How to tell mum im gona have a baby at 16?

Right me and my boyfriend have been thinking about having a child but im under age and we said to each other that we would have a baby whn im 16 as were both ready I no people say we should live a bit but I dont want to live my life im ready for...

commitment and my mum nos I want a baby and am thinking about having a baby when im 16 and shes ok with it but how do I tell the rest of my family as I did say to my boyfriend would I lose you ever?
And he said no!
But I feel so ready for a baby and to make a family
Help please

I personally think your mum is off the wall to allow her UNDERAGE child to be involved with a GROWN man! Where is your father? Because this guy is old enough to be yours! I would bet that if you were dating someone YOUR OWN AGE, you wouldnt be thinking so irrationally! Take a good look at the kind of relationship we're talking about here. There are nearly two decades of life dividing the two of you! What on earth can you guys possibly have in common? Its VERY hard to believe that you've been dating for 2 years. and havent had sex yet. Hows he surviving without it for that long? Let me say this> statutory rape, borderline pedophilia and ewww gross.
Get out of this relationship, date guys closer to your own age and enjoy your youth!" Chances are good he enjoyed his youth, a youth he lived 15 years ago! I can say with great confidence that most normal well-adjusted 30+ year old men (and more than a few men in their late 20’s) would run to the nearest psychologist if they ever seriously thought about having that kind of a relationship with a 15 year old child. When there are 24 years between you, and you live in the 21st century, a 15 year old is still a child where any normal 30-something is concerned. this 39 year old probably has some really unsettling demons lurking in his closet and that those demons are just waiting to jump out and scare you back into a reality where teens date teens, or at least young adults, and 39 year old men don’t troll for dates at the local high school. I wish I could tell you that love conquers all, that age ain’t nothing but a number and that men more than twice your age make great life partners and loyal companions, but I can’t. Any man that old involved with a girl who is so much younger most likely suffers from one, some, or all of the following personality quirks; he is immature, he is an under-achiever, he has low self esteem, he is a control freak, he is in an early mid-life crisis, he is emotionally confused, he routinely strays from socially accepted norms, he’s creepy, etc… When all is said and done the dude is just not right.

my boyfriend is 39 an we havent had sex yet but do plan on when im older
mum nosabout us an she is fine

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You have a messed up life right now. You need to overcome your personal problems.

Don't go thinking that having a baby is going to solve ANY of your problems or KEEP your man from leaving you. Having a baby won't do either.

I'd suggest that you plan on waiting until you're in your twenties. That would give you more opportunity to mature, gain knowledge and maybe personal job security which would protect you if your man were to leave. It would also give you more opportunity to experience AND enjoy a little more of life before becoming saddled with a child which will control your life for the next 18 years.

You only have one life. Utilize the assets and abilities that life gives you in the most productive way for your future benefit.

Think about this baby. You have a lot of personal problems, these are not just going to disappear when you have the baby. No matter how much you want them to. Why would you want to put a child through these problems?

If you're ready for a baby, why would you be here asking for help??
Personally, I think it's kinda odd for a 15 year old to date a 39 year old. At his age, of course he's going to want a baby. Then if there's problems, a baby is going to come into this world with those problems. Sure, things may be good at first, but things can quickly go downhill. I do think you should date people a little closer to your age and wait on the whole baby thing. Get things straightened out first.
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Personally I think you should wait, till you are old enough, when you are in your twenties.
I think dating a 39 year old, is odd, and I think it would be better dating someone closer to your age.
First of all, you are still going through puberty, and your body will not yet be fully ready for a baby and birth, you are still in school, and have not yet finsished your education.
I think it would be more important to finish your education and to get a good job in which you enjoy.
Live your life first, go out with your friends, go party, do all the crazy teenage stuff, go on holiday, do all your ambitions in life, before you are tied down with children.
Get your life sorted before you bring another child into the world, you are still very young, and you have your whole life ahead of you, live it!!!
Children are hard work, a good home, need parents who are in a stable relationship, you need money, you will have to be working 24/7 to get a distant amount of money coming in, they need good looking after, theres schooling to think about, and plus you will have to be ready for that childs health, problems and issues in their life and there are so much more aswell.
Just think ...wll you be able to cope with all that at such a young age?
Just talk to your partner about it and just think about it a lot more, and see if it is actually something you want right now
Good luck and take care x

k I didnt even read your hole story, & seriously
your 16
hes
39
thats
grooosss, my fu*K
I think you might be a little confused er something, & as for having a child.. with a 39 year old.. or , even havin a child at all at 16 years old.
foolish talk
your life is just beginning, seriously. think about this.
think about what a hugeee mistake your making. really.
ima go finish readin the rest of your story now lol

He could get arrested for having sex with you...do you know that???
You're being stupid, don't ruin your life...this guy is a pervert!!! Why the hell would a 39 year man be interested in a 16 year old girl?? He's old enough to be your dad for god sake!!! It's not normal and it's sick!!

huh what the f*ck 16 isnt underage is it..well its legal here in england, ok wait until its legal wherever you are but it shouldnt be a problem with your mum if she knows your sexually active and are finacially ready