How to tell my mother what her boyfriend did to me?

Asked by flamesxofxdespiration 8 months ago, 9 answers.

The last time I tried asking this but I guess my title was wrong bc no one cam and my friend told me that I could get help here since I cand afford anything really and I'm afraid of what to do.

For the past three years, my mom had gotten this...

boyfriend and she really liked him, so she began to start to treat him a little bit better; to trust him. Youknow, bc he can give her things my sister and I can't, and because we where 11 and 12 but one night he came into our room ( my sister and I share rooms) while my mom had left to go get something for them to drink bc he stayed with us, and I woke up when I heard him. I saw him and tried to scream but he forced a pillow over my mouth and r*ped me. I couldn't do anything bc he's like huge with muscles, and I started crying but he punched me and I fell out. When I woke up, my sister was crying too and she said he did the same to her. He's done this almost every day when my mom goes to work or to the store because he decided to get a night-shift job. I told my mom, but she said we were lying and we got in trouble, and now my sister is pregnant bc he usually (otherthan the first time) uses protection and she told my mom but my mom called her a slut and a wh*re and said she would disown her. What do I do?

Answered by bballqtpiechic on Mar 07, 2008, 12:04PM
| 162 answers.

ok what you need to do is go to an aunt or family member you trust. or even a teacher your close with at school and tell him or her what has happened. you and your sister need to get help, and prove your mother wrong. im sorry to say this but the fact that she is believing her boyfriend and not you is HORRIBLE!!! every mother is supposed to be on their kids side. but like I said go to an adult and tell them the situation they will work things out and you will be safe again. good luck and if your upset need more advice or just need someone to talk to funmail me!
hope this helps:]

Answered by dancer08 on Mar 07, 2008, 12:17PM
| 43 answers.

I'm really sorry for what has happened to you and although I've never been in the situation you have been my best advice for you is to call the police yourself. dont wait any longer and do something about it please

Answered by fau on Mar 07, 2008, 12:42PM
| 3944 answers.

This broke my heart. A similar thing happened with one of my friend's with her father for three years and I had no idea. If you go to school, tell a counselor and they'll take care of it. Please don't stay silent. You and your sister are probably not the first and most likely won't be the last. You can keep going to the counselor and your friends if you need to talk to someone. PLEASE tell someone.

Answered by annaxo22 on Mar 07, 2008, 01:46PM
| 26 answers.

omg I am almost crying - please tell someone - childline,police,ANYONE!!
you have to tell one someone who can help you because if you dont raise awarness then this is just going to keep on happeneing.
good luck =]

Answered by michaelsbabegirl on Mar 07, 2008, 05:23PM
| 75 answers.

OMG, dont feel like this is your fault it happen a lot.. I myself was raped at the age off 11 but it was by my brother's friend.. He lived next door to me.. you need to tell the police.. To prove that your sister is pregnant with his child.. The doctors can do a test.. It is not right that your mother chooses her boyfriend over her daughter..

Answered by flamesxofxdespiration on Mar 07, 2008, 05:46PM
| 5 answers.

Thank you for all of your answers...
He's here, but I will call the police when he goes to work. I was so nervous and was afraid of what he'd do...

With much thanks,
Flames.

Answered by curly_que on Mar 07, 2008, 08:02PM
| 149 answers.

yes, have a test done so that you have proof that your sisters baby is also his. >.< omg! this is sooo horrible!!! O.O
and oh God, its today too. I wish it was already the past, not the present!
good luck!

Answered by funadvice on Mar 07, 2008, 08:49PM
| 42395 answers.

ok the first peice of advice I can give you isnt the best one but id get my self a knife a ok size one and when he trys this again let him get comfy you no and when he pulls his pants down stick it in his thigh hard then twist the knife and pull as hard as you can so it comes out you wont get in trouble by police its self defense pluse your sis also has the same story so he can get in big trouble thas what I would do id even have my sis have a bat ready where she can get to it and hit him right in the back of the head after you stick him with the knife the other pice of advice is get a way of filming it and go to the cops and show them and then even your mom can c it to and then she will have to believe you go to the police as soon as you can and let them no wats going on and try to tell your dad or a very close family member that has treated you like their your parent or as close hope I helped

Answered by funadvice on Mar 08, 2008, 06:04AM
| 42395 answers.

OH MY GOD... Have you reported this yet?? How are you going with your sister being pregnant ? Have you got any help to keep you guys on your feet?

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