Did he use me for sex?

Pattie and George Asked by modernwinterbreeze about 1 year ago, 2 answers.

I like this guy,named Ethan and I guess you could say,that we've been friends for about,a year now.We never talk in school,but we only seem to talk on the computer.
Well,to make a long story,short,we became "Friends with Benefits," for about a week,or...

so.

I did like him,at one point,but he said he didn't care if I did,but then again,we were friends with benefits.If it wasn't for Ethan,I wouldn't have ever gotten my first kiss.

So,I wondered why we were friends with benefits,and I ask him if he liked me,and he said he did.Then,he turned around and said that he used me for sex.But,the story doesn't end there.

We still talked afterwards,but then again,felt pretty awkward.

So,he goes to this dance with this girl,and I got upset.But I do remember that he kept looking at me,and also making eye contact.Don't know why though.So,I got a bit hurt that he went with her,and yeah,jealous I guess.

He found out from a friend of mine that yeah,believe it or not,that I was cryin' over him,and he said it killed him when he found out,but he said he didn't like me,in that way,so that's unfortuante,but then he did say that he still cared for me.

So,be honest.Say what you honestly think about this situation.Good or bad?But I really want to know a second opinion.

Answered by mesofly13 on Oct 22, 2007, 06:46PM
| 56 answers.

I dont know what you look like but if you are pretty he did use you for sexx.but if you have feelings for him and he has feelings 4 you then listen to your heart!

Answered by angelfire2708 on Oct 22, 2007, 06:48PM
| 5944 answers.

I thought this very same question was already posted.
Its still a BAD situation!

Anyone who plays the friends with benefits "game", is playing with fire! If you are someone who does not care for feelings at ALL (which is quite hard), the “friends with benefits” may work. In my opinion, its all about self gratification, (usually on the guys end). The guy is only using you. He doesnt want you for anything more than his little play thing. Hun>whether you want to believe this or not, sex will NOT get anyone to like you, nor will it get them to commit to you. Hes already told you he used you for sex, so what more do you need to hear? Guys see sex as totally physical and don't get their emotions involved. Girls dont work that way.

I hope you have learned from this, and decide you wont be anyones boy toy anymore. Wait until you have been in a long committed relationship, with someone you love, and trust, to get physical with!

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