I do and don't love him??

I love this boy and we are friends and when we see each other we hug! lol but I fancy him its really hard to stop thinkin bout him and he knows I like him and he is not weirded out! but im not takin this out of preportion I really cant get him out of my...

mind! if I see somthin that reminds me of him thats me im away. . .day dreamin. . .a couple of days ago I found out that he had a girlfriend and that he had been flirting with me at the same time obv he is not the nicest of people and I have decided to not 'like him' but it is so hard I cant get him out of my mind! HE IS GAWJUS!! and I dont know what to do??

GIRL!!! THAT'S LUST. RULE #2: DON'T CONFUSE LOVE WITH LUST. HE'S NOT someone you REALLY want to BE WITH SINCE you FOUND OUT HE HAD A GIRL & IS FLIRTING WITH U. SO IF you WAS IN DA POSITION OF BEING IN HER PLACE, HE'S going to DO DA SAME DAMN THING. SO TO HELL WITH HIM. FIND OTHER THINGS TO DO, DEVELOP FRIENDSHIPS WITH someone ELSE & DON'T CONVERSATE WITH DUDE WHO GOT A GIRL. because YOU'LL BE KNOWN AS A SIDELINE HOE! you REALLY want to BE #1!

He hugs you... that isnt flirting. a lot of my guy friends and I hug ALL the time. I think you are just misreading his actions. Hugging is just a friendly gesture. When you love someone, you will know it. What you feel for this guy is not love, its a simple crush!