I cant feel anything and I hate faking

I cant feel anything during sex and I have had sex servels times!!! I hate faking b/c I dont enjoy it so when that certin someone is in the mood it bothers me I dont feel a single thing? Am I messed up? I dont want to go to no dr or nothing like that id...

like to know whats wrong with me!

ok uh..I dunno if this will help but um..my neighbor(hes married) told me that the clitoris makes the woman feel really horny or more "passionate" on doing IT with someone. so um....I think your partner isnt hot enough for u...I think...dunno if that helps but, watever ^-^

No it doesnt help at all that was the wortse advice I have ever heard in my life!!!!!!!

oh im sorry for not being a good adviser T_T

Yah it was horriable HOW IN THE F**K is that pose to help sorry im so stressed about this I cant figure it out!

perhaps asking your bestfriend?

I tried she look at me like im DUMB

how about your mother? or your aunt? anyone thats close to u?

Oh hell no I am not asking them my mother doesnt not im haveing sex nor does my dad BAD IDEA!

oohhh...hm...hey uh.. going out of topic really quick...how long is sex supposed to last? like how many minutes or hours?..ok back to topic...hm...like I said im not really good at advising but um..going to like a doctor that knows a lot about affections adn all that

I dont have an effetion

Maybe hes small..lol..sorry..no really I use to have the same problem with me and my boyfriend..its because your really wet you may not feel the wetness but trust me its because your really wet..like your inside juices gets all out and it messes it up to were you no longer may feel it..make sure when you start to have sex make him go slow so that you dont juice fast so you may be able to feel it..

man im running out of ideas here...yep....I think im out of ideas

How long has it been since you first had sex? Usually it takes a while until you get used to the new sensation and start actually enjoying it. For some girls (like me) it can take months. First it hurts several times, then it's dull and feels like nothing, then after a while it starts feeling good. It's just your body getting used to it. Like I said, it's different for every person, so you may be of the ones who need more time to get it to feel good. Lots of practice is the only way I guess.

thats a hard one to answer.. is it that you dont feel anything at all or you just dont feel pleasure. he could be small, or your just not enjoying it yet. I remember there was a point when sex was just pointless to me when I first started because I felt no pleasure at all.. it will change. im really sorry I dont think I can help you on this one.

ooh I also think that if you dont mas*urba*e that you should.. the more you pleasure yourself and get to know your body the easier itll be to enjoy sex

but isnt too much mas*urbat*on bad for your body?

noo.. not unless your hurting urself. haha and its not like im tellin her to do it 20 times a day

but I read it somewhere that if you c*m a lot, you might develop ED, memory loss and hair loss and some other stuff.

He may need to take things a little slow with you make sure you horny and wet hope that help a little

Memory loss and hair loss, yeah, also your fingers may fall off from the friction, and your eyes will pop out from the strain. Come on. It's perfectly healthy, and unless you're rubbing yourself on jagged glass, nothing bad will happen to you. Grow up, people.