Should I break up with him now instead of later?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year.. and I have always wondered why he said he never wants to get married and his answer for that was" divorce is too expensive" and I have always wondered why he would say such a thing.. and then I...

found out yesterday that the majority of his family are all divorced and so thats why he thinks that and I asked him last night if he thinks our relationship will last and he said" 3-5 years would be nice"... well.. my question is... how should I feel about that? knowing that we will break up within those years doesn't make me feel good.. should I break with him now so I wont be so painful.. or is there a reason to stay those years falling more in love with him.. and being hurt a lot more??? he is my first I have ever done with.

Wow...That's a big one. Unfortunately a lot of people are thinking that way now. He definately has some issues that he has to take care from within. As far as you breaking up with him, thats a tough one to answer. You need to talk to him a let him know that you are in this for the long hall. If he seriously has no intentions of marrying the woman that he loves, then you need to take a long hard look at what YOU want. Good luck. I know that if I was with a man that had no intentions of a future with me, then I would leave.

Wow...I would dif open up the door of communications with him. Be nice but direct and ask him why he thinks wer'e only good for 3-5 years? what are your likes and your dislikes and why can't you not see us together for the long haul.... you need to ask this of him because without answers .....you need to leave him. You are giving your love to the wrong person and wasting good prime years for some one else to enjoy and cheerish. Have the talk very soon!

ask him if he loves u ? if he does then why does he think this . for example lets say his parents are divorced when they got married they were in love but the love went away . just because this happend to them doesnt mean it will happen to you guys . tell him that you love him and that you will always be there for him even if you guys get a divoce.