How do I choose between my parents?

I have to chose between my mom and dad...I've had to make this choice before and it backfired...I dont know what to do...My mom wants me to move back to california with her and her new husband and there new baby...and bring my little sister with...

me...there going to get a big house so all of us can live together..she even wants to give all of us are own rooms...right now I live with my dad..he yells and screams and lots of other things...over nothing really...he just makes reasons to yell to make himself feel better...he barely takes care of me and my little sister..he's 2 months behind on rent...and he acts like he'd be better off without us...and he probably would be...but I have been threw so much its hard for me to make another choice along with all my other ones...I've messed up so much by making my own choices..and I dont want to do it again..so please help me by giving me your idea on what I need to do for me and my little sisters sake...thank you all...and please hurry because I have to make a choice within 2 weeks or my mom will move into a smaller place for just her and her new husband and the baby...

~*~Heavenly~*~

well choose a place that you would be better off. and it sounds like that would be with your mom. but on the other hand maybe your dad is the way he is cause there is a chance he could loose you, and he is behind on rent and stuff so he might just be stressing out on a lot of stuff. so I think if you are old enough you should try and get a job and help out. but then again who would watch you siblings. but I think you should just find out where you will behappier and not as stressed thats the best way to go. I hope I helped out a lil concidering I didnt really give good advice I was just helping you see the sides.

u should go live with your mom. well if you think you feel more conftable with your dad or mom, go with whoever your conftable with... good luck

tell your mum to buy the big house and go live with her, but first try and talk a lil wit your dad. try and get him to let out what he's feeling. stress is a lot worse when you dont release it. try and get your dad to tell you wats wrong. talk to him when he's calm and let him know that you want to help him. also reassure him that u'll love him for who he is, for example when you finish talkin wit him always tell him "love you dad" remember it could be the last thing u'd say to him... God forbid anythin bad happens to him. well to wrap it up, go live wit your mum but help your dad first. no matter what u'll always be his first and little girl, even if your 56 he'll still love you like you wer a month old. take care now and good luck
nicksy xoxoxox