How will she know if she's had an o?

Just a couple a weeks ago, my girlfriend and I took our relationship up to the next level. I started to finger her and she tells me she likes it so that's good. But now I have a question for anybody who can help.

She has only done it with herself...

once and she said that she was just experimenting around...her first love (I am her second) tried grabbing her chest through her shirt but she wouldn't even let him do that...so she has definately tried new things with me in this aspect.

Now for my question. How will she know when she has a true org**m? She says that she hadn't ever had one before and wanted me to tell her what it would feel like so she would know and I told her that I didn't know because I wasn't a chick but I explained to her that it would feel WAY better than the fingering up until that point.

I asked her if I had given her anything like that yet and she says she doesn't know lol when I'm doing it though, a couple of times, I have felt her like sort of twitch and her legs kind of move a little at certain points but is this one?

How will she know? If not how can I give her one better?

When she has had one, she would certainly not need to ask if that was it!

I read somewhere that this can be like a guys org**m but 10 times more intense and spreading throughout her body (rather than centred on the pen*s as in the case of a guy)! lol

She will know when she orgasms it feels like pleasure shooting through your body at 100 miles an hour and she like has a slight spasm lol
I dunno how you can make it better it depends on the girl
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Believe me, she will know. During all the arousal there are going to be little peaks and valleys of intense and not so intense stimulation, not to mention occasionally needing to take a breath, lol. After all the build up of excitement, the explosion of fireworks is something you can barely live through... lol and the sense of relief afterwords, whew!

I'd hope everyone agrees it's hard to miss...

an ogasam for a girl is real hard to miss... a vibe or a sudden rush of pleasure is just bound to go through her body when she's reached the peek of pleasure!! all girls are different...and have differnt timings and spots for them to reach orga**m... so experementing with her and knowing what feels good for her can be fun =)

So how do I know when she has orgasmed? Like I said I can feel her body twitching and kind of like jerking around a little bit now and then, and like 2 times it got pretty intense and "I" thought she had reached it but she stil just says I don't know I don't know I don't know lol she is very quiet too so yeah she doesnt moan or anything which kind of sux because I would imagine thats quite the turn on for us guys (never been with anyother girl before her so yea...) but she doesnt really talk about it...except she did say that it felt REALLY good when I use my tongue...speaking of...anyone have any advice for using your mouth on a girl rather than fingering her? Like techniques or ideas to experiment with?

Well for me I find it a lot easier to make a woman reach org**m through oral rather than fingering. It's not as hurtful and it doesn't need any added lubrication. To keep your mind occupied I just write the ABCs with my tongue and about every 4-6 letters I'll concentrate on clit and other areas.

Her "I don't know" about having an org**m means that she has not had one yet. Not all women have orgasms so don't take it personally but if she gets it then she'll know and tell you about it.

P.S. I hate quite/shy women in bed lol so I know how hard that is especially whenever you're learning.

lol...

Thanks everyone, this info helps a lot