How can I get out of my current situation in life?

Thunder Robot Asked by funadvice about 1 year ago, 6 answers.

Actually I love life, but I don't like the way I have to live it. I turned 18 in March and it was the worst mistake of my life. School was hell, I don't want a job, and I don't want to have to deal with anything I'm going to have to deal with as a...

stupid 'grown up'. I just want to do what I want when I want, which shouldn't be too much to ask for because I don't want to kill anyone or steal anything or do drugs or hurt people or anything. My family sucks, and they don't like the way I'm trying to live my life, which is freely and happily and care free and problem free. I'm guessing they're jealous because I'm ok with being a 'failure at life' while they are always worrying about everything.

I just want my life and my freedom.

But I can't have either.

I want to break free, free as a bird now, and head out on the highway, looking' for adventure.

How?

Answered by amblessed on Aug 03, 2007, 08:01PM
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Realize having no ambition, you will never be able to get ahead and afford the nicer things in life...hope you make smart life decisions because they all come with lasting consequences...I wish you the best !!

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Answered by funadvice on Aug 03, 2007, 09:17PM
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Hey Kamax freedom is earned. . . . You said somethings that didn't add up. " I don't want a job, and I don't want to have to deal with anything I'm going to have to deal with as a stupid 'grown up'. I just want to do what I want when I want" and "I don't want to / or hurt people or anything. My family sucks, and they don't like the way I'm trying to live my life, which is freely and happily and care free and problem free." (I omitted a little .)
1. you don't wand a job / problem free. . . . Duh I can imagine the problem this causes for your family. . . No wonder they suck. . . I'd of thrown you out in June.
2. I don't want to have to deal with anything I'm going to have to deal with as a stupid 'grown up'. . . . . To late your already a stupid adult. Funny how childhood passes us by. . . .
GROW UP. . . . and stop acting like a child. .

Answered by funadvice on Aug 03, 2007, 09:33PM
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I was like you when I turned 18 but now I am 19 and as I am approaching 20 ... I feel the pressure and the heat coming onto me, already... I just want to be a little girl now... and not be a ADULT anymore. I mean being an ADULT is such a big responsibility I mean just looking and hearing the word ADULT is ENOUGH. I mean I didn't want to get a job as well I felt like it consumed my freedom just as being into a very mature person who has to handle the problems that your parents are not suppose to. It's all apart of life. You can still be free in many ways. Like get a part time job to start off at a place you like to be around like for instance if you like music work at a music store that sells records. Then go to college and just take a course as a hobby like study art/music. By the way, to enjoy more freedom don't get into a relationship...because it doesn't give you FREEDOM, you are going to be responsible for a person's feelings... and etc.

Answered by lillady on Aug 04, 2007, 01:27AM
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im 13, so yay! im living a good life...
yet, im 13 and im already thinking about my future...I want to be in the Marines when I get older... I wont be 18 until like 5 years!
wow...
I live a good life with my family, yet I want to be in the marines and then the S.W.A.T
yes I may be crazy to u...but you have to know when to grow up...my brother has just turned 17...
1 more year until he turns 18...he will also be joining the marines...why cant you just get a normal job, yet me and my brother want to have adventure! But our adventure is on Life and Death... now you dont have to join the Marines... I cant wait till I turn 14 and go into high school...because thats when I start my training for the marines...I start off in the ROTC.
why cant you get a normal job...u dont want to be 18..yet you are...so get over it, because I want to be 18 yet im 13...
Get use to it...thats why we call it "LIFE"
u turn 18 and you have it! you do what ever you want...

Answered by funadvice on Aug 12, 2007, 05:00PM
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Grown ups suck, and rnealw, you're proof.

Freedom doesn't have to be earned. Or at least it shouldn't. Especially since we live in a place called America. Born free. Die free.

It's not a huge deal for my parents. They buy food that I eat and that's about it. I'm leaving as soon I can anyway, because this place sucks. And I don't care if they throw me out because I have no problem sleeping outside, because I'm not a childish brat, and I can hold my own. Homelessness might be fun anyway. But nah, you'd be too weak to be able to handle it, as you'll prove if you respond in which you'll most likely mention that I'm wrong and I should try it sometime just to see how bad it is. But I'm quite the adventurous survivalist. Something you would fail miserably at, judging by your picture.

How does any of this relate to Paris Hilton anyway? You're just another one of those old sore losers who just accepted that all your life people are going to try tell you what to do and how to do it and you just gave in and did everything they said.

Society took advantage of you, and now that you've seen me trying to break free, something you failed to do, or were too afraid to try, you're scared that your life has sucked a lot more than it should not have. You don't want to admit it, and the only way for you to cope is to tell me to "grow up" (GREAT advice by the way...) and try to make me give up and accept the same stupid crap you did so I can't be one person of proof that life doesn't suck.

Because it doesn't.

It's people like you that try and make life suck. But I won't have it. And that's what I'm trying to put an end to.

Answered by funadvice on Aug 12, 2007, 05:34PM
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Kamex I have been there (homeless) it's not the least bit fun. If that's what you want I suggest you stop looking for approval from others and go chase your dreams. . . I'm going to suggest you head east first and go to Arlington Virginia And visit Arlington national cemetary and Tell the guard at the tomb of the unknown soilder that freedom doesn't have a price and it doesn't have to be earned. . . . The price of your freedom was blood mixed with both sweat and tears. . . I wish you godspeed and peaceful rest. . .

I guess I am weak. . . I earn my way one way or other. . . I beat a drug addiction and Told the world it owed me nothing.
I also served my Country. . . . Proudly. ( Forward observer)
In the game of life I'm winning. . . .
Have a wonderful free life

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