How old were you the first time you had sex?

I am 16 and I've been going with my boyfriend for a little over 3 months. I love him a lot and he loves me. I just don't want to have sex and then regret it later. Please help me

to tell the truth it all depends on you, some are ready early some aren't . you will know when the time is right and a little advice if you have to think about regretting it even for a second your not ready , when the time and person is right then you will have no doubts what so ever.

Girl ill tell you this I an only 16 and I have had sex twice. Once with a 23 year old that I was dating at the time and he was my first. The second guy was a guy I've had a huge crush on forever. How I pulled that off I don't know. Well now the 23 yr old has changed his number and moved in with someone somewhere and no one knows where he went or who he moved in with. It makes me want to cry just thinking about it because I really did care about him and love him he was a great guy and now ill prob never see him again in my life. The time with my crush I was hanging out with him hrs before that happened and stuff and I have been trying to get him to date me and what not and he wont hes a senior in high school and we have 4 more days of school for exams and then it will be summer and he will go off into basic training for the military in Aug. It makes me cry all the time because I have deep feelings for him and who he is and he knows it but im not his type so he wont date me. Well he told me he don't want a girlfriend and now he has a girlfriend and shes a freshman and im a sophomore which if you don't know means im in a grade higher than her and my crush is in 2 grades higher than me going to get out of school.

In a big way I regretted having sex with both of them and I do to a point. But whats happen is happen and I cant go back and change the future. I dont really know if I regret them or not and I cant say I regret it fully because I dont I cant. It has made me a better and stronger person. What dont kill you will make you stronger.

I cant tell you if you should or don't because its really not for me to decide. You have to look deep in your heart and look into him and decide for yourself. If you think hes the type of person that may leave you in the future than I wouldn't do it. Your age also plays a big role in this. If I were you I would wait until you were 18 or its really better to wait until you are fully done with school and you have a house car and a stable job which you want. I dont regret having sex with them I guess I just wish I would have waited longer.

OK, to sexlovinggirl69 the 23 year needs to have charges against him especially since he just used you! Now, for the other guy, don't ever beg a guy to date you, have more class than that!

Now for softballer13, you sound like you aren't ready. I had sex at a young age and to 20 years later, I wish I would have waited. Don't do it until you have no doubts whatsoever.

There is nothing wrong in having sex at age 16 for a girl, if she feels the urge enough to do it. But I would do with an older boy than a 16. If you are not so excited by the idea of ,making sex you may wait till you obvioiusly are.

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moralturpdtude

I didnt ask for you to tell me your advice or opinion about an answer I gave to that girl about having sex with a guy

If I would have wanted an opinion or advice for my answer I would have asked for it.

if you do, chances are you'll regret it. he'll change his number and go out with someone else, or something like that.

once you have sex with a guy, you may bond with him, but he is probably through with you.