How do I tell the truth about jeff and I to my mother?

I do really love Jeff a lot. I do want to stay with Jeff. But how do I tell my mother the truth about Jeff and I. All she would say to me that there is no Jeff and I. But I know there is a me and Jeff alright. But how do I tell my mom. It is so hard. I don't know what I can do. Is there some way that I can break the ice to my mother about Jeff and I. Jeff and I love each other so much. But I am wondering how I can say that to my mother also. It's so hard to tell her. Where could I go from here? I just hope that I am doing the right thing. But I don't know what would come out of my mouth to tell her the truth. I want to stay with Jeff for a long time. What should I do?

why does your mom hate Jeff? how old are you ? and how old is Jeff? something sounds fishy...

Not too sure what to say on that because the situation differs depending on how old you are and why you have and issue with your mother. If you are on your own then your decision to be with Jeff is yours alone and your mom will acknowledge it, despite wether or not she approves. You also have to ask yourself, 'Do I really love this man I'm with?' If you do then telling somebody this should not be too much of an issue. But once again, I don't know enough about your situation to give an idea of what you can do. Good Luck on that.