I don't know where to look...

I have this problem with everyone but mostly guys.

Everytime I talk to guys, I look at them in the eye. Everytime I do that, they seem to be getting the wrong message, that I like him or something. They either get grossed out...

and ignore me, or start "coming on" to me. Where else am I suppose to look when I talk to them? I asked my friends the same thing and they're like "I donnow!" so I tried looking to the side and stuff but then the guys started thinking I have "issues" (as one guy told one of my close friend). haha ...fudge...
There's also one more complicated fact that goes along with this... I have this baad baad problem with my back and muscles which makes me wobble when I walk. Since it's progressive, recently, it's getting pretty obvious that I can't hide it anymore. So if people ask "what's wrong with you?" I just tell 'em what's wrong, it's easier. Anyways, back to the talking to the boys issue...
I guess they get uncomfortable talking to me because I don't walk right, can't even stand right. The guys that start "coming on" to me are guys that are really isolated from the world and dirty and smelly. People say cruel things like "oh you guys seem perfect for each other!" or "he seems like a nice guy" or "you guys are so right for each other" one time, a bunch of the girls brought over one of the special ed students across the yard with a bouqute and said "oh what a cute couple!" and took a picture of me and him!! the next day, I found the picture on the walls labled "prince and princess to be " with heart marks all over!

when I tell 'em "oh how sweet of you! since you think he seems like a nice guy, you can go ahead! I insist! he thinks you're hot!"THEN they back off and go off to flirt with the next cute guy. Hipocrits!!!! I tried it out with the guys who "come on to me" but they are just too off, I can't talk to them, like, they don't have any manners or something. I tried to tell them but they wont listen. there's always this awful smell or attitude that explains why they're "avoided"...
which brings me to say, I fit in that category. I too am someone to be "avoided" from the guys. I fit in the category. The girls say so, indirectly of course. How do I make those girls understand? and where do I look when I talk to guys, or to anyone! just talk, nothing else...

thanx

You sound like you need a hug. I just gave you a virtual hug. There you go. Don't pay too much attention on where you're looking. Just look at whatever interest you. Mostly their eyes. Eye contact is usually good. But don't stare them down in the eye, look at something else every once in a while. As far as the girls that are mean to you. Why don't you honestly tell them that you find what they're saying to mean and that they shouldn't be that way. If they continue to do so, don't take it personally because they talked about Jesus Christ which nobody is exempt from being teased or ridiculed. I hope that helps because you sound like a sweet girl and you shouldn't be made fun of for something that you can't even control.

I ask the same question where do I look if guys get the wrong message thats there problem and and they need to not look at you all wierd you just say hey god made me special and if you dont like it then jump in lake and see if I care thats whats you shuold say everyone is special in their own way Peace$