I don't know how to do it without embarrasing myself

My boyfriend and me have done some stuff but he says I never do anything to him, it comes he's ol;der than me, so obviously it comes more easy to him, and he's probably done this stuff before. But I have prolems just grabbing his di*k, I dont...

know what to do because, I like what he does to me, I just feel bad because im a little scaered to do anything to him. what do I do?

If you're not ready then don't do it. Don't let him pressure you or make you feel guilty. When the time is right, you'll know.

Be honest and don't rush into things that make you feel unconfortable. If he really loves you he will be patient and understanding towards your needs and won't make you feel bad. Sex should be fun and a healthy relationship happens when poeple listen to eachother and don't pressure eachother to do things they don't want to do.

There is nothing wrong in feeling the way you do. Your boyfriend is older, so maybe he is more experienced, or maybe he is just really adventurous! When he says that you do nothing to him, he needs to be more specific. After all, you are not a mind reader. You are new at this. It should be fun, for both of you. He should understand this. Do not have sex if you are not ready. If he loves you, he will understand. Just something I may have picked up on the side..maybe there is a reason you are afraid? Was there something that may have happened to you in the past? A bad experience? If so, then I suggest you talk to a counselor. There may be some underlying issues. Find a counselor you like. If this is the case, don't be ashamed. There is help. Good luck to you.

don't feel bad, and don't jump to having sex...always a bad first choice. If you feel the least you can do is anything, just spit into your hand to make it nice and slick, grab his di*k like a can of sodapop and slide your hand up and down (the area right below the head and on the bottom is usually very sensitive for most guys.

Tell him you dunno what to do and then he will show you or tell you! I think once you talk to him hell show you and it will be less awkward and plus if you do it in the dark at first and tell him it helps lol