I dont think im giving handjobs right.... I'm embarrased when he fingers me too...

My boyfriend and I have been seriously commited to one another for about three months now. We are in love, and we have had sex. We are teenagers and both live with our parents, so it can be quite difficult to have sex all the time, and I suppose that...

would get kinda boring. We do other stuff, or attempt to anyways. He always wants to finger me, and eat me out when he can.. he LOVES to do stuff to me, you know.. But thats one of my problems. I shave, he likes it that way and so do I, but no matter what different gels I use or what razors.. I always get red bumps and ingrown hairs.... I think its hiteous looking and gross.. so I am usually a bit reluctant to let him venture that way with his hands... and I am completly infatuated with his pen*s as well... lol... I dont have a problem with preforming oral sex.. but sometimes we can't, and sometimes I don't really want to, you know. It seems like so many times, he wants me to give him a hand job, and thats where the second problem is you see. I want to, and I try to, but its like this.. its dry.. and it doesnt realy look like my hands moving.. it takes the skin with it, and im afraid im hurting him. I've seen him do it himself and it doesnt look like that. he says he likes it but im not sure... when its wet, like if I was preforming oral sex, it seems to work a lot easier. I think if I use lube it would be better but I dont know. and he said once "ky?!?! what the f*ck.. im not some kind of sicko mas*urbat*on freak..." so I dont think hes really into experimenting with that...

is there anything I can do to make his handjobs feel better, besides like technique and what not? And what can I do about my shave bumps that are soo embarrasin?

pleese help me!

ima beautician and truthfully even though it is popular shaving really isnt recommened.it wil cause bumps and ingrowing hairs whether it be shaving after once or twice or several times they eventually appear so as for shaving upwards or downwards it really doesnt make a differnce.if your not comfortable with the idea of waxing (which really isnt as bad as people make it out to be) try depilatory creams/hair removal creams try something free of perfume it would be less irritant to the skin.as for the handjob I would too recommend saliva and thrusting to the skin rather than the pen*s as somone has already stated

look I can't help you with the shaving thing but I think I can help you with the handjob thing.....if your anything my girl, I bet your trying 2 move the his pen*s instead of his skin, and that's what hurts because it's like your trying 2 pull it off. try moving the skin instead of the pen*s because that's what gets us guys off.

hey... dont really know what to tell you about the whole hand-job thing but as for shaving... are you shaving upwards? like how you would shave your legs? because if you are then that can cause bumps. I've had those before when I was shaving like that... but I've noticed that if you shave down like in the direction that your hair grows then you wont get those bumps nearly as bad. also you could try aveeno shave gel... its really good about not irritating the skin. hope that helps. take care!

hey welll im kinda experienced with that stuff and one time I was giving this one guy a hand job and told me it hurt when it is dry try spitting in your hand then doing it its a lot easier........for the shaving part are u shaving upward try shaving down ward and see how it goes ok well I hope it helps

Try getting your hand wet with silva and just working on the head of it. Also you can try kissing and sucking on his niples while you are giving him a hand job.

For god sakes, don't use saliva. Some guys get really turned off by that!

if he lies down and you sit beside him of his right side and use your left hand, if will drive him insane. I'm not sure if it is best to face your fingers up or down just give it a try both ways. I am presuming that your guy still has his skin so hold him gently but firmly, it is retty hard to hurt them, and some times they like it.

if he lies down and you sit beside him of his right side and use your left hand, if will drive him insane. I'm not sure if it is best to face your fingers up or down just give it a try both ways. I am presuming that your guy still has his skin so hold him gently but firmly, it is retty hard to hurt them, and some times they like it.

right im a guy and I get given handjob's and I mas*erba*e myself so dont try pullin the di*k off it wont work that will hurt
just move the skin

You should first wet your hands, and then use the wet hands to jerk his pen*s. That way the wetness will not make the skin come off and make the pen*s nice and firm.

okay. here's the deal. the first time I had sex, he didn't c*m. that was embarrassing! I tried jerking him off once too, and boy, did that not work. our relationship ended months after all that jazz but it still haunts my memory. I must be terrible. I've been with this new guy for what seems like forever. I'm really falling for him, as is he for me. we talk about having sex, but so far it's yet to happen. I'm a pretty big tease and I can certainly turn him on. he's fooled around with me before, but I'm afraid to actually get into his pants. I really like him and I'd like to stay with him for a while. I just hope all this doesn't completely scare him away. anyway, the point is... I need some pointers or something. I've got to be doing something wrong.

Ok, So I think I'm a bit older so here's my experience. So the guy does not like ky.. its got a gross name any way. There are a lot of really nice water based lotions that smell good and feel good that you can buy. You can get them on line if you don't want to go to an "adult" store. Tell him its massage oil... there's nothing like a hand job with a nice smooth massage oil. Careful with condom though if its oil based. My boyfriend loves my handjobs cause of the lotion and it smells good to

Moan while your doing it it tuns them on more so they would injoy the blowjob

For the bikini bumps, try shaving downwards or sideways. It will prevent a lot of them, but nothing can prevent all. Chances are, your guy probably hasn't noticed them. Remember these two things: You always notice things about yourself more than other people notice about you, and if it was really gross to him, he wouldn't want to keep doing it.

As for the handjobs, if he says he likes it, he does. Keep doing what you're doing unless he starts saying it hurts. KY jelly apparently turns him off, so stear away from lubes, lotions, and oils. If pulling his skin bothers you, wet your hands with water.

Hope I helped!

use lotion down there. I do and its smooth.

ok for starters with the shaving part if you use Nair that really does help and it works really goos without irration and to tell you tha truth waxingreally doesnt hurt all that bad and about the hand job try like spitting on your hand or sumthing and focus more on the skin and the head it always works for me I mean don't hawk a luggy in your hand but you know what I mean...

yeah

the way I see it is ask what he likes...
while giving a hand job just ask if he wants it rougher, softer, with more pressure... you wont know if your doing it right uness you ask

For the bumps shave downward and the handjon, use lotion or lube

give him a blow job first get it wet then use your hands