I dont feel loved

I have beeen going out with my guy for 4 years,but he does not have time for me.all I just want from him is the time but he is so wrapped up in his work (thats what he says that he is busy).I want to leave him but I dont have the nerve to.I tried talking...

to him ,telling him how I feel but there is no change,I have ben patient for all these years & I cant take it anymore.I am hurting ,I dont feel the love.I am confused...why does he not understand what I want?why is it that I nolonger feel that he loves me?what must I do?I have tried going out with other guys but I always go back to him.

he is using u. you need to get out of a deadend relationship it is not healthy
if he knows you will always come back to him he will treat you like dirt if you already talked to him and he blew you off then tell him and leave

I AM ONLY 14 DO NOT MAKE YOUR DIESCION BECAUSE OF ME I HAVE NOT HAD A DATE OF OVER 2 YEARS I AM NOT THE DATE DOCTOR.

do you guys live together? is the sole breadwinner and thats why he is so busy? maybe you arent the only one feeling unloved and unappreciated in this relationship. I tell my boyfriend thank you even if he gets me a 89 cent bean burrito from taco bell because I know he works hard for his money and for some guys, thats the only way they feel they can show affection. if he gets something for you, show him that you really care and really appreciate him sacrificing his hard earned money to make you happy.

but...if he really is ignoring you and he has become distant then talk. I cant do the talking for you nor can I assume what he is thinking. he may not even think he is ignoring you because you have been so silent about it all this time. you have to speak up otherwise nothing will change.

maybe you guys need some time out... like if you live together.. move out for a couple of weeks and then go back and see what happenes or vis versa... if when you come back and hes got some one or you have someone well then you truly know its over... thats my advice

Dear gigi2,
Time to face reality...this guy isn't into you and you need to move on. He's busy, that means he doesn't want to be with you. Why are you afraid to move on? Do you not think there are other guys who would like to go out with you? If not then I suggest counselling for self-esteem issues. They will discover why you would stay with someone who just doesn't care.
Sue...good luck