Should I have sex at 14?

I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15. We have been dating for a while and I really love him. We have talked about having sex before and the risks and protection. I just need a second opion on what I should do. Please Help

I had an experience quite like this..I was 13 going to be 14 in two months..when I lost my virginity...I was dating a guy and we "loved" each other or what love is when you are young and we decided to have sex..well like majority of relatioships at young ages we broke up..I think having sex made it sooo much harder for me to get over him..and he obviously wasnt the one I was going to spend the rest of my life with and now that I already gave that part of me away to him it really sucks...there are still times and its been a year and a half that I think about what I did and just feel soo stupid..I try not to regret things so I've accepted that I did it but I was definetely too young and it isnt something 14 yr olds should be doing...u may think you are ready but you arent..sooo many bad emotions come along with it and you will feel really bad if things dont work out..respect yourself and BE CAREFUL

Too young. Wait till you're at least eighteen, especially if you're one of those people who say "it's okay as long as you love him."

No, there are always NEGATIVE reasons about having sex.

Just think about this:
You use a condom. It breaks without you knowing, then a couple days later you find out your pregnant. Now when you have your whole life ahead of you would you really want to do something stupid and ruin you life, or wait and know your ready for something so extreme? Just think about it, but honestly I don't know how you feel about this guy, I've never had a boyfriend ...so I hope this helps!

Not full penetrative sex, no - it is dangerous and silly. There are lots of things you can do. Fingers and mouths work pretty well. Take it easy, take it slow.

Look I would wait maybe a year or so if you guys end up seperated, and you are pregnant, you will end up being a single mom. Wait a year see if you have a bigger feeling for this guy. I you do I hope you at least take birth control peels they are probably more safe than a condom.

any way sorry I couldn't give you any more advise.
Hayley

That's disturbing that 14 year olds think about doing stuff like that. Go play with barbies or something.

* "I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15. We have been dating for a while and I really love him. We have talked about having sex before and the risks and protection." *

Really, what does "love" got to do with it, because teens always end up breaking up after anyway? Are you ready for sex, because your hormones are telling you you are?
Heres a fact for you> Since teenage sexual relationships rarely last, the girl's sense of self-worth is often damaged, leaving her feeling lonely, and used!

Some very powerful hormones have started to surge through your body. These hormone surges begin during puberty and have probably just started recently for you. These intense sexual feelings are something almost everyone experiences at some point. Some feel them as young as 13 and others when they are older.

Here is what is really important: Even though you may feel turned on or horny, it doesn’t mean you are ready to have sex. You aren’t. There is a lot more to having a good sexual experience than just feeling desire or being curious about what sex might feel like.

Love and sex are NOT the same thing. Love is an emotion or a feeling. There is no one definition of love because the word "love" can mean many different things to many different people. Sex, on the other hand, is a biological event. It proves nothing!

If it's truly love, and it's meant to be, it will survive and even grow stronger without sex. If it isn't, then you will be really glad you waited and found that out, before you got intimately involved on a physical level.

If he really loves you he will wait and I think thats what you should do and I no im your age but honestly dont do it because all your friends have or whateva. theres always a chance of something going wrong and like I said if he truely loves you he will wait till your older and properly ready

have sex when you're ready to.
And for the fact that you have to ask us, proves that you're definitely not ready yet.
And you're also WAY WAY too young.

well heres a heads up obviously not beacsue your on here asking because your not sure just do it if you want dont make him

SWEETIE...DONT DO IT!!! YOU ARE SO YOUNG AND I LOVE WHAT ONE OF THESE PEOPLE SAID(POOPING MACHINE!!!) DO NOT BECOME ANOTHER STATISTIC!!! TRUST ME I AM ONE ALONG WITH A WHOLE SH!T LOAD OF OTHER TEENS WHO GOT PREGNANT AND SHOT THEMSELVES INTO ADULTHOOD WHEN I THOUGHT I WAS BEING "SAFE"!!! AND IF YOU HAVE TO ASK A BUNCH OF STRANGERS FOR ADVICE YOUR CLEARLY NOT READY!!! HAVING SEX AT THAT AGE ALSO IS NOT SO GREAT...GIRLS RARELY EXPIRIENCE AN ORG**M...AND ALSO ALONG WITH HAVING SEX COMES A WHOLE SH!T LOAD OF EMOTIONS THAT A 14 YEAR OLD IS NOT READY FOR!!! GO BUT A 6 WEEK OLD PUPPY AND TAKE CARE OF IT FOR A WHILE THEN GIVE IT AWAY!!! FIRST WITH THAT YOU WILL SEE A BIT OF WHAT BEING A MOMMY TAKES AND THE ATTACHED EMOTIONS YOU WILL HAVE TO SOMETHING THAT IS NOT going to LAST!!!

too young for sure :/ just try fingering and handjobs and maybe oral sex later when things get boring. dont give him any hope that youll have sex with him though, cause then he might just stay with you to get some.. if you tell him 'no' and hes still with you knowing he wont get sex, thats a good sign.

you are way to young!! I am a single mother and trust me when I say this it is HARD!
I love my daughter but it is not an easy thing to deal with...you miss out on the "growing up" aspect of life and do not get to do the things you had planned. Lucky for me things did work out and I am happy with my life although it is not what I had planned it is good. I missed out on college wile others when on and I am not able to go out whenever I want I have to plan it weeks ahead. it just makes life a lot different then it was ment to be. I hate to say this but your "love" you have might not last forever mine did not however I thought it would. Just think about the "what ifs" and when it does happen it will just happen thats how you know it will be right