How to tell your boyfriend you love him!!

Hey I know I haven't written in awhile, but this is really important to me, I have a boyfrien and have been with him for almost 3 months now, I am really worried about him. I don't know how to talk to him even though I love him. I should because I should...

always tell the truth to him, but I am afraid of what will happen, I hope to talk to him, but I just don't know how to tell him. I want to tell him how much I love him and want to know if he really loves me like he says he does. I just want him to tell me he loves me like I tell him I love him. He doesn't say it back to me when I tell him it, so I have stopped saying that and hoping that he would start saying it, but he hasn't. I just want to know what to say and when to say it. Need help on this one, PLEASE!!!

Love takes time to grow>you cant make someone say it if they really dont mean it!! 3 mos. isnt that long! I've been with my boyfriend for 3 mos. and we havent said it yet. That doesnt mean anything. We care about each other, and are commited to 1 another. Love will come in time! Just because you are labeled "boyfriend/girlfriend" doesnt mean that you have to tell them you love them if you really dont at such an early point in the relationship!!

I very much agree with angelfire... love is overused, and is missunderstood, its a very big thing, and people just say it to say it... and a lot of guys say it just because chicks want to hear it because they are more emotional beings... I think your boyfriend is doing the right thing here... he is going to say when he really feels it... you should be happy that he is just not saying it because you want him too..

yah...its true
if I were you..I would be happy that his not using love with me soo sooon...it just basically shows you that what he feels for you isnt love just yet...and he could easily lie to you and say he loves you..but he isnt...so be happy that he shows you he cares...atleast thats what should matter...and soon at the right time he will let you know that he lovees you... trust me and when it comes the dai he says it..u ll know its right.and ull know its true because you would have built a strong bond betwweeen the two of you..so the most important thing is to be happy with the fact that he actually cares about u...and dont push things.. or else you ll end up with a fake relationship. honesty is the keey ..and his deffinatly being honest with you the wway I see it...trust me..not many girls have it like you do.

I think when he is ready he will say it you don't want him to say it just because you do, and do you really mean it? Love is a very grown up word not jusa 3 little pleasers to ease your mind..... Take it serious and don't rush a good thing....

I know how you feel, every one has been in this situation at some point. take me for example I am 20 and have just divorced my husband. obviously I am no "love" guru, but what I can do is give you simple truths. He may love you, but he as a man will not say so until he is ready and he will not say it again until he is moved to do so and pushing for it before he is ready will just end up with a forced love affair that is doomed to failure. Love him, as I am sure you do, dont restrain yourself, tell him your love for him but do not expect an answer and dont be saddened by this. think of it this way, if he were with you for any reason that was unjust or of poor intent he would tell you he loves you with no reserve in order to further is not-exactly-righteous goals, his desire to further your relationship is reveiled in his desire to be truthful about his feelings at all cost

like thiss

hey baby
I want you to know

that you mean a lot to me

I always love hearing from you

you make me smile and you make me happy

I dont think any other guy could compare to you

im glad were back together again

cause I really missed you, you have the most nicest personality

ever
and I want to be with you for a long time.

I know this is not as long as you were hoping it would be

but just know that I love you and im always here for ya

your the best I love you =]]

sum guyz feel uncomfortable sayin they love you but its a good sign sometimes as if you say you love them and they just say me 2 they dont mean it I dunno ask him if he dus if you cant by face text him or msn him just ask him why he never says it 2 u

As for me... I been with my boyfriend for a half of year so far and I love him but we haven't said I love you yet... I want to tell him but don't want to say it first... I have the fear of him not saying it back or I think it might push him away... I don't know what to do, I'm thinking of a way to tell him... mayb it will b easier over the phone than saying it face to face as I would love to... I just don't have the guts... I want to just spit it 0ut, I'm so annoyed with it... why can't I just say it and stop bein such a scaredy cat?!! =/

honestly love does take time to grow but it can happen in a matter of weeks. I knew just how much I cared and loved my boyfriend right off the bat and I knew I was suppose to be with him after a month I love my boyfriend and NOBODY should say that someone doesnt love the other person just because they havent been together for a while that makes NO SENSE to me WHAT SO EVER!!! its stupid. just tell him how you feel if you love him you shouldnt let other people underestimate your love just because you havent been with him for a year. and if your love is that strong then he'll listen to you when you talk to him about those 3 words. =]

I know how you feel I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and had felt that I loved him for a long time. I was afraid to say it but I finally did but it was after a few drinks which I admit was dumb on my part he didn't say it back and he wanted to talk about it in the morning. We did talk about it and after seeing me get emotional he did tell me he loved me but wasn't ready to say it yet on a regular basis. I guess I'm just afraid of what all this means because I went through the same thing with my ex boyfriend and he cheated on me after a year and a half. I guess my advice may be old fashioned but from my experience I would wait until he says "I love you" because its better to know and not give your love away! Sorry if that is not exactly what you wanted to hear...

Hi umm... yeah what you should do is tell him what your heart says. Tell him why you love him and explain that. You know boys need detail!! Then ask him what he feels inside and just be yourself. If he loved you, and he picked you over other girls then he will want you to be yourself, thats why he likes you! Also, dont pressure him into saying it, he might not be ready yet, but dont stop saying it. Now dont sound like your obsessed, just make sure he knows you do!

I hope I helped!!

It almost sounds as if you might be scaring him you know?
I have the exact problem with my current boyfriend but we have been together for roughly 8 months now. So I think that an I love you is in order. I have hinted it to him many times but it hasn't been working. So I have always been afraid to admit it to him because I am terrified of what his reply might be. The worst would be "Thanks?" haha.

Anyways my advice to you is to really think about.. is this love? Or is this just a petty thing. When you tell him if he's shy like my boyfriend then he will most likely need an explanation about stuff. Like why you love him because it's hard for boys to comprehend and also you need to accept it if he says he doesn't love you and I would strongly advice a conversation about it because if there is something holding him back thats simple then you can talk through it an improve and eventually you can only hope he will say he loves you as well.

H-Groove.

Hey heres the thing I came up with.These are my step I thought about okay hope it helps.
Step 1)Decide on a place where you will tell him that you love him. Think about a certain memory that is especially romantic to you, and go back to that place. Ask yourself if there are any significant days coming up when it would be appropriate and romantic to tell him.
Step 2)Set the mood. There’s no need to make sure every little detail is perfect. Be sure that you don’t lose sight of your romantic tone in all the commotion of worrying how you will tell him.
Step 3)Get his attention. Look your boyfriend directly in the eyes, hold his hand and face him completely.
Step 4)Tell him exactly what you enjoy about him, why you are happy being with him or how much you appreciate him. Let him know how lucky you feel to have him.
Step 5)Say “I love you” after these statements. If you are still nervous about just saying those three words, make your sentence longer. For example, say something like “I realize I love you.” Once you have said “I love you,” tell him as many times as you can just how much you do love him.
Don't worry it help me okay.