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This falls into the same category of question as "Why are all the people I date so horrible?"
Let's say you take a guy playing pool in the back room of a bar, and he isn't very good. We change the cue stick, no good. We give him a new table. No good. We change the balls, the venue, his opponent, his shoes -- we change every variable to give the guy every possible advantage, and he's still missing shots a dead baby could have made. If we look at this situation, what's the only conclusion that we can draw?
That the guy sucks at playing pool.
If you talk to person after person and the conversation is boring, the only common variable in all those situations is you, and so the realization you need to come to is that maybe *they* aren't the boring ones.
You yourself say in your question that you can never think of anything to say. Stop playing the "everyone is boring but me" game and start reading up on how to keep conversation flowing.
Hint: people love talking about themselves.
oh yeah,my roommates,they are from chinese, and I from vietnam. Im talking to them a lot just want to help them for english skills,and they are bad at it, an they just hang out w/ their chinese friends to speak chinese!I invited them go to movies,go out to eat or go to the mall w/me,but they always say they are so busy to do homework!Geez!Its kinda boring living in dorm and its freaking raining in WA,so I just want to go out instead of sittng in the house everyday!They're so boooringgg!


![at home, bored, tired, and of course lazy! =]](http://images.funadvice.com/photo/image/old/29098/tiny/bored______.jpg)
How is it that some people are just so boring??
I talk to people and I try to make the conversation interesting, but they are SOOO boring!! I cant think of anything to say to them, because they just make it boring!!! ugh
why does that happen??