I dont get it

I am not that big I am average and tall I am 5 8 and im only 14 and I now I finally feel confident in my self. but my dad keeps calling me fat. ( even tho he calls my mom fat and she is a size 4 or 5 ) and he has a beer belly. I just dont get it!!! what...

is up with that??

ok, your DAD is calling you fat?? wow, thats effed up dude

tell him to stop, talk to your mom about it

you can talk to each other to build your confidence back up (if you need a boost)
tell your mom that she is beautiful and NOT fat, be sincere

she will do the same, most likely
DONT EVER call your dad names, respect him no matter what

build HIS confidence up by finding great things about him, and mayybe he will stop

dont take sh** like that EVER
stand up for yourself, but keep respecting him and maybe, he will get a clue and respect you back

hop I helped

He is just self consious of himself and his fatness. If he has a beer belly, he's fat. If you know your not fat, and your mom does, just don't listen to him. He's just being a jackass. Be confident, if ignoring doesn't work, then tell him that he should maybe lose some weight. But not to harsh, you don't want your dad to get too mad. Hope I helped!

Your not fat...and nether is your mom...
Your dad is just being a jerk...Your dad is most likely not confident in his self.
Trust me...
My dad calls my mom names like slut. My moms not a slut.
Hes not very confident in his self because hes 20 years older then my mom.
Just do what my mom does...ignore it...you no its not true, hes just mad because you and your mom look good and he doesnt.

Hope you dont listen to what hes saying about you and your mom.
and I hoped I helped.
if you need anymore advice just funmail me.

your dads being a bully and displacing his own issues on to those around him...

I would say get even.dont take crap from him.if I were you I would call him every name in the book.you should drag his name in the dirt.get under his skin.dont let him hurt your feelings.so just look at all the bad things about him and make sure you remind him of these things each and every day.like when my dad 'try" to talk about us.me and my sister put him in check quick.like we call him a dead beat.and we joke on the fact that he is old and he wears dentures. if you want to you can keep the jokes PG but me and my sister talk about our dad bad.you just have to be strong.I dont go around just starting s*** with him but if he talk oh he's going to get it.so think about that.

Okay don't listen to carolyn nicole. You don't have to result to name calling. Treat people as if you would want to be treated, you saw my advice earlier. But if he does get really under skin, maybe a couple of insults should work...just not yet...wait it out like I said before.

ya thanx ladydon7 I would never do that to my dad ahhh.

I think you should call him names.give him a dose of his own medicine.if you are "confident " like you say you are you wouldnt put up with someone disrespeting you.You even said he calls your mom fat.basically you dont have to take my advice but let me tell you.it is not right for him to disrespect you and your mother.never in my life would I let that happen .I would pull my mom aside and tell her that she needs to get a divorce.she does not need to take that verbal abuse.

well...I think you should talk to your dad about it. more than likely he is self concious about himself. you need to stand up 2 him and let him know that him calling youfat really hurts and ask him to please stop.
good luck! hope I helped!

ISA YOU ARE NOT FAT!!! he is lying to you!!! I mean how much do you weigh like 120?? 130 at the most possible max???