How to tell my man he's not very good at oral sex?

When my man goes down on me all he does is licks my clitoris. This doesnt realy turn me on and doesnt feel as good as I would like it. How do I tell my man how to go down on me without embarasing him or hurting his feelings?

Every guy should want to please his girl, so if you give him some pointers while your doing it he shouldnt be hurt at all. While he's doing it just tell him what you want him to do and make sure that he knows when he's doing something right, tell him it feels good when it does. Also, you could drop a hint by asking him if you give him good head and asking him what he likes or if theress anything he wants you to try different... that way maybe he'll ask you the same.

Honey child if your man is licking you and does not feel good than tell him to back off. I know you don't want to hurt his feelings, but just tell you feel good him doing that.

Well you can start off with positively re-enforcing what he already does for the next few times he does it. Then start telling him that you'd really like if he did something else - while he's going down on you. Maybe you should practice talking dirty, it can get you what you want in bed pretty fast.

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Sika

Well it kind of depends on what your looking for. If you want gentle maybe you guys could explore that together so it's not awkward or emarrasing. If you like it a little more crazy then don't be afraid to say that the clitoris isnt the only thing that feels good. Say it in a way that still makes you sound interested. Another thing that can feel really amazing and is different then just licking, is if he lightly sucks on your clitoris too. NO TEETH. It hurts us just as bad as it hurts them when teeth are involved and don't be shy to say something. He won't be offended.

U could ask him nicely if he could please go in a little deeper and suck a little harder, or better before you tell him you should give him a good blowjob, so he wont feel bad about it.