in your family that you think you could trust. Now you need to stop moping around and get up and get a job. Tell the father your pregnant and he need 2 get A job 2 or you will file chil support. Then if your parents kick you out you could have a little money and file for welfare. and get a little apartment.