I don't kn ow what I should do!

my boyfriend says im not, I donno, I dont "touch" him, he says that he always does the "dirty work" what do I do, because I do, I don't know what he's thinking is happning!!!what should I do.Im more like a cuddly person that a...

sex fanatic!!what should I do?!?!?

Just curious but are you on birth control? My wife's sex drive went way down when she was on the pill. She actually felt horrible about it because she knew it was frustrating to me and I kept wondering if there was something wrong with me.

When we decided to start trying to have kids and she went off the pill her sex drive dramatically increased.

I don't know if that's the answer but it's just one idea. If you're on the pill you might talk to your doctor about an alternative birth control.

Maybe your boyfriend is asking too much of you. If you aren't confortable doing stuff then I don't see why you should feel like you have too. Maybe you just need to cuddle more and not be pressured into doing stuff you don't feel like. there is nothing wrong with a nice cuddle!! You have all your life to explore sex and other stuff don't let him make you feel bad for not doing more than you feel confortable with!! If he really wants to be with you, he will be patient and understanding. Talk to him and tell him your concerns and see if he really is the guy for you.