I had sex with my boyfriends little brother

I made a big mistake. I was having problems with my boyfriend and I just needed someone to talk to. his brother and I are close enough that we talk about our problems together. He came to my house and we were just talking normal and he was the perfect...

gentleman like he always is. But I dont know what happened. I dont know what was going through my head when I kissed him. I kissed him out of nowhere like a slut. At first he was like, we cant do this, but I just kept coming on to him and stuff and eventually we had sex. now everything is all messed up. its so awkward when we are around each other. we cant even look each other in the face anymore. usually we would talk about each other but we cant even do that anymore, I think people are starting to suspect stuff. I want to tell my boyfriend but when he tells me he loves me it makes it so hard. I dont want to loose or hurt him. but I know it is inevitable. I just need to find the words to tell him. How do I tell him something like this? I love him so much, I just thought it was over, we had a huge fight and I took advantage of his brothers kindness and I threw myself at him. I guess I just needed to feel wanted but I shouldnt have slept with his brother. they are like best friends and this is going to kill him. I know I cant keep something like this from him. So please, somebody tell me how do I tell him this???

dot bother dear just tell hin that you are going to married with other other,whom my father like too much

ok there are 2 ways you can do this. both arent good...

1. you break up with him and give him another reason for it, dont say anything about his brother, this will ensure that his feelings wont be 100% nuked. And you can always be friends, then maybe after a while you could tell him about it.

2. you tell him you slept with his brother, now heres a 25% chance he will forgive you...but its not sure and I guess he wont talk to his brother anymore either. it will hurt him a lot and I dont think he will trust you anymore.

then there is the dont tell version... but that isnt good because sooner or later you will be haunted by it...

I say break up wid him the nice way.tell his brother you're sorry.tell your boyfriend that it happened,but explain why very calmly.

Do not be in panic. What you did is not so unusual as you think of it. Even I did my older brother's fiance'e many years ago. When you loved your b/f's brother then you loved an other part of your b/f -- since brothers are almost the same persons. You may tell this to the younger brother; you were searching for his brother in him. I do not know how your b/f will react to the story, but if I were your b/f I did not break up with you because of this. Italians say: "it remained in the family". In fact, that you made love with the brother shows that you are in love with your b/f. You are young, curious, and eager for sex. I do not see too much problem. It is much better than to be a sexless frigid girl. You and your b/f will have an interesting topic what to talk about.