Should I tell someone about what I found about my dad?

I was visiting my dad for a day
(my dad and my mom are married but my dad lives in a different country because of his job
my brother, mom, and I live together,)
and I was text messaging my friends with my dad's cell
and I saw one of the messages that...

were sent from my dad's cell phone,
it said "honey I'm sorry I hurt your feelings, I love you "
I was so shocked, because this message wasn't sent to my mom
it was apparently sent to a friend of his
I was so hurt, I cried so hard that I couldn't even open my eyes
I felt so lost and confused
I asked him myself, crying, I was swearing, cause I was so mad,
I couldnt control myself I really felt like I had nothing to live for anymore and I still do
I tried to strangle myself, to show him that I feel like I dont want to live anymore
I've always felt bad for my friends who have divorced parents
and now I feel like im one of them
I feel betrayed, and the worst part of my story is that he is keep on saying that it's just a friend
I want to tell my mom, but he's keep on denying it,
and sometimes I wonder, if im just going insane,
I don't want to admit it , but I'm sure that he is lying.
I really want to talk to my friends about this, but I feel so embarrassed.
I don't know what to do, how do I know for sure he isn't lying?
sorry if this was too confusing,

Hey!

Well by reading this yur dad had said "Honey im sorry I hurt yur feelings I love yooh" it wasnt sent to yur mom but to some other person. Well im sorry to say but I think yooh should tell your mom. Im sorry to say this also but I think he's cheating on her. just cause this is happening yooh should not say that yooh dont want to live anymore. I had that feeling before but then I looked on the bright side. Tell me how yooh would feel if a family member tried to strangle them selfs and they died from it? wouldnt yooh be sad and be missing them so much.

Well I hope I helped yooh out!

Hey!

Well by reading this yur dad had said "Honey im sorry I hurt yur feelings I love yooh" it wasnt sent to yur mom but to some other person. Well im sorry to say but I think yooh should tell your mom. Im sorry to say this also but I think he's cheating on her. just cause this is happening yooh should not say that yooh dont want to live anymore. I had that feeling before but then I looked on the bright side. Tell me how yooh would feel if a family member tried to strangle them selfs and they died from it? wouldnt yooh be sad and be missing them so much.

Well I hope I helped yooh out!

I think you've got to ask yourself - will any good come from this if I tell ?..if the answer is no, I wouldn't..this could change with proof-positive..I wish you the best !!

I think you should just tell your mom. She has the right to know. Your parents can probably talk this out and see what they can come of this. But you shouldn't hurt yourself over this. That will just make things worst. Your parents already have too much to worry about.

I hope I helped =]]

I think you should tell your mother, dont tell her you think hes lying, just tell her the FACTS tell her what he said & let them handle it , its their marriage & you shouldnt be ashamed im sure all of your friends, not one of their parenst has a foolproff marriage.

kryss =]

I would *65 that # 2 see who it wuzz if wuzz not yo mama then I would get all up and his face til he says that he wuzz cheatin

wait ... can you explain, your dad lives in another country and you were visiting for only a day?
I am a little bit confussed. How long has he lived away?
But anyway, I think the best way to handle this is to talk to your dad alone first,

Ask him about if first, tell him you already know because you saw the cell phone,
Give him a chance, and let him anwser you.
Then simply tell him that you are giving him a choice to tell your mom him self
( with a time limit, say a few days, what ever you decide)
and that if he does'nt tell you mom, that then you are going to tell her
.
This way you are being fair and giving him a chance to explain his actions, and a chance to fess up... him self.
if he doesnt then you have every right to tell your mom.