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Is it so hard to get married first? I'm sure your parents would love to have a grandchild that isn't born out-of-wedlock.
Marry your boyfriend first, then bring it up again to him. Quit insisting that you're ready for a baby until you actually have a full-time decent-paying job - which you can rarely get without a college degree. So buckle up and finish school first. Then we'll talk.
I have finich school I am Now a teacher's aid. I was Homeschooled so that is why I fininshed early.
You are right about the wedlock thing, But How can I keep my mind off of having a baby? I mean it hard to, And I really Love my Boyfriend and it just still so hard to keep my mind off it but I cant. So so you have any idea how I can Keep from wonting a baby so much?
amblessed your right! but how do I get it off my mine? I mean it is so hard to SO any ideas how I can not think about it all the time?I know that waiting is the right thing to do. but it's like you know um you like this one candy and you say I am not going to eat that any more but you really really want it , and your try to think of something else but it just dont work your mind goes right back to the candy. its like the same thing here no matter what I think of I always go right back to the baby.
SO HOW CAN I GET IT OFF MY MINE? HELP!!!
Well, having a baby is a wonderful thing, but here's some other things to think about...
Morning sickness
Swollen feet and ankles
Ouch! My aching back!
The joys of labor and delivery.
Dirty diapers. Never ending dirty diapers
Never being able to sleep through the night
A teething baby
The "Waaah Waaah Waaah" of a crying baby
Being soley responsible for a helpless little infant
Not being able to 'pick up and run' whenever you want to
Hiring and paying a babysitter
Feeding, clothing, providing health insurance for the baby...takes a lot of $$
Your life is not your own after you have a baby...are you really willing to give all that up at the age of 18? Is your boyfriend? After all, he has a stake in this too and it sounds like he wants to wait until he is ready for the responsibility.



What will my parents say if I have a baby?
I am 18 and I want a baby but I'm afraid what my parents will say, they being big time christians and everything! I know that a baby is a big responsbilite but I Have sat down and thought about and I am ready, I know that your need a good job and thing...
like that and mostly love. I have known my boyfriend for 4 years and we have been dating for 2 months I have brought it up about having a baby but he wonts to wait till after he finish collage,but I wont one now. So my questions are what will my parents say and think, and how do I bring it up again to my boyfriend?