I dont think I like who I am anymore..

take me away Asked by qwerty69 4 months ago, 11 answers.

I know probably no one will read this or reply to it, but anyways.
I dont know if I like me anymore, im doing things that I never thought I would.
and I have just realised how immature my friends are.
and then people think im like them, its driving...

me crazy.
I have done everything but sex with this guy I have no idea why, I suppose just to shock my friends. I want to be some one else
like not my looks or anything im not like really hot but I think im alright and im happy with that.
but like my personality

okay well my question is
when you in the middle of high school is it to late to change everything?
your friends, your morals. everything?

Answered by ty on Jul 14, 2008, 01:40AM
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It's never too late to change... And highschool might seem like the world right now, but you've got a long long ways to go after high school. If you dont like who you are, change...

Answered by yumiran on Jul 14, 2008, 01:43AM
| 26 answers.

It is never too late to change and start over again you can be at your 60s and still learn new things and meet new people, and change your morals, etc.

your personality will developt through out the time there is no hurry, the truth is most of the people that you are going to meet in your adulthood vary a lot. some share your points of view and some not, you really dont neeed to exclude your actual friends, you have your thoughs, they have theirs, just be true to what you think, and be strong with peer pressure.

Maybe you have developed faster, if thats the case, thats cool. you can say hi to your friends and if they think you are stupid and decide to not talk to you, well its ok, they will later realize that you were right all the time, meanwhile if they walk away, let them go. and try looking for new people that you can relate more with, join clubs, sports, temples, volunteer jobsetc

Answered by trisarahtops on Jul 14, 2008, 01:45AM
| 583 answers.

Don't let people hold you back from being who YOU want to be. I've let people do that to me since I can remember! I've ALWAYS had someone decide what I should do, and now I'm not letting them do that anymore. If it's who YOU want to be, and it's something you want to do and something you're willing to do, than I say go for it. And goodluck

Answered by megancmy on Jul 14, 2008, 01:45AM
| 5 answers.

No, it is not to late to change everything when you are in the middle of high school. You want to change friends? Yea, you can. Find cooler or funnier ones. But please don't forget your old friends. They were the ones that helped you to be who you are today. You want to change your morals? Hmm... I think so, you can. But change how? Into a better person? Or the other way round?

A lot of people say they don't like/hate themselves. Then why were you born in this world in the 1st place? By accident? Puh-lease. We all have a reason to be born.

You say your looks are fine. You say you're alright. So whats the problem? Okay, you had sex with a guy to what, shock your friends? For what reason? By the way, how old are ya?

My advice is that you can still change whatever you want. But just make sure you're changing it into a better thing for your life in the future.

Hope this piece of advice helped. Good luck pal!

Answered by seven77 on Jul 14, 2008, 02:08AM
| 12 answers.

its never too late...and if your friends are changing who you are what kind of friends are they...you got to surround yourself with people who understand and love you for you...you shouldn't have to impress anybody...the people who love you will already be impressed...one of the most important things I've found in life is realizing that the only person in the world that should be satisfied with you is well...you...unless what you're doing is harming others or breaking laws lol...but its very MATURE to realize that you may not be heading in the dirrection you want to end up in..many kids just continue to go with the flow until it really IS too late...but you're still in highschool..you have plenty of time to find yourself...thats what this part of our life is about...so even if you have to find new friends that suit your lifestyle and personality...go for it...you dont have to fully leave those friends...just find new ones...and if you find you've made a mistake...you can always go back and try to keep your old ones...sometimes it isnt being selfish when you care about yourself..its apart of life..and you got to do whats best for you

Answered by fau on Jul 14, 2008, 02:21AM
| 3947 answers.

No, I am 22 and I am still changing!

Answered by europeansss on Jul 14, 2008, 05:13AM
| 8 answers.

dont post stuff like this I dont think the adminstrator can handel stuff like this it might be to much for him...but anyways na it aint to late to change just got to find your self you know do w,e you feel comfortable screw what other people think and screw sterotypes to

Answered by simplyodd on Jul 19, 2008, 11:53PM
| 8 answers.

I understand you so much. I am going through the exact same thing, I wish I had advice that would benefit you, for me I realized I was friends with a lot of people just out of comfort, like they didnt really make me laugh, and I didnt really care to hang out with them. but I didnt have to make new friends even though my old friends and I grew apart. so I just tore myself out of the group, which has made me oh so bored, but id like to think that you should surround yourself with people that help you grow, not dead weights. and as for me liking who I am I honestly ask myself that everyday. and its no. I like that I have the ability to change myself into something im proud of, because I honestly feel I just blend in with the furniture most of the time. im going into junior year and id ask my friends if this year can change into something worth while, because I feel I havent really engaged myself in the moment. but to answer your question, im giving it an effort, so I think you should too, sounds to me like you have already changed

Answered by simplyodd on Jul 20, 2008, 12:16AM
| 8 answers.

I understand you so much. I am going through the exact same thing, I wish I had advice that would benefit you, for me I realized I was friends with a lot of people just out of comfort, like they didnt really make me laugh, and I didnt really care to hang out with them. but I didnt have to make new friends even though my old friends and I grew apart. so I just tore myself out of the group, which has made me oh so bored, but id like to think that you should surround yourself with people that help you grow, not dead weights. and as for me liking who I am I honestly ask myself that everyday. and its no. I like that I have the ability to change myself into something im proud of, because I honestly feel I just blend in with the furniture most of the time. im going into junior year and id ask my friends if this year can change into something worth while, because I feel I havent really engaged myself in the moment. but to answer your question, im giving it an effort, so I think you should too, sounds to me like you have already changed

Answered by simplyodd on Jul 20, 2008, 12:16AM
| 8 answers.

I understand you so much. I am going through the exact same thing, I wish I had advice that would benefit you, for me I realized I was friends with a lot of people just out of comfort, like they didnt really make me laugh, and I didnt really care to hang out with them. but I didnt have to make new friends even though my old friends and I grew apart. so I just tore myself out of the group, which has made me oh so bored, but id like to think that you should surround yourself with people that help you grow, not dead weights. and as for me liking who I am I honestly ask myself that everyday. and its no. I like that I have the ability to change myself into something im proud of, because I honestly feel I just blend in with the furniture most of the time. im going into junior year and id ask my friends if this year can change into something worth while, because I feel I havent really engaged myself in the moment. but to answer your question, im giving it an effort, so I think you should too, sounds to me like you have already changed

Answered by rickyullmanandlinkinpark4life on Oct 11, 2008, 04:00PM
| 45 answers.

I dont like who I am either-and its not too late to change anything.
Actually, isnt high school the place where you're SUPPOSED to change?
I want to change but its too hard for me. But I'm weird and I want people to accept me.

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