How can I make my ex want me back?

I broke up with my ex boyfriend awhile ago, and recently I realized I want him back. We've remained friends & have hung out post-break up. I am going away on a 2 month vacation this summer, I see it as a good way to clear my mind about things. So right now I...

don't want to try to8 get him back since I'm going on a trip anyway. But when I get back & school starts, I would like to get him back. He has been dating a few people & right now is interested in a particular girl. I'm not certain if these girls are his rebounds & he is trying to take his mind off me, or if he is truely interested in them & has forgotten about me. Not to sound cocky, but I am mostly counting on my looks to get him back. I am very pretty & the girl he is with is not at all. I mean she's not hideous, but she's a plain jane so it pisses me off. I know looks aren't everything , but I'm hot! ughh. So what I want to know is if he really still cares for me & is using other girls as a rebound, but I guess you can't tell me. SOOO I would really like to know what to do to make either him or his new girlfriend jealus w/my looks or anything. PLEASEE HELPP!!

I really dont think you ex is dating on the rebound to try and get over you. I think he is over you.
You two have been hanging out since the breakup..why hasnt he made any moves on you to try and get you back? I think he sees you more as friend material, than girlfriend material.

Just because she looks like "plain Jane" to you, doesnt mean your ex sees her that way. She is probably confident, and secure with how she looks, and is not threatened by any guys 'pretty" ex. She probably has a lot going on inside that has captured his heart.

If your looks didnt keep him coming back to you after you broke up, I really dont think it would now. Making his girlfriend jealous is immature, and pointless. I mean..she already has him.

Guys/girls who use their looks to try and get whoever/whatever they want, only look desperate, and conceited in everyone elses eyes!

Sounds like you just need to get out of the past. If you want to remain friends with him, then I think it would be best if you just leave it at that..a friendship!

Hey..you just need to ask him..communicate.. also..why wait do it now..then you will both know.. if he is interested hell wait for you to come home from vacation.. and there is a lot more to love and feelings then just good looks.