How do I break my hymen?

Hi I am 14 and I have not had my period yet, all my friends have and I hate being left out. I want to know how to break my Hymen, but I can't use a dildo because it won't fit. I don't wont to be in much pain. I am getting cramps but no period I think this is due to me not breaking my Hymen. Also I don't want to bleed when I have sex when I am over 16.

hunny, you dont need to break your hymen for your period to start. it really has nothing to do with having/getting youre period. you say you are getting cramps, that is a sign that it may be coming, if you are discharging it is definately on the way but it could take months, I discharged for years before I got mine. I know oyu feel left out, and feel like youre missing out, but really youre not. I got mine at 14, was just like you, so curious and really wanted it. But now I wish it hadnt come until now, I am nearly 16. The age that it varies from is 9-16. Dont panic, it will come, and if you yalked to your friends about how you feel, I bet they would wish to be you.
Also dont try to break your hymen, you could end up seriously hurting yourself, for no reason. If you have/want to mas*urba*e just use your fingers but dont try to penetrate just massage it.
Hope that helps.

just wait for it to happen, dont rush it, its not fun as it seems and just yeah..

Yeah. Having your period really sucks. Don't try to make it already happen. Enjoy this time while it lasts.

Be yourself. Why are you trying to be like your friends? Cramps have absolutely nothing to do with your hymen whatsoever. Even if you did manage to break your hymen somehow, doesnt mean that sex wont hurt you the first couple of times. Fingers cant take the place of a pen*s, or a dildo. Pen*s' come in all different sizes and shapes!

Just let nature take its course for heavens sake. You cant predict when you will lose it anyway.
Your virginity is something to be cherished, not looked upon as something to just throw away when you reach a certain age!

*Boys brag about their female encounters. They may promise to keep your confidence while you are going steady, but after you break up, the entire school will know that you are an easy mark. You will receive attention from the boys who only want your body.
*Promiscuous girls are popular only for sex, whereas virgins are admired for themselves.

VIRGINITY IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF!!! There have been many who have regretted having had pre-marital sex, but no-one regrets having waited.

Be proud of your virginity!! Stop wanting to be like all your friends. That wont gain you popularity...trust me!

I want my period to start or even my Hymen to break. How do I use my fingers.

y do you want your period?? its not fun trust me

periods come when they're suppose to
and once you get them . you wont want them
anymore. breaking your hymen wont cause periods.
it'll hurt either way. hymens can be broken by getting
fingered or having sex . but your to young for both.
just wait, it sucks. trust me.

Your Hymen not breaking isnt causing you not having your period
And Dont have sex because everyones going to be calling you a hoe and stuff it gets annoying dont do stuff because you friends do it trust me I know

hunny, you dont need to break your hymen for your period to start. it really has nothing to do with having/getting youre period. you say you are getting cramps, that is a sign that it may be coming, if you are discharging it is definately on the way but it could take months, I discharged for years before I got mine. I know oyu feel left out, and feel like youre missing out, but really youre not. I got mine at 14, was just like you, so curious and really wanted it. But now I wish it hadnt come until now, I am nearly 16. The age that it varies from is 9-16. Dont panic, it will come, and if you yalked to your friends about how you feel, I bet they would wish to be you.
Also dont try to break your hymen, you could end up seriously hurting yourself, for no reason. If you have/want to mas*urba*e just use your fingers but dont try to penetrate just massage it.
Hope that helps.

dont worry if you aint started your period, I started mine when I was 10.
dont use dildo's yet! just like use your fingers.
on diagrams you might notice that full, unstretched hymens are quite noticable, anyway your hymen does ever completely go, it just stretches.
a lot of people think your hymen is inside your vagina when its on the outside by the vulva and orifice.

dont worry if you aint started your period, I started mine when I was 10.
dont use dildo's yet! just like use your fingers.
on diagrams you might notice that full, unstretched hymens are quite noticable, anyway your hymen does ever completely go, it just stretches.
a lot of people think your hymen is inside your vagina when its on the outside by the vulva and orifice.

Your sooo lucky I'm only 11 and I started my period last november and believe me its no fun at all!! The first is normally just a little but your second and so on gush blood I hate it!!!

aww huni.. trust us here.. dont rush it..

dont rush your period...I was the last one of my friends to get and and they all thought I was lucky. and dont try to break you hymen you could hurt yourself really bad.