Advice for a pregnant 14-year-old

I am 14 years old and I am pregnant. I know the father will be there or me but we both come from a broke family. we have no money and I know when my parents find out I will be disowned I have no idea what to do. everyone will think I am a slut even I...

do. is there anyway you can give me advice?

well.. how long how you been pregnant? if its early then I would suggest an abortion. if you have any family that would support you then try asking them.

yes it is early and I thank you for your advice but I am highly against abortion I just couldn't kill a part of me

if you dont want an abortion then maybe you could have the child, but put the baby up for adoption. its not abortion, but you dont lose your life.

ya I guess that would be best thank you

if you really want to keep the baby, then keep it. but think of what will come in the future

adoption could also be another thing to do

your not a slut

you are not a slut, been pregnant doesnt make you a slut, you have to do whatever you feel is right, for you and the baby, whats meant to happen will and whats meant to be is, don't let someone tell you to do something you dont want, it'll be hard but, at least you'd be doing what YOU feel is right
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Thank you all so much It feels so good to know that I could have somewhere to turn to and I want to keep the baby and I have talked to my boyfriend about it and he too wants it so I guess when I ell my parents all I have to do is know how to and where to go thank you again

I am so glad to hear you say that you are against abortion!!! I am sure your parents will be mad at you at first but I really hope they would not kick you out! Being so young you are def. going to need some help. I hope at least his parents will be there for you both. It will be hard but if keeping the baby is what you really want then you will find a way to handle it. If you decide to put the baby up for adoption then you are doing what you feel is best for your child. I hope things go better then what you are expecting from your parents! I will pray for you! Good Luck and God Bless!

Well, I'm in a similiar situation, I'm 14 and pregnant also, you'll definatly regret it if you don't tell your parents because it's important to get to a doctor and get the proper care you need... If your parents disown you, then so be it, stay with immediate family or get yourself emancipated, it's a difficult thing to go through when you have no support system, but you have to be strong and make sure you don't get caught up in other peoples negativity, stay positive, for you, your boyfriend and your baby...I wish you the best of luck

Talk to your mom or counseler. I would suggest not going to college but... For right now well when you have it let your mom take care of it until you are ready to leave and get a good house and try your best to raise a good child.

well umm why so young like everyone else says ok dont kill the baby ok it not his fault ok just think it over lk and tell your parent tehy could help you never now

Naw your not a slut it's just a hard thing to control hell I have the same problem but to a worse extent. When I had my ex girlfriend preg she was 15 years old but when her mom found out it was fine. If they do throw you out or disown you you can go to Planned Parenthood they can give you a place to stay.

I wish you the best of luck. my heart goes out to you. tell us how things turn out. im almost 20yearsYOUNG and just found out im pregnant also. I know how terrifiyin it feels to tell your parents that their baby is going to be having a baby.

kill yourself

You're ovbiously a slut, everyone thinks you're a slut, and so do you. Go kill youself and that fvcking baby